New dcb 12 months old starting in two weeks. Mom, dad and baby boy came for an interview/visit several months ago. (This was in April)
They knew two of my other families from the past who were on my list of references and checked them out. After their initial visit they were very happy to be bringing their baby here. I really liked the mom, dad and baby. All were great! Baby boy looks very well adjusted and overall peaceful and happy!
I also spoke with the past dcps who gave the great referrals for me who said the parents were great as well, so of course I accepted them on.
Now baby boy 11 months will be starting in two weeks. I receive a phone call today, (voice message as I was busy & did not answer the phone)
Mom wants to "visit" next week with her, dad and baby. I hate this and do not want to do it. How do I tell her NO!
I know it is going to be disruptive. I have one dcg 13 months who cries every.single.time there is a drop off or pick up. She is very sensitive to this. I can not have the mailman show up at my door or a delivery man, she looses it! Plus other dcb 3 who just has to get attention whenever someone else it here.
No way is this gonna happen but how do I tell mom no way in H*** is this gonna happen?
They knew two of my other families from the past who were on my list of references and checked them out. After their initial visit they were very happy to be bringing their baby here. I really liked the mom, dad and baby. All were great! Baby boy looks very well adjusted and overall peaceful and happy!
I also spoke with the past dcps who gave the great referrals for me who said the parents were great as well, so of course I accepted them on.
Now baby boy 11 months will be starting in two weeks. I receive a phone call today, (voice message as I was busy & did not answer the phone)
Mom wants to "visit" next week with her, dad and baby. I hate this and do not want to do it. How do I tell her NO!
I know it is going to be disruptive. I have one dcg 13 months who cries every.single.time there is a drop off or pick up. She is very sensitive to this. I can not have the mailman show up at my door or a delivery man, she looses it! Plus other dcb 3 who just has to get attention whenever someone else it here.
No way is this gonna happen but how do I tell mom no way in H*** is this gonna happen?
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