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  • SunshineMama
    Advanced Daycare.com Member
    • Jan 2012
    • 1575

    School Age Siblings

    Hi Everyone! It's been a while since I have posted.


    I have been watching a 2 year old girl 2 days a week for almost a year. Her mother asked if I could also watch her rising first grader. I figured, since it was just for the summer, and since it was just 2 days a week, it wouldn't be a big deal. I also felt like if I didnt watch both of them, then I would lose the 2 year old on a regular basis.

    Today is the first day with the sibling. Now I see why a lot of you dont take school agers.

    This child talks all day long. I cant get a break from the talking. And her little sister is super clingy and whiny around her and wont stop whining. At nap time, the little sister got out of her cot (which never happens). I told her it was bed time. The big sister ran up to her and gave her a hug, which made her cry more, waking up ALL of the other naptime children. The older sister is saying that her little sister is sad and missing her mother, and that she acts different and sad at my house.

    UGH! So now I feel like the big sister is going to tell the mom that she is unhappy here. I dont know what to do with the older one. Nap time is also a time when I relax a bit or catch up, and this kid literally wont stop asking me questions and stop talking. Ugh! What do I do with this kid?
  • Heidi
    Daycare.com Member
    • Sep 2011
    • 7121

    #2
    Can you talk to mom during the work day? Just to let her know that little girl has been a little off today due to the adjustment?


    Big sister needs her own space (away from you and the littles) for nap time. She can bring a backpack with some activities ONLY FOR NAP. But, tell her it's "super secret", and she can't tell anyone.

    Pull big sister aside and have her become your co-conspirator. "Hey, you know how poor little sister is sooo cranky today? Well, I REALLY need your help with this. Tomorrow at nap time, we are going to pretend you are taking a nap, too. So, little sister can help tuck you in, and then once all the little are settled down, you can have your backpack".

    As far as talking to you, I'd tell her that unless it's an emergency, no one gets to talk to you during nap time.

    I'd even go so far as to offer some sort of reward to earn if she helps you out.

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