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Nicie nice that I am (aka total ****ER) I tried to work with a parent that I knew I shouldn't cause she is about the biggest idiot I have here!
I know it. I allowed it and I am so mad at myself for it......
She asked me on Monday if she could pay me on Monday but asked if I would hold her check until Friday. She is my divorcing parent and the "child support auto deposit was messed up" and she hasn't gotten her money. I said right away I would charge her late fees. She says she would rather pay me $25 than the bank $45 plus for messing up her account. Ok... (here is where I kick myself in the butt over and over)
So Monday comes and she drops off check after I close and am not here. I see she has this weeks check in there AND next weeks check in there with a note to hold both checks until Friday and then I can cash both. There is no agreed upon late fee. I email. I send home notes. I don't get to talk face to face cause dad or gmom is picking up so I am communicating through emails and all. No response. No payment.
Now had she not paid me next week I would openly block her from coming Monday until she paid the fee. But she already paid. Her checks were deposited this morning via atm (they won't clear her bank until Sat). So....do I withhold drop off Monday for not paying the late fee? Give her the money back for next week (although she would owe two weeks payment for terming). How would you handle it since she paid next week early but this week late? I am so pissed I am reading to term her. She is on my last blipping nerve. Now I have no one else to blame here I get it. My fault. But I am done.
She is getting her fees upped to per child for late payment and late pick up and due in cash at the time of due or not allowed back and a noticed being sent home to both parents of the terms. The dad I have no issue with. When he paid it was faithfully on Monday. Unfortunately he no longer directly pays me. But the mom is always paying me late, picking up late, etc. The pick up lates on my nerve too. She gets home early. She lives down the road. I see her there. But she cannot show on time to pick up. And when she does it is with the tude she has the right. I cannot stand this woman! It is ALWAYS an issue of some sort with her. She is either paying late, picking up late, not bringing supplies, not paying the right amount, etc etc etc. My fav is to cry poverty and then turn around and tell me how she went and got her nails and hair done at the spa! If I didn't like the dad and the kids I would so slam the door in the womans face!
So how do I handle the no late fee payment?
*KICK KICK KICK!*
I know it. I allowed it and I am so mad at myself for it......She asked me on Monday if she could pay me on Monday but asked if I would hold her check until Friday. She is my divorcing parent and the "child support auto deposit was messed up" and she hasn't gotten her money. I said right away I would charge her late fees. She says she would rather pay me $25 than the bank $45 plus for messing up her account. Ok... (here is where I kick myself in the butt over and over)
So Monday comes and she drops off check after I close and am not here. I see she has this weeks check in there AND next weeks check in there with a note to hold both checks until Friday and then I can cash both. There is no agreed upon late fee.
I email. I send home notes. I don't get to talk face to face cause dad or gmom is picking up so I am communicating through emails and all. No response. No payment.Now had she not paid me next week I would openly block her from coming Monday until she paid the fee. But she already paid. Her checks were deposited this morning via atm (they won't clear her bank until Sat). So....do I withhold drop off Monday for not paying the late fee? Give her the money back for next week (although she would owe two weeks payment for terming). How would you handle it since she paid next week early but this week late? I am so pissed I am reading to term her. She is on my last blipping nerve. Now I have no one else to blame here I get it. My fault. But I am done.
She is getting her fees upped to per child for late payment and late pick up and due in cash at the time of due or not allowed back and a noticed being sent home to both parents of the terms. The dad I have no issue with. When he paid it was faithfully on Monday. Unfortunately he no longer directly pays me. But the mom is always paying me late, picking up late, etc. The pick up lates on my nerve too. She gets home early. She lives down the road. I see her there. But she cannot show on time to pick up. And when she does it is with the tude she has the right. I cannot stand this woman! It is ALWAYS an issue of some sort with her. She is either paying late, picking up late, not bringing supplies, not paying the right amount, etc etc etc. My fav is to cry poverty and then turn around and tell me how she went and got her nails and hair done at the spa!
If I didn't like the dad and the kids I would so slam the door in the womans face!So how do I handle the no late fee payment?
*KICK KICK KICK!*
Good idea! So then she would be "short" next week. Hummm.
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