Anyone Have Experience With Preemies

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  • littlemissmuffet
    Advanced Daycare.com Member
    • Jan 2011
    • 2194

    #16
    Originally posted by MotherNature
    Preemies & preterm babies can & usually do lag behind, but I think 15 mos not taking a sippy is a bit odd as well, but not super weird. The kid's adjusted age could be around 13 mos, which I don't think is weird to still be transitioning to a sippy cup at all. The markers for full-term pregnancy were recently (last month) declared to be between 39-40.5 weeks. Anything before 37 weeks is now considered an early birth. My son was born at 35 weeks & has yet to catch up weight & height wise. At age 3, he's the size of a one year old, but we've many tests down to discover the cause & he's under the care of a geneticist, an endo, and our naturalist MD. Aside from being slightly lagged in gross motor, he's ahead of the game on everything else for both his actual & adjusted age. Maybe mom's lazy, but I'd work witht he parents to try & figure out what's going on. Since the kid takes a regular cup fine, maybe he's just having a hard time mastering the straw **** motion or confused by the spout.
    Though this is true, the primary reason for the change was to deter the increase of unnecessary elective c-sections that patients are requesting and doctors are approving. I know of many medical professionals who specialize in pre-term birth who very much disagree with this change.

    The OP didn't mention any delays or growth issues - so I feel like this mom is just using the child's prematurity as an excuse. The child can drink from a cup - he's obviously not delayed. You could be right that he may be confused by the sippy cup spout - but again, that has nothing to do with prematurity.

    OP, the topic of how much milk a toddler needs is completely dependent on the child and the doctor. Many peds will tell a mother of a healthy full-term child that a child over 12 months doesn't need more than 8oz of milk a day as long as they are eating solids regularily; some will say 16oz is necessary, others still will recommend 24oz or more. So though, I know that 24oz of milk seems too much (and in my opinion absolutely is if this child is eating solids and other dairy products) the mom may have been recommended this particular amount by the child's doc or nutritionist.

    I still believe the mother is either being lazy and using the child's prematurity as an excuse for not training the child on a sippy - but to be honest, many of my 12 month old children who start here are still on bottles at home and sometimes are still given bottles up until age 2!! I personally don't care what the parents do at home, but I don't allow bottles here at all, so I train the child to use a sippy here. They will usually refuse them the first two days but learn very quickly that if they don't take it they simply go without - and do learn to take it (never had a kid not). Don't offer him bottles, and unless you're ready to let him have a cup unsupervised stop offering that as well. Only offer a sippy and see what happens over the next few days (make sure he's eating plenty of foods that contain liquid in the meantime).

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    • childcaremom
      Advanced Daycare.com Member
      • May 2013
      • 2955

      #17
      Op, does this mom want her child on the bottle for the ****ing, or for the nutrition? If it's for the nutrition, he is still able to get it from a cup as easily as he can from the bottle. I would just gently point out that he will drink from a cup for you so that is what you are going to do while he is in your care.

      Unless it's the cup you have an issue with and want him on a sippy? I know even with some of my dcks (who are all full term), some dcks find certain cups easier than others to drink from so I have a variety to try with them.

      My daughter was a prem and I know that she had some issues with certain bottles but we were able to resolve those with a therapist.

      Good luck!

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      • morgan24
        Daycare.com Member
        • Feb 2011
        • 694

        #18
        Originally posted by childcaremom
        Op, does this mom want her child on the bottle for the ****ing, or for the nutrition? If it's for the nutrition, he is still able to get it from a cup as easily as he can from the bottle. I would just gently point out that he will drink from a cup for you so that is what you are going to do while he is in your care.

        Unless it's the cup you have an issue with and want him on a sippy? I know even with some of my dcks (who are all full term), some dcks find certain cups easier than others to drink from so I have a variety to try with them.

        My daughter was a prem and I know that she had some issues with certain bottles but we were able to resolve those with a therapist.

        Good luck!
        He doesn't need it for nutrition, he eats a good breakfast and lunch for me and he likes everything. I think he hates the sippy cup here because they use a bottle at home. Yesterday I gave him the sippy cup and when he threw it on the floor I just took it. He did take a few drinks of it so I know he can drink for one, just doesn't like it. I give him a few drinks out of a cup when he is done eating. I stopped the bottle when he was 13 months which was close to his due date. I know she uses the bottle as a pacifer, any time he cries at home he gets a bottle.

        I take everyone off the bottle at one, dcps all know that when they start. I don't care what they do at home. Now that I have gotten so much information about preemies I'm seeing that DCM uses the preemie excuse for everything, that's why he can't use the sippy cup, that's why he doesn't walk yet, that's why he doesn't sleep all night.

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