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  • melilley
    Daycare.com Member
    • Oct 2012
    • 5155

    #16
    I would keep going down the list and like pp mentioned, drive by! I am a worrier and I would be worried about this family if it were one of my dcf's!
    I have a family here that is going through a divorce. Dcm said that dcd is abusive and enough is enough so she left. Well one day they didn't show up on time. Thank goodness they eventually did. I was so worried that something happened and that's all I could think about! (dcd has a green card and is Canadian so I was worried that he somehow got the child and took him back there or one of his family members did)

    Also like pp's have said, if they didn't want their family members to hear of things, then they should have said something to you!

    Let us know what happened!

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    • Lyss
      Chaos Coordinator :)
      • Apr 2012
      • 1429

      #17
      Did you ever hear from them or find out what was up?

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      • daycare
        Advanced Daycare.com *********
        • Feb 2011
        • 16259

        #18
        I finally got in touch with one grandma. Guess DCk has been with her since Sunday and both parents have been Mia since then.

        G-ma said sorry a million times said she wish she would have thought to call me.

        I told her it was not her responsibility and told her I was very very worried. She understood and shared in my concerns. So as of right now at least I know dck is ok. I have No clue what is going one with dcp........


        Guess ill have to wait and see....

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        • Familycare71
          Daycare.com Member
          • Apr 2011
          • 1716

          #19
          Originally posted by daycare
          I finally got in touch with one grandma. Guess DCk has been with her since Sunday and both parents have been Mia since then.

          G-ma said sorry a million times said she wish she would have thought to call me.

          I told her it was not her responsibility and told her I was very very worried. She understood and shared in my concerns. So as of right now at least I know dck is ok. I have No clue what is going one with dcp........


          Guess ill have to wait and see....
          Wow!!!
          At least you know dck is ok!! Did grandma seem surprised or worried??

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          • Childminder
            Advanced Daycare.com Member
            • Oct 2009
            • 1500

            #20
            Witness protection program! Idk, :confused:
            I see little people.

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            • daycare
              Advanced Daycare.com *********
              • Feb 2011
              • 16259

              #21
              I have soooo many mixed emotions. I don't know what to think

              Grandma just felt bad I was worried

              I just landed in ATL. I'm sooooo over work right now. Ugh.

              Thanks ladies for your help. I wish more parents could be considerate of our feelings and position in their child's life. But one can always wish........

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              • SilverSabre25
                Senior Member
                • Aug 2010
                • 7585

                #22
                ((hugs)) What a yucky thing to deal with as you leave on your vacation! I'm glad you got in touch and that dck is okay. I can't imagine just leaving my kid like that....people are SO WEIRD.
                Hee hee! Look, I have a signature!

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                • daycare
                  Advanced Daycare.com *********
                  • Feb 2011
                  • 16259

                  #23
                  Totally off subject but how do you only have 5900 post....

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                  • Familycare71
                    Daycare.com Member
                    • Apr 2011
                    • 1716

                    #24
                    Originally posted by daycare
                    I have soooo many mixed emotions. I don't know what to think

                    Grandma just felt bad I was worried

                    I just landed in ATL. I'm sooooo over work right now. Ugh.

                    Thanks ladies for your help. I wish more parents could be considerate of our feelings and position in their child's life. But one can always wish........
                    :hug: enjoy your vacation - at least you know dck is safe

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                    • MsLaura529
                      New Daycare.com Member
                      • Feb 2013
                      • 859

                      #25
                      Glad to hear that DCK is safe, and that Grandma at least seemed apologetic.

                      Have a great vacation!

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                      • Josiegirl
                        Daycare.com Member
                        • Jun 2013
                        • 10834

                        #26
                        Just wondering if you've heard anything from this family yet? It seems very strange. I couldn't picture a family you've had that length of time cutting off communication with no explanation. I guess as well as we think we might know our dcfs, we really don't.

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