Need a bites help responding to a family that would like care.
Background: I have 1 opening for the fall. I had 2 interviews this past weekend (on the same day) both went well, I think both families could potentially be good fits. I let both families know the way my registration works. Basically it's a first come basis. I then received an email from family 1 later the same evening stating their interest, asking for refernces etc, came today for a quick observ. This being said, I do not hold spots for anyone until all forms are filled out and a deposit made (both families understand this), so I'm basically actively still in talks with family 1. Today, this afternoon family number 2 called and said they were interested and wanted me to send over the pp work so they could get started filling it out. I haven't responded yet.
Here's my concerns, the last two families that said they were interested and wanted all the paperwork ended up "changing their minds" at the last minute. In turn I had turned away other families who ended up finding are elsewhere. I don't want to get stuck again.
What do I say to family number 2? I have no problem letting family 1 know another family is also interested in the opening. Do you think I should give family 1 a timeframe (1-2 days) for a decision. And if so what do I tell family 2?
Background: I have 1 opening for the fall. I had 2 interviews this past weekend (on the same day) both went well, I think both families could potentially be good fits. I let both families know the way my registration works. Basically it's a first come basis. I then received an email from family 1 later the same evening stating their interest, asking for refernces etc, came today for a quick observ. This being said, I do not hold spots for anyone until all forms are filled out and a deposit made (both families understand this), so I'm basically actively still in talks with family 1. Today, this afternoon family number 2 called and said they were interested and wanted me to send over the pp work so they could get started filling it out. I haven't responded yet.
Here's my concerns, the last two families that said they were interested and wanted all the paperwork ended up "changing their minds" at the last minute. In turn I had turned away other families who ended up finding are elsewhere. I don't want to get stuck again.
What do I say to family number 2? I have no problem letting family 1 know another family is also interested in the opening. Do you think I should give family 1 a timeframe (1-2 days) for a decision. And if so what do I tell family 2?
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