My Child Was Abused

[Familycare71]

I wonder why they reported it to their insurance and not anyone else?


You did great and the right thing for your son and family. happyface


I wish you the best of luck!! Keep us updated :hug:

I hope the after school program and the school get into HUGE trouble for not reporting it!!!!

[countrymom]

also report it to childrens aid and who ever regulates them Someone must regulate them. Go above the school principal and report what happened to anyone that will listen. also curiouse, why would they contact their insurance company.

[Unregistered]

I hope the after school program and the school get into HUGE trouble for not reporting it!!!!

I do too. This is all baffling to me. It's like you put a "What not to do" book together and they followed it to a T.

I think the shock has finally worn off. I'm pretty much completely pissed off at this point and hurting for both kids. Such a strange feeling to hurt for a child who did this to my son but I'm worried for him. I'm just glad this is blowing up now and he hopefully gets help. It does not appear that they are messing around or sitting on this whih is the biggest relief I have had through all of this.

DCS has called me again this morning and told me they are having the other boy evaluated next week. They are also having me bring my son in for questions regarding what all has taken place with the boy.

[Familycare71]

I do too. This is all baffling to me. It's like you put a "What not to do" book together and they followed it to a T.

I think the shock has finally worn off. I'm pretty much completely pissed off at this point and hurting for both kids. Such a strange feeling to hurt for a child who did this to my son but I'm worried for him. I'm just glad this is blowing up now and he hopefully gets help. It does not appear that they are messing around or sitting on this whih is the biggest relief I have had through all of this.

DCS has called me again this morning and told me they are having the other boy evaluated next week. They are also having me bring my son in for questions regarding what all has taken place with the boy.

:hug:

And you should be pissed!!!
I totally get that you feel for the other child- he is obviously in need of help!
I too am grateful that the authorities are taking is seriously- because it is serious!

[Unregistered]

Does anyone know... if this is a facility do they usually shut them down? Is it temporary or is it permanently?

I know if I failed to report in my home daycare I would lose my ability to have this business but I have been wondering ... what if it is a facility? Do they just require them to retrain and fine them... or fire the people and rehire? I'm kind of curious what will happen...

I am assuming that DCS is probably removing the child from the program and possibly the school for the safety of all the other children. I was curious though if the facility has to tell all the other parents what is happening. I think they all should know some how but for liability reasons we were instructed to let DCS and law enforcement to handle everything.

[Unregistered]

Report It!!!

My 4 year old child was being sexually assaulted by a 5 year old, from an unknown start time until mid Dec, when a teacher finally caught him. This was actually happening in the care of the YMCA. I'm struggling to get anything done, but I can tell you, don't give up. Call PD, CPS, CCL, Office of Consumer Affairs, Local News, etc.

[Lucy]

My 4 year old child was being sexually assaulted by a 5 year old, from an unknown start time until mid Dec, when a teacher finally caught him. This was actually happening in the care of the YMCA. I'm struggling to get anything done, but I can tell you, don't give up. Call PD, CPS, CCL, Office of Consumer Affairs, Local News, etc.

This is a 3 month old thread. If the OP is still reading, is there an update?

[mjzzyzoff]

I have no.other.options.

Depending upon your states regulations, homeschooling may be an option. You could at least do it just for now, and see if you can work out other arrangements in the future if you decided to send him back.

Things like this are why I homeschool.