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  • slorey
    Daycare.com Member
    • Feb 2013
    • 199

    Advice Needed Please!

    I will try to keep this as short as possible, but have known to be long winded so I apologize if it ends up being long

    Anyway, I have been open for 5 years and have had my only current family the entire time. DH lost his job this past Friday. That means basically no income, no health insurance, etc! Thankfully they agreed to give him a small severance and will be paying him through the end of December. DH has been looking for a new job for over a month with no luck (we knew this was coming, his new boss was making a paper trail over the last almost 2 months so he could fire him - that's a long story).

    Anyway, we can not survive on the income I make from 1 dck. We have 3 children ages 2,7,10. I am contemplating closing the daycare and substitute teaching to try to make at least a little more than I currently make. My heart breaks to think that I will have to put my baby in daycare and not be home with him during the day, but I would like to try to get my foot back in the door for teaching. Plus, unless I get at least 20 days of service credit in a public school this school year, I will lose my teacher's retirement membership (I was a teacher for 4 years). That means if I do teach again, I think I have to start again at a higher tier, which is not as good for the benefits.

    Anyway, my concerns are that it is not guaranteed income, and after paying someone to watch my little one all day and my other 2 before/after school, I don't think I will come out that much further ahead than what I am now. I have been wanting to close due to being burned out and my heart just not being into doing daycare for at least the last year, but was going to try to make it until my youngest started kg, and then find a part-time daytime job. I don't want to jump into this though just so I can alleviate my feelings of burnout. I know ultimately my decision has to be made by me, but I have always respected the advice on this board, so I am hoping you can offer some ideas, positives, negatives, things I am not thinking of, etc. I also hate to abandon my dc family and leave them without child care in the middle of the school year, as I committed to watching her for the year.

    Clearly at that time we could not predict something like this would happen but I still feel bad. It will most likely take at least a month to get an interview with the sub service program in our area, so I will most likely not even be able to start subbing until mid-Jan or later. What would you ladies (and gentlemen) do in my position? I am so stressed trying to figure out what to do!!
    Last edited by Blackcat31; 11-25-2013, 03:10 PM.
  • hope
    Daycare.com Member
    • Feb 2013
    • 1513

    #2
    I'm sorry you are in this position. It sounds to me like you would make less substitute teaching than you would doing daycare. Would DH be able to watch the kids if he still didn't find a new position? I would think down the line you would make more if you wanted to return to teaching full time. If this is your ultimate goal than you should do it. You can always get a part time night or weekend job when DH can watch kids to make up any extra being that you are not guaranteed a steady schedule. Best of luck!

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    • Scout
      Daycare.com Member
      • Aug 2012
      • 1774

      #3
      I agree with the pp. I would rather look for something steadier than rely on a position that may or may not need me frequently. I am not sure how often you would be needed as a sub. If you did want to go back to teaching I would apply for jobs for the next school year and find an evening job in the mean time to make ends meet. You don't need to be putting money into savings, just making it! I hope everything works out and your DH is not without his job for very long...can he collect unemployment?

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      • TwinKristi
        Family Childcare Provider
        • Aug 2013
        • 2390

        #4
        What about working at a preschool or childcare center? Maybe your youngest could get a discount on tuition and your older 2 can be home after school for a short period of time once your dh finds a job? Does your school have an on-site after school program? I worked at a gym in their childcare dept and aside from having to work with some serious morons it was pretty fun. Finding daycare after being a provider is tough! :-( Good luck

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        • coolconfidentme
          Daycare.com Member
          • Oct 2012
          • 1541

          #5
          Can DH substitute until he finds something? idk

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          • slorey
            Daycare.com Member
            • Feb 2013
            • 199

            #6
            I thought about looking for something more steady than substituting. The main reason I was considering subbing is because I do not want to lose my teacher retirement membership in case I do teach full time again. It is hard right now to figure out what to do because I have no idea what job my dh will get and what requirements there will be as far as hours are concerned.
            The subbing thing seemed like a logical choice because I would also be working on a school schedule, so will not need to find care on school breaks. My DH is only approved as an emergency sub for my daycare, so yes, he could cover for me but it is supposed to be for non-recurring short absences. One of the big things holding me back is the possibility of having an inconsistent income.
            Daycare centers around here do not pay enough to make it worthwhile for me to even consider. I used to do that before and the highest salary I got was $8/hr. Wouldn't be too bad if I didn't have to pay full time child care from it. Our school does have a before/after care program, but it is around $100/week per child.

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            • Soccermom
              Dazed and confused...
              • Mar 2012
              • 625

              #7
              I know you mentioned your heart not being into DC anymore but it is my experience that the less DCKS you have, the harder it seems to be. I know that sounds silly but it is true Especially with SA kids. If you have a couple of them, they tend to entertain themselves and SA is ideal because they are only there in the afternoons.

              I guess you have to think about what you really want. I know deep down you really want to be home with your baby. Having a baby in DC is no fun....trust me, I've been there. It was so hard.

              I would suggest taking in some SA kids to help make ends meet while your DH looks for work. It will be easier if you are home anyway. Depending how the job market is in your area, he could be working shifts if that is all he can find in the meantime.

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