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  • mrsnj
    New Daycare.com Member
    • Jan 2013
    • 465

    Grrrrrrrr!

    I get a rush call. One of my SA kids is sick and mom calls to tell me to get the baby ready cause she has to pick up. Ok. So I WAKE the baby up (who is my screamer BTW and highly upset by being woke up), change and fed her. Pack her up and in the carrier ready to go. Mom calls and says never mind. She changed her mind. She won't get anything done with her screaming so she is leaving her and someone else will pick up at the end of the day. Hope I don't mind. So......you made me wake a baby who is greatly displeased at the moment and letting me know it, throw her schedule off, take me away from the other kids/routine so that you can pick her up fast and I have her ready for you and you change your mind cause you don't want her and 'hope I don't mind"!? REALLY?!

    AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!

    Yeah. Kinda sorta MIND!
  • craftymissbeth
    Legally Unlicensed
    • May 2012
    • 2385

    #2
    wow.. I'd honestly tell her that she is now required to pick the baby up. She could have easily just let the baby sleep and do his/her thing with you and then call/text you when she was actually on her way, KWIM?

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    • Angelsj
      Daycare.com Member
      • Aug 2012
      • 1323

      #3
      Nope, sorry, I do mind. Come get the baby. Sheesh!! Some people!!

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      • Blackcat31
        • Oct 2010
        • 36124

        #4
        I agree with the others. No way would I have agreed to keep that baby.

        I would have given mom a reasonable amount of time to get there and pick up the baby.

        I would NEVER allow a parent to dictate my day and once she requested the "wake up-pick up", she would have been required to stick with it.

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        • daycarediva
          Daycare.com Member
          • Jul 2012
          • 11698

          #5
          I would have been super annoyed (but most likely understanding) about the wake-up pick-up, but the cancellation would have been met with a big laugh, and a "No, sorry dcm screamer baby needs to get picked up now."

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          • TheGoodLife
            Home Daycare Provider
            • Feb 2012
            • 1372

            #6
            Originally posted by daycarediva
            I would have been super annoyed (but most likely understanding) about the wake-up pick-up, but the cancellation would have been met with a big laugh, and a "No, sorry dcm screamer baby needs to get picked up now."
            Agreed! If SHE can't get things done with "screamer" and she made you wake her up already- sorry, too late to change plans now!

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            • MarinaVanessa
              Family Childcare Home
              • Jan 2010
              • 7211

              #7
              Originally posted by Mama2Bella
              Agreed! If SHE can't get things done with "screamer" and she made you wake her up already- sorry, too late to change plans now!
              Yep. I agree.

              Sorry DCM, you told me to have her ready so I woke her up from nap and she is VERY displeased. You said so yourself, I won't be able to get anything done now with her screaming. You will have to come and pick her up now as I can't get her to either go back to sleep now or to stop crying and I have the other kids to worry about. Please pick up Wailing ...err I mean Waylon picked up within 30 minutes"

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              • mrsnj
                New Daycare.com Member
                • Jan 2013
                • 465

                #8
                Nope. Still here. On a good note she is taking a good afternoon nap!

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                • Cat Herder
                  Advanced Daycare.com Member
                  • Dec 2010
                  • 13744

                  #9
                  For future reference tell her "You wake 'em, you take 'em."

                  Post it on the front door.
                  - Unless otherwise stated, all my posts are personal opinion and worth what you paid for them.

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                  • mrsnj
                    New Daycare.com Member
                    • Jan 2013
                    • 465

                    #10
                    Lol. Love it

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                    • makap
                      Daycare.com Member
                      • Feb 2012
                      • 252

                      #11
                      Originally posted by Cat Herder
                      For future reference tell her "You wake 'em, you take 'em."

                      Post it on the front door.

                      Love this!!

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                      • williams2008
                        Daycare.com Member
                        • Oct 2012
                        • 981

                        #12
                        Originally posted by Cat Herder
                        For future reference tell her "You wake 'em, you take 'em."

                        Post it on the front door.
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                        • wdmmom
                          Advanced Daycare.com
                          • Mar 2011
                          • 2713

                          #13
                          If a parent is going to pick up during naptime, I don't wake them up until the parent is at my door! They have 30 minutes from telling me they are coming to get here. I don't do "Oh nevermind." You say you are coming, you better show up!

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                          • Unregistered

                            #14
                            Originally posted by mrsnj
                            I get a rush call. One of my SA kids is sick and mom calls to tell me to get the baby ready cause she has to pick up. Ok. So I WAKE the baby up (who is my screamer BTW and highly upset by being woke up), change and fed her. Pack her up and in the carrier ready to go. Mom calls and says never mind. She changed her mind. She won't get anything done with her screaming so she is leaving her and someone else will pick up at the end of the day. Hope I don't mind. So......you made me wake a baby who is greatly displeased at the moment and letting me know it, throw her schedule off, take me away from the other kids/routine so that you can pick her up fast and I have her ready for you and you change your mind cause you don't want her and 'hope I don't mind"!? REALLY?!

                            AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!

                            Yeah. Kinda sorta MIND!
                            I never wake children when they are sleeping, especially not infants unless mom/dad/pickup person is AT THE DOOR. I can change a diaper in 30 seconds or less and can get a bag ready in a jiffy. NO need for me to ever wake up a baby before the parent is there, that's as insane as lighting a match next to a propane tank!

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                            • blandino
                              Daycare.com member
                              • Sep 2012
                              • 1613

                              #15
                              Originally posted by Unregistered
                              I never wake children when they are sleeping, especially not infants unless mom/dad/pickup person is AT THE DOOR. I can change a diaper in 30 seconds or less and can get a bag ready in a jiffy. NO need for me to ever wake up a baby before the parent is there, that's as insane as lighting a match next to a propane tank!

                              Me too. I have spent too many minutes waiting for a parent who is supposed to be there at x:15 and shows up at x:30, with an infant ready to go and not happy about it.

                              Now, that baby sleeps until the parent walks through the door. I understand that this parent had a sick older child, but when I used to have parents ask me to have their child ready to go - the process would infuriate me. Let's ask someone with multiple children to care for to get my child ready, instead of the parent leaving work 5 minutes earlier.

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