So Angry

[Josiegirl]

OMG complete lack of respect for your rules, your home, everything. I have something written in my handbook and policies saying disrespecting my home, property, my rules, is grounds for immediate termination at my discretion. Good luck with the dcm, please let us know how it goes. Take our strength with you when you tell her.

[MotherNature]

I would not have termed over mom and the kids being in my room (DCK's are not allowed in my room, either). I would have just freaked out on Mom about it. I would DEFINITELY term over the "back talk" from Mom about "of course you allow children in your room". I am quite certain I would have just told her to get out of my house and not come back.

**I** am practically fuming over the TOTAL disrespect that you, a stranger, got about this situation. I can just not imagine what kind of an idiot that Mom is to fight with you over the rules of YOUR home! Best of luck to you with this situation.

agreed. I can't believe she got sassy with you. I would have been so embarrassed..asked if I could dry clean them, etc...Welcome to the forum!

[EntropyControlSpecialist]

agreed. I can't believe she got sassy with you. I would have been so embarrassed..asked if I could dry clean them, etc...Welcome to the forum!

Ditto!

[Maria2013]

I am going to term them. I have had soooo many issues with this family over the last year but this is my last straw!

:hug:

[Starburst]

I am new to this forum and just registered because I am about to blow!

I'm going to apologize ahead of time because I am fuming! DCM lost her job and brings 4 year old dcb only 2 days a week until she finds a new job. Today he was acting out all day. As soon as my DD got home he started harassing, teasing and hitting her. I sent my daughter upstairs to play so they could have time away and mom was going to be here in 15 minutes. Dcb cried because he wanted to go upstairs and I said no. Mom and 10 year old sister get here and he has a meltdown. Then my new dc dad comes to pick up the baby. Talking to him over screaming child. Then the sister goes upstairs. I told her no and she didn't listen, then the boy goes upstairs again I told him no. Mom sits there and does nothing. Talk to new parent for a few minutes when the MOM goes upstairs! I told new parent I'm sorry but I have to go deal with this. Go upstairs and they are ALL IN MY ROOM! The sister and dcb jumping on MY bed!!! The one I just purchased with muddy shoes! Mom acts like it is no big deal. I have never been so livid!

That is not only irresponsible on her side, but disrespectful as well. You have every right to be upset. If you didn't term them I would definitely put them on an immediate "1 strike and you're out" probation! If the sister isn't in your program you should also tell mom that the sister is not allowed past the front door (you can also say it has to do with your insurance not covering non-enrolled children) and for now on make sure DCB is ready to leave right away.

[msblake]

That is not only irresponsible on her side, but disrespectful as well. You have every right to be upset. If you didn't term them I would definitely put them on an immediate "1 strike and you're out" probation! If the sister isn't in your program you should also tell mom that the sister is not allowed past the front door (you can also say it has to do with your insurance not covering non-enrolled children) and for now on make sure DCB is ready to leave right away.

I am going to terminate the family. I was going to do it today when she dropped off the payment but she never showed. I checked my mailbox and there the payment was. So I think she knows that I am going to terminate.

[Familycare71]

I am going to terminate the family. I was going to do it today when she dropped off the payment but she never showed. I checked my mailbox and there the payment was. So I think she knows that I am going to terminate.

Now you can do it by phone and follow up with a letter.

[Maria2013]

Now you can do it by phone and follow up with a letter.