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Dcb is going on his 3rd week here and the dcm mentioned during pick-up today that they are having some issues at home since he started daycare. Mainly, he gets really upset when he has to leave here and he throws a temper tantrum on the way home (they live very close, so the tantrum is about 5 minutes long). For the remaining time at home before bed time, he gets into everything and acts ornery. The dcm told me this is out of the ordinary for her and she was wondering what his behavior is here.....also what he is eating and if he is napping ok because he seems very tired.
He is a such a sweet boy while here (minus some very minor and normal behavior for a 19 month old boy) and has had very little issues adjusting to our routine. He has been nannied at home up until now and this is his first time in an environment outside of his home and with other children. As far as her questions, I told her that he is very good for me and follows directions. Obviously he is not perfect and does partake in occasional boy and 19-month old behavior issues, but it's completely normal and manageable. He naps great for me (3+ hours) and goes down without a fuss and wakes up happy. He is very tired right before the nap because he used to nap at 11:30/12-ish and we don't go down until 1 pm (in his case, I usually put him to sleep 15-30 minutes early). He eats ok, although he has a preference for fruit, veggies and milk. He doesn't eat very many grains or meat, but enough to satisfy me. I'm very drama-free at meals, but require the children to try 1-2 bites of everything on their plate, which he eats at least that much on his own. He is off the growth charts so I personally don't think there are any dietary things to be concerned about.
To be honest, I think it's just the change of environment and a LOT more activity than he is used to resulting in some over-stimulation and exhaustion. In my personal experience, all of this settles down within a month or so of the child attending. It's also common for his age group to start acting out.....I've always said that terrible two's are not terrible at all....it's the 18 month to 24 month age group that can be a challenge. I told her all of this but I think she is still concerned and wants some reaffirmation. Short of video taping and sending more consistent daily reports (something I don't normally do as it is time intensive and opens myself up to unnecessary scrutiny), I don't know of anything else I can do to prove to her that this environment is good for him versus a one-on-one nanny atmosphere at home.
Does anyone have any suggestions? Thanks in advance!
He is a such a sweet boy while here (minus some very minor and normal behavior for a 19 month old boy) and has had very little issues adjusting to our routine. He has been nannied at home up until now and this is his first time in an environment outside of his home and with other children. As far as her questions, I told her that he is very good for me and follows directions. Obviously he is not perfect and does partake in occasional boy and 19-month old behavior issues, but it's completely normal and manageable. He naps great for me (3+ hours) and goes down without a fuss and wakes up happy. He is very tired right before the nap because he used to nap at 11:30/12-ish and we don't go down until 1 pm (in his case, I usually put him to sleep 15-30 minutes early). He eats ok, although he has a preference for fruit, veggies and milk. He doesn't eat very many grains or meat, but enough to satisfy me. I'm very drama-free at meals, but require the children to try 1-2 bites of everything on their plate, which he eats at least that much on his own. He is off the growth charts so I personally don't think there are any dietary things to be concerned about.
To be honest, I think it's just the change of environment and a LOT more activity than he is used to resulting in some over-stimulation and exhaustion. In my personal experience, all of this settles down within a month or so of the child attending. It's also common for his age group to start acting out.....I've always said that terrible two's are not terrible at all....it's the 18 month to 24 month age group that can be a challenge. I told her all of this but I think she is still concerned and wants some reaffirmation. Short of video taping and sending more consistent daily reports (something I don't normally do as it is time intensive and opens myself up to unnecessary scrutiny), I don't know of anything else I can do to prove to her that this environment is good for him versus a one-on-one nanny atmosphere at home.
Does anyone have any suggestions? Thanks in advance!
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