This may be more of a vent, but if you have any insight/advice, it would be appreciated.
So, I woke up this morning around 2:00am and couldn't go back to sleep until around 6:00am. I currently have only one dcc, and her mom has Tuesdays off. So I turned off my alarm and went to catch a couple hours of sleep.
Just before 8:00, my oldest dd came in to my room and woke me saying that there was some lady knocking on our door. She didn't answer it. Just as I was groggily trying to process this information, my phone rang. I let the answering machine get it, and sure enough, it was licensing. I called her back after my brain woke up. She sounded very irritated that I didn't answer the door. I explained that 1.) I am off on Tuesdays and 2.) I didn't sleep well last night, so I was asleep when she came. She asked if I am still operating. I explained that as of right now, I only have 1 child enrolled (which in CA, does not require a license). She told me I needed to "make up my mind" as to if I am going to keep my license and if so, I need to be available for random visits. Okay, I get it. Then she asked when I am available. I told her afternoons are better because we go out on frequent outings in the mornings and come back to the house in the afternoons for lunch and nap. Her response was, "Last time I was there in the afternoon, and you weren't there." I said, "Hmmm. That must have been on a Tuesday. That is when my children and I will go run errands or otherwise go somewhere." (Last Tuesday, we decided after lunch to go to the zoo.) Then she said that that is why she came by so early this morning, to change it up. I again apologized for not answering the door this morning.
I really didn't like the way the conversation went. Not so much what she said, but how she said it. I tried my best to be upbeat and cheerful, but I felt as if she thought I was hiding from her or lying to her about something. The conversation really upset me. We are at the house more than we are out. I understand that her office is an hour's drive away from my town, so it is probably frustrating for her to make the drive and not be able to accomplish everything she needs to. But is it my problem that when she comes by, it happens to be when we are out?
So, I woke up this morning around 2:00am and couldn't go back to sleep until around 6:00am. I currently have only one dcc, and her mom has Tuesdays off. So I turned off my alarm and went to catch a couple hours of sleep.
Just before 8:00, my oldest dd came in to my room and woke me saying that there was some lady knocking on our door. She didn't answer it. Just as I was groggily trying to process this information, my phone rang. I let the answering machine get it, and sure enough, it was licensing. I called her back after my brain woke up. She sounded very irritated that I didn't answer the door. I explained that 1.) I am off on Tuesdays and 2.) I didn't sleep well last night, so I was asleep when she came. She asked if I am still operating. I explained that as of right now, I only have 1 child enrolled (which in CA, does not require a license). She told me I needed to "make up my mind" as to if I am going to keep my license and if so, I need to be available for random visits. Okay, I get it. Then she asked when I am available. I told her afternoons are better because we go out on frequent outings in the mornings and come back to the house in the afternoons for lunch and nap. Her response was, "Last time I was there in the afternoon, and you weren't there." I said, "Hmmm. That must have been on a Tuesday. That is when my children and I will go run errands or otherwise go somewhere." (Last Tuesday, we decided after lunch to go to the zoo.) Then she said that that is why she came by so early this morning, to change it up. I again apologized for not answering the door this morning.
I really didn't like the way the conversation went. Not so much what she said, but how she said it. I tried my best to be upbeat and cheerful, but I felt as if she thought I was hiding from her or lying to her about something. The conversation really upset me. We are at the house more than we are out. I understand that her office is an hour's drive away from my town, so it is probably frustrating for her to make the drive and not be able to accomplish everything she needs to. But is it my problem that when she comes by, it happens to be when we are out?
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