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  • ABCDaycareMN
    Mommy to 2
    • Oct 2012
    • 371

    Band-aids

    Do you give out band aids for feelings? Bandaid makes it all better. I don't

    I have my neighbors kids here today, and boy am I not in this game anymore! But the youngest one 3 yo got a tiny cut on Hand with no blood. He has been asking for a band aid for a half hour now.

    I don't want to give him one as there is no need for it. Am I being to harsh?
  • JoseyJo
    Group DCP in Kansas
    • Apr 2013
    • 964

    #2
    "We only need bandaids if there is blood, is there blood?" "No? Okay then, do you want an ice pack?"

    That's what we say! No blood, no bandaid, no exceptions

    We give ice packs for everything, daycare version of mommy's kisses. If they want it they can have it, w/ no drama from us over the "hurt". People with icepacks need to sit quietly w/ no toys or books (so they don't get wet if the ice pack condensates). When they are done they put the ice pack on the counter and can go play. If we have one who is doing it just for attention after about 10 minutes I will decide it is time to play a really cool game/activity and they are welcome to join when they feel better. ::

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    • EntropyControlSpecialist
      Embracing the chaos.
      • Mar 2012
      • 7466

      #3
      If there's no blood, there's no need for a band aid.

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      • Blackcat31
        • Oct 2010
        • 36124

        #4
        Originally posted by EntropyControlSpecialist
        If there's no blood, there's no need for a band aid.
        Same here....only the blood needs to be running out.....not just a tiny spot.

        I also refuse to give a Band-Aid if they picked off a scab. I tell them "I am certainly NOT going to give you a Band-Aid if you pick off the one God gave you."

        If I gave out Band-Aid's everytime a kid thought they "needed" one, I'd be out of business simply due to the cost alone ::

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        • JoseyJo
          Group DCP in Kansas
          • Apr 2013
          • 964

          #5
          If they say something like "mommy always gives me bandaids" I explain (just one time) that bandaids are made to soak up the blood and that owies heal better with out bandaids so if there is no blood it is better not to get one. Then we go back to "are you bleeding? No? Ice pack then!" ::::

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          • JoseyJo
            Group DCP in Kansas
            • Apr 2013
            • 964

            #6
            Originally posted by Blackcat31
            I tell them "I am certainly NOT going to give you a Band-Aid if you pick off the one God gave you."
            That is good! I'm stealing it and using it from now on!happyfacehappyface

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            • daycarediva
              Daycare.com Member
              • Jul 2012
              • 11698

              #7
              Originally posted by JoseyJo
              "We only need bandaids if there is blood, is there blood?" "No? Okay then, do you want an ice pack?"

              That's what we say! No blood, no bandaid, no exceptions

              We give ice packs for everything, daycare version of mommy's kisses. If they want it they can have it, w/ no drama from us over the "hurt". People with icepacks need to sit quietly w/ no toys or books (so they don't get wet if the ice pack condensates). When they are done they put the ice pack on the counter and can go play. If we have one who is doing it just for attention after about 10 minutes I will decide it is time to play a really cool game/activity and they are welcome to join when they feel better. ::
              this exactly.

              Originally posted by Blackcat31
              Same here....only the blood needs to be running out.....not just a tiny spot.

              I also refuse to give a Band-Aid if they picked off a scab. I tell them "I am certainly NOT going to give you a Band-Aid if you pick off the one God gave you."

              If I gave out Band-Aid's everytime a kid thought they "needed" one, I'd be out of business simply due to the cost alone ::
              Stealing this phrase! I have one that will pick a scab almost daily just to get another princess "boo-boo 'daid PWEEAAASEE 'tus is BWEEEEDIN!"

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              • WImom
                Advanced Daycare.com Member
                • Jun 2010
                • 1639

                #8
                Only if it's bleeding. I always offer an ice pack though and that seems to work around here.

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                • littlemissmuffet
                  Advanced Daycare.com Member
                  • Jan 2011
                  • 2194

                  #9
                  No blood no bandage!

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                  • AcornMama
                    Daycare.com Member
                    • Jun 2013
                    • 283

                    #10
                    What kind of ice pack do you all use that the kids can't make a mess out of. For my own kids I just throw ice in a zipper baggie, but that's easily opened. Looking ahead toward dc...what's a useful ice pack?

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                    • EntropyControlSpecialist
                      Embracing the chaos.
                      • Mar 2012
                      • 7466

                      #11
                      Originally posted by AcornMama
                      What kind of ice pack do you all use that the kids can't make a mess out of. For my own kids I just throw ice in a zipper baggie, but that's easily opened. Looking ahead toward dc...what's a useful ice pack?
                      For most of their booboos I use the little reusable ice cubes for drinks. :: They are small enough and can be sent through the dishwasher.

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                      • Familycare71
                        Daycare.com Member
                        • Apr 2011
                        • 1716

                        #12
                        Originally posted by AcornMama
                        What kind of ice pack do you all use that the kids can't make a mess out of. For my own kids I just throw ice in a zipper baggie, but that's easily opened. Looking ahead toward dc...what's a useful ice pack?
                        I use the gel re freezable ones wrapped in a paper towel... They have them in all sizes and they are pretty durable. If you want kid proof: get the hard plastic squares that are made to go in lunch boxes... They don't mold but they work
                        And friendly reminder: always put something between the skin and the Ice

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                        • AcornMama
                          Daycare.com Member
                          • Jun 2013
                          • 283

                          #13
                          Originally posted by Familycare71
                          And friendly reminder: always put something between the skin and the Ice
                          Yes, I use my older, thinning cotton kitchen towels for this.

                          I had tried the lunch box freezer thingies, but like you said, you can't really mold them around a bumped knee. Hadn't thought of the ice cube thingies. I wonder if they make them big enough to not be choking hazards.

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                          • blandino
                            Daycare.com member
                            • Sep 2012
                            • 1613

                            #14
                            I also only keep plain band-aids, that way they are much less "fun" and desirable.

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                            • MrsSteinel'sHouse
                              Daycare.com Member
                              • Aug 2012
                              • 1509

                              #15
                              Frozen sponges placed in ziplock bags and no I don't give bandaids unless there is blood or for hangnails etc.

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