Do You Feel Like Your Kids Are Harder Than The DCKs?

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  • LaLa1923
    mommyof5-and going crazy
    • Oct 2012
    • 1103

    Do You Feel Like Your Kids Are Harder Than The DCKs?

    Since school is out my Sa kids are home for the summer. I love them all but I swear they want to push me to the absolute brink of inanity. They really know how to push my buttons and they do not listen. My dck's are great they listen and they know the routine. My dck's take naps, but the sa kids don't.....ugh

    We go out at least twice a day. Inside the kids are running and screaming so we went outside. They just stood there complaining how hot it was!! ugh!

    Yesterday I had 10 kids here and it was ridiculous, 5 were mine and 5 dcks. Today is much better!!

    I hope everyone is having a good summer!!
  • Play Care
    Daycare.com Member
    • Dec 2012
    • 6642

    #2
    YES!!::

    I try to schedule lots of camps, lessons, etc for them to get them out without dc!
    But even still...

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    • Starburst
      Provider in Training
      • Jan 2013
      • 1522

      #3
      Originally posted by LaLa1923
      Since school is out my Sa kids are home for the summer. I love them all but I swear they want to push me to the absolute brink of inanity. They really know how to push my buttons and they do not listen. My dck's are great they listen and they know the routine. My dck's take naps, but the sa kids don't.....ugh
      Thats because the daycare kids see you as "Teacher" but your kids see you as "Mom". Kids are usually more reserved at school/daycare then at home because they aren't at their house where they feel relaxed and like they have to raise their hands or ask permission (to an extent) to do something. I notice I am usually more polite to strangers then most of my friends and family.

      I heard of the "Winter Blues but this sounds like the "School Aged Summer Blues"

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      • MotherNature
        Matilda Jane Addict
        • Feb 2013
        • 1120

        #4
        yes! I have a 2 1/2 year old who doesn't like waiting to nurse while I feed the baby dcg a bottle, or having to share toys sometimes. I let him have special toys he doesn't have to share. He just wants me all to himself. Even worse when dad comes home in the afternoon and he holds one of the dck or helps me out with one of them...very jealous.

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        • lilcupcakes09
          New Daycare.com Member
          • Nov 2011
          • 223

          #5
          YES!!!!! I only have 1, an 8 year old son. He is ready to drive me nuts during the day! I have even threatened to put him in another daycare! He is the loudest, most hard headed one here, normally I don't have much trouble with him.

          Only 33 more days until school.happyface

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          • krosey5
            Daycare.com Member
            • Jun 2012
            • 65

            #6
            YES!! Runs me insane!!

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            • EntropyControlSpecialist
              Embracing the chaos.
              • Mar 2012
              • 7466

              #7
              My teenager is a teenager. I think that just about says it all.
              Some days are better than others.

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              • CedarCreek
                Advanced Daycare.com Member
                • Jan 2013
                • 1600

                #8
                YES.

                My 3yo ds is the worst one most days. I am constantly having to redirect him and send him to time out for trying to hit or push. Or taking toys.

                I feel bad though because sometimes (not all times) I am sure that he is acting out because he wants his home and his Mom to his self.

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                • JoseyJo
                  Group DCP in Kansas
                  • Apr 2013
                  • 964

                  #9
                  Our own children are both heading off to high school this year! They usually just disappear doing their own thing during dc hours and they know when they are around they have to help. It does get better when they get older happyface

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                  • MsLaura529
                    New Daycare.com Member
                    • Feb 2013
                    • 859

                    #10
                    YES! Mine are 2.5 and 4 ... and I spend a majority of the day disciplining THEM. I can't wait for my daughter to head back to preschool in the fall. 3 mornings a week, both her and I will love it

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                    • Familycare71
                      Daycare.com Member
                      • Apr 2011
                      • 1716

                      #11
                      My ten yr old daughter is great... Helpful and plays with the other kids no problem. My 17 yr old boy is pretty good- when he is around he plays w the kids and is super patient... My 15 yr old boy He is just ugh!!! Loud, will argue w the school agers, really good with the little ones but will wind them up... Thankfully he has been getting busier as the summer goes!!

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                      • cheerfuldom
                        Advanced Daycare.com Member
                        • Dec 2010
                        • 7413

                        #12
                        the hardest kids here are my 4 and 5 year olds. they pick at each other a lot and do more crying and whining than my younger two children, or my three daycare kids. they both need to go to school, asap! LOL in the fall the 4 year old will be in morning preschool and the 5 year old will be in limited school (partially homeschooled) but i am really looking forward to them getting some space from each other and from the daycare here. it will be better for everyone i am sure!

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