My enabler dad of my SA age DCG that I have mentioned before with issues dropped off one day this week. Didn't say anything unusual. Dropped off. Nothing out of whack. The SA kids were playing outside. She didn't want to go out and play (Mainly cause I had a new SA child start and this child has some issues with changes and knew she would need time to accept) so I let her come in and watch some tv and wake up for the day. Nothing unusual. Fast forward....
My older kids are outside playing and I am in the kitchen watching and taking care of the littles and setting up for craft. My daughter comes running up and say "Mommy, XYZs daddy is outside". I look and do not see him and ask where. She leads me to the front windows and shows where he is sitting, not in my drive or in front of my house but in front of my neighbors house WATCHING THE KIDS. Just sitting with his truck running and watching the kids. Like they would not notice him in his RED TRUCK and point it out??? Don't get it. He sits for a little more and finally pulls up and comes to the door. Asks if his daughter is here (like where would she be? HE dropped her off!) and wants to speak with her. I send her to the door and he says "Everything ok?" And she is looking at him like 'huh?' but says "Yeah" (with a question in her tone) He looks at her. She looks at him and shrugs her shoulders and walks away. He is still standing there watching her leave. So I ask him if everything was ok. Was she sick or something (Cause she was one of my hand/foot/mouth kiddies brought sick and not telling me a few weeks ago. Thinking it was another slip in) No. Everything is fine. And he leaves.
So........you case out the yard :confused: ..... and lurk :confused:...... watching the kids and then come in to see if your daughter is here? Cause you think she went....where?:confused: You saw her come in. You saw her ask to watch tv.
It was about the weirdest thing. I have no clue why he would drive by. Why he would stop and lurk. Why he would ask if she was here. Why he would ask her if she was ok. And then walk away.
I have no clue what that was about but I am truly truly puzzled. And got to admit a little creeped out.
My older kids are outside playing and I am in the kitchen watching and taking care of the littles and setting up for craft. My daughter comes running up and say "Mommy, XYZs daddy is outside". I look and do not see him and ask where. She leads me to the front windows and shows where he is sitting, not in my drive or in front of my house but in front of my neighbors house WATCHING THE KIDS. Just sitting with his truck running and watching the kids. Like they would not notice him in his RED TRUCK and point it out??? Don't get it. He sits for a little more and finally pulls up and comes to the door. Asks if his daughter is here (like where would she be? HE dropped her off!) and wants to speak with her. I send her to the door and he says "Everything ok?" And she is looking at him like 'huh?' but says "Yeah" (with a question in her tone) He looks at her. She looks at him and shrugs her shoulders and walks away. He is still standing there watching her leave. So I ask him if everything was ok. Was she sick or something (Cause she was one of my hand/foot/mouth kiddies brought sick and not telling me a few weeks ago. Thinking it was another slip in) No. Everything is fine. And he leaves.
So........you case out the yard :confused: ..... and lurk :confused:...... watching the kids and then come in to see if your daughter is here? Cause you think she went....where?:confused: You saw her come in. You saw her ask to watch tv.
It was about the weirdest thing. I have no clue why he would drive by. Why he would stop and lurk. Why he would ask if she was here. Why he would ask her if she was ok. And then walk away.
I have no clue what that was about but I am truly truly puzzled. And got to admit a little creeped out.
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