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  • lovemylife
    Daycare.com Member
    • Aug 2013
    • 187

    Please Read

    First off I want to apologize for what happened last night!!!

    I had some people over last night and one of them decided to post on here. Either to stir up trouble or as a joke. I had no idea until this morning when I tried to get on. I then created another username so I could find out why I was banned. I talked to Blackcat and I figured out what happened.

    Again I am so sorry and I really hope no one is mad at me!
  • Michael
    Founder & Owner-Daycare.com
    • Aug 2007
    • 7946

    #2
    We run a pretty tight ship here. Suggest you password protect your gear.

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    • lovemylife
      Daycare.com Member
      • Aug 2013
      • 187

      #3
      Originally posted by Michael
      We run a pretty tight ship here. Suggest you password protect your gear.
      I have now!!!
      Thank you!

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      • littlemissmuffet
        Advanced Daycare.com Member
        • Jan 2011
        • 2194

        #4
        Really?

        I understand that you are embarassed - and you should be - but please don't patronize the members here by giving some bs apology and excusing your childish behavior by blaming someone else.

        You and your supposed rude guest were commenting within minutes of eachother on the same thread... (8:17pm, 8:20pm). Also, interesting that you and your supposed rude guest have identical styles of writing.

        Just stop.

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        • lovemylife
          Daycare.com Member
          • Aug 2013
          • 187

          #5
          Originally posted by littlemissmuffet
          Really?

          I understand that you are embarassed - and you should be - but please don't patronize the members here by giving some bs apology and excusing your childish behavior by blaming someone else.

          You and your supposed rude guest were commenting within minutes of eachother on the same thread... (8:17pm, 8:20pm). Also, interesting that you and your supposed rude guest have identical styles of writing.

          Just stop.

          I'm sorry you feel that way. I can not make anyone believe me but I know it is the truth. Which is why I tried so hard to get my username unbanned. All I can do is try to earn trust! Because I am a good person and if given time maybe You and others will see that.

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          • TheGoodLife
            Home Daycare Provider
            • Feb 2012
            • 1372

            #6
            Originally posted by lovemylife
            I'm sorry you feel that way. I can not make anyone believe me but I know it is the truth. Which is why I tried so hard to get my username unbanned. All I can do is try to earn trust! Because I am a good person and if given time maybe You and others will see that.
            WOW, I got a good laugh over the whole thing when I was reading it yesterday (very obviously fake) but that was pretty silly to do as a registered user and not a troll. This is a respectful forum and it's sad to have actual members here act so hard to rile people up and cause trouble!

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            • Willow
              Advanced Daycare.com Member
              • May 2012
              • 2683

              #7
              Originally posted by littlemissmuffet
              Really?

              I understand that you are embarassed - and you should be - but please don't patronize the members here by giving some bs apology and excusing your childish behavior by blaming someone else.

              You and your supposed rude guest were commenting within minutes of eachother on the same thread... (8:17pm, 8:20pm). Also, interesting that you and your supposed rude guest have identical styles of writing.

              Just stop.


              Genuine ownership and an apology is one thing to consider, lying however, implies a completely different intent....

              It insults the intelligence of everyone here.

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              • Willow
                Advanced Daycare.com Member
                • May 2012
                • 2683

                #8
                Originally posted by lovemylife
                I'm sorry you feel that way. I can not make anyone believe me but I know it is the truth. Which is why I tried so hard to get my username unbanned. All I can do is try to earn trust! Because I am a good person and if given time maybe You and others will see that.
                I know I never will.

                At least until you decide to be honest.


                The truth is incredibly obvious based on your writing style and the fact that "your account" logged in and out several times during the thread.


                I can get over the ridiculousness, but can never trust a liar. If you don't tell the truth my bet is there will be a load of users who will block you, and you won't be left with many that'll be willing to converse with you.

                Take a deep breath, and just get it out.

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                • lovemylife
                  Daycare.com Member
                  • Aug 2013
                  • 187

                  #9
                  I have been honest. I'm sorry you guys don't believe me. If it was me, why would I come back? Why would I set myself up to be "yelled" at and put down? That to me doesn't make sense. I will go ahead and move on. Thank you for your time and advice on things.

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                  • Willow
                    Advanced Daycare.com Member
                    • May 2012
                    • 2683

                    #10
                    Originally posted by lovemylife
                    I have been honest. I'm sorry you guys don't believe me. If it was me, why would I come back? Why would I set myself up to be "yelled" at and put down? That to me doesn't make sense. I will go ahead and move on. Thank you for your time and advice on things.
                    Can you explain how the styles are the exact same?

                    Or how the "troll" was able to log in and out and post under your name within minutes of each other?

                    Or how you had no idea the people in your home would do such a thing? Who was it anyway? Friends? Relatives? And why they were able to access your computer for that long without you knowing?

                    Can you see why there are people who are skeptical?

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                    • daycare
                      Advanced Daycare.com *********
                      • Feb 2011
                      • 16259

                      #11
                      I do want to believe you. But I guess my only question would be how did your guest know the password to your daycare.com account to be able to log in and out?

                      If someone else did it, please do ask Michael and lock your stuff up. If you did do it, just be honest with yourself. If you can do that then we can forgive.


                      I hope that things get better for you soon.:hug:
                      Last edited by Michael; 09-18-2013, 06:17 PM.

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                      • blandino
                        Daycare.com member
                        • Sep 2012
                        • 1613

                        #12
                        Originally posted by littlemissmuffet
                        Really?

                        I understand that you are embarassed - and you should be - but please don't patronize the members here by giving some bs apology and excusing your childish behavior by blaming someone else.

                        You and your supposed rude guest were commenting within minutes of eachother on the same thread... (8:17pm, 8:20pm). Also, interesting that you and your supposed rude guest have identical styles of writing.

                        Just stop.
                        I am normally pretty forgiving. However Little Miss Muffet has a valid point. Posting at both 8:17 & 8:20 indicates something different. Maybe, possibly, if a different computer were used that could explain it - but that also doesn't make sense with your story.

                        I think most members believe that it was you who posted both. Regardless, even from the stand point that you did act as the troll, your willingness to come back and apologize indicates that this forum is important to you, and I would have a hard time cutting someone off from a social circle/outlet that means so much to them - so much that they would cause drama just for entertainment's sake. Clearly, if someone was to do that, they are clearly seeking interaction. So, I will respond in the same way whether it was or was not you.

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                        • Unregistered

                          #13
                          No harm was done & some entertainment was had. Thinking most of us suspected it was a joke or a troll. We made the choice to take the bait or not.

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                          • Childminder
                            Advanced Daycare.com Member
                            • Oct 2009
                            • 1500

                            #14
                            I find it sad that you have so little of value in your life that you feel the need to try and create drama . I feel sorry for you.

                            That being said it was the best laugh I've had in a long time.
                            I see little people.

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                            • sahm1225
                              Advanced Daycare.com Member
                              • Jun 2010
                              • 2060

                              #15
                              I think everyone would've had a bigger laugh if you just admitted during the post that you were just teasing or having fun. Reminding us that it could always be worse...

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