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  • Brooksie
    Daycare.com Member
    • Oct 2012
    • 1315

    Oh It's Ok, Your Child Doesn't Need To Eat...

    So I'm not on the food program for financial and allergy reasons (DD) and parents are responsible for bringing their child breakfast (if they come before 8) and also lunch. I always fill out daily sheets for kids and made sure to not only write that dcb (14 mo) needed lunch items (she generally brings a few things and leaves it here so he has choices) but I also told her at pick up probably 3 times yesterday. This is my one family that I was having trouble with her bringing him at 9 in his pjs and hungry, just woken up. Today she did great, bringing him dressed and ready for the day (despite a wet diaper that had soaked through his shorts) and it was before the breakfast cut off. I immediately asked if she brought his lunch and she quickly said she would bring it on her way to work. She works at a salon and doesnt have to be there until 10. Shes also that dcm who stands here at pick up and drop off for 10-15 minutes just talking to dcb or showing me his tricks, idk what her issue is.

    So I figure by 9:45 she would be here with his food. We went about our morning. Circle time, outside time, choice time. Lunch starts at 10:40 because we do an early nap at 11:20. Well she never came back with his food!!! No message, no call, no show, no food. HUNGRY BABY. I was so irritated. I'm in a financial crisis atm and haven't really been eating much myself because I've been struggling to feed my daughter. I have NO spare food in the house. I had to dig through my freezer and find a Healthy Choice microwavable meal to give to him. Probably the only thing I could have made myself for dinner. He tore it up (normally he hates everything she packs him) so that was a plus. But I'm so freaking irritated. I just sent her a message saying "don't worry about bringing K's food. I fed him my lunch. Everyone is going down for naps." Still haven't gotten a reply. What I wanted to say was "Uh thanks for showing up and bringing your child food to eat. I had to give him the only thing left in my fridge that I could eat."

    I'll be telling her at pick-up, next time he gets dropped off without food I won't accept him until she bring him AND the food at the same time. So ridiculous.
  • daycare
    Advanced Daycare.com *********
    • Feb 2011
    • 16259

    #2
    you need to attach money to it...

    I would add this rule now.

    Should you fail to bring your child's lunch for the day, there will be a $10.00 inconvenience fee and food charge fee. YOu have to hold her accountable or she won't care and keep doing it.

    I am sorry you are in this situation...put your foot down and have her pay you every time she does not have the supplies OR you can send them home like you said

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    • momofboys
      Advanced Daycare Member
      • Dec 2009
      • 2560

      #3
      That stinks! I probably would have sent a text at 10 asking when his lunch was being brought. I wouldn't have said don't worry. Sorry this happened to you, definitely don't accept him again without the food. I would charge her a fee for the lunch!

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      • Lyss
        Chaos Coordinator :)
        • Apr 2012
        • 1429

        #4
        Originally posted by daycare
        you need to attach money to it...

        I would add this rule now.

        Should you fail to bring your child's lunch for the day, there will be a $10.00 inconvenience fee and food charge fee. YOu have to hold her accountable or she won't care and keep doing it.

        I am sorry you are in this situation...put your foot down and have her pay you every time she does not have the supplies OR you can send them home like you said

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        • MyAngels
          Member
          • Aug 2010
          • 4217

          #5
          Originally posted by daycare
          you need to attach money to it...

          I would add this rule now.

          Should you fail to bring your child's lunch for the day, there will be a $10.00 inconvenience fee and food charge fee. YOu have to hold her accountable or she won't care and keep doing it.

          I am sorry you are in this situation...put your foot down and have her pay you every time she does not have the supplies OR you can send them home like you said


          Plus in the future, if you're in the situation of basically having no extra food in the house (don't count your personal food in other words) I would not accept the child if they don't have their food.

          I'm so sorry that you're in a financial bind right now. :hug:

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          • NeedaVaca
            Daycare.com Member
            • Mar 2012
            • 2276

            #6
            I'm sorry to hear of you financial troubles. Try to buy food that will go a long way like rice, beans...a big bag will provide several meals! You can add veggies/chicken and it will really go far Hope things turn around fast for you! When things were tight for me my kids got no "junk snacks" like chips, cheez-its etc. They only got things like apples or bananas with peanut butter. About the same price and much more filling!

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            • Unregistered

              #7
              Originally posted by daycare
              you need to attach money to it...

              I would add this rule now.

              Should you fail to bring your child's lunch for the day, there will be a $10.00 inconvenience fee and food charge fee. YOu have to hold her accountable or she won't care and keep doing it.

              I am sorry you are in this situation...put your foot down and have her pay you every time she does not have the supplies OR you can send them home like you said
              This is absolutely what you need to do, and no 2nd chances. Tell her that you had to feed a convenience food to her child, and that there is a $10 charge for providing lunch. Tell her if she is to busy to provide meals, you are MORE than happy to cook for her child, but the charge is $10 per meal or snack.

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              • Crystal
                Advanced Daycare.com Member
                • Dec 2009
                • 4002

                #8
                I would avoid this and have all parents pay an additional weekly fee for food. This way you will not ever have that issues. I would charge what the food program would reimburse me, so approx. $5 per day, $25 per week for food.

                Today, I would have called Mom and demanded she pick him up because he had no food available.

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                • EntropyControlSpecialist
                  Embracing the chaos.
                  • Mar 2012
                  • 7466

                  #9
                  Originally posted by daycare
                  you need to attach money to it...

                  I would add this rule now.

                  Should you fail to bring your child's lunch for the day, there will be a $10.00 inconvenience fee and food charge fee. YOu have to hold her accountable or she won't care and keep doing it.

                  I am sorry you are in this situation...put your foot down and have her pay you every time she does not have the supplies OR you can send them home like you said
                  Absolutely!

                  I would also invoice her for the lunch YOU paid for today.

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                  • craftymissbeth
                    Legally Unlicensed
                    • May 2012
                    • 2385

                    #10
                    Originally posted by Crystal
                    I would avoid this and have all parents pay an additional weekly fee for food. This way you will not ever have that issues. I would charge what the food program would reimburse me, so approx. $5 per day, $25 per week for food.

                    Today, I would have called Mom and demanded she pick him up because he had no food available.
                    This.

                    Also, I know you're in a financial bind right now, but I would have termed immediately. This dcm doesn't care if her child has lunch!

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                    • itlw8
                      Daycare.com Member
                      • Jan 2012
                      • 2199

                      #11
                      send her a text and tell her it was YOUR dinner for tonight and to bring an exact one when she picks up tonight
                      It:: will wait

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                      • SunnyDay
                        Daycare.com Member
                        • Jan 2012
                        • 247

                        #12
                        Originally posted by itlw8
                        send her a text and tell her it was YOUR dinner for tonight and to bring an exact one when she picks up tonight

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                        • kathiemarie
                          Daycare.com Member
                          • Sep 2010
                          • 540

                          #13
                          Originally posted by itlw8
                          send her a text and tell her it was YOUR dinner for tonight and to bring an exact one when she picks up tonight
                          I like this!

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                          • Familycare71
                            Daycare.com Member
                            • Apr 2011
                            • 1716

                            #14
                            Originally posted by itlw8
                            send her a text and tell her it was YOUR dinner for tonight and to bring an exact one when she picks up tonight
                            Agree!!!

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                            • daycare
                              Advanced Daycare.com *********
                              • Feb 2011
                              • 16259

                              #15
                              Id ask for the money. If you charged $10 for each missed meal, that could put a lot of food in your fridge........

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