The Plague! WWYD

**Cradle2crayons** · 05-30-2013, 08:26 AM

Originally posted by lflick

So last week I posted a few questions regarding sickness... quick blurb... last week one family graced us with an icky cold... that has a lingering cough... both DCG's from said family had to pick up early 2 of the 3 days they were here. Illness spread to myself and my 4 month old son. Then my other DCBs mom informed me he had spiked a 103 temp the last of his three days.

Enter the holiday weekend... DCB was still sick... mom took him to Dr, and Dx with an ear infection and put on Z-Pak on Tuesday... he was out Wednesday and is back today. Upon drop off mom stated he was feeling better, his temp had gone away but he was being super clingy and wasn't himself... not to mention nasty nose. Anyways... my policy states child has to be fever free without antipyretics for 24 hrs before returning.. which technically he met this criteria.

This boy is being totally whiney and defiant... WAY more so than usual... I informed mom he has been crying relentlessly for an hour and is in fact not himself... she stated she has a call into the Dr.

What would you do?

Call for pick up. My policy states fever free without meds, and able to participate in the activities of daycare.

**lflick** · 05-30-2013, 08:29 AM

Originally posted by Cradle2crayons

Call for pick up. My policy states fever free without meds, and able to participate in the activities of daycare.

Okay. Mom says let him nap Dr said he needs rest... well IMO that drew a red flag as well he shouldn't be here as I can't sit and tend to his "extra" needs when I have 5 others today! It's disruptive to our routine... nap time isn't generally until about 11 but I am trying it now because he is sooooo ready.

**Cradle2crayons** · 05-30-2013, 08:33 AM

Originally posted by lflick

Okay. Mom says let him nap Dr said he needs rest... well IMO that drew a red flag as well he shouldn't be here as I can't sit and tend to his "extra" needs when I have 5 others today! It's disruptive to our routine... nap time isn't generally until about 11 but I am trying it now because he is sooooo ready.

The dr. Answered it for you. He needs rest. At home. Under the watchful one on one eye of mom.

Or mom can have the option of one on one rest from you for an extra fee??

**lflick** · 05-30-2013, 08:37 AM

Originally posted by Cradle2crayons

The dr. Answered it for you. He needs rest. At home. Under the watchful one on one eye of mom.

Or mom can have the option of one on one rest from you for an extra fee??

She has already paid for today, the normal rate. I honestly don't know how I could even offer that as an option. He isn't one to just sit either he just wonders around trying to plop on my lap everywhere I am... he got mad at me as I was using the restroom earlier and he threw my iPad on the hardwood floor!

**Willow** · 05-30-2013, 08:37 AM

Kids can't get the rest they need to recoup from illness at daycare.

It's noisy, you are busy, there is loads of additional germs etc.

I'd let her know you just cannot offer him what he needs there at this point. If you don't put your foot down it will keep right on cycling through everyone.

**Cradle2crayons** · 05-30-2013, 08:39 AM

Originally posted by lflick

She has already paid for today, the normal rate. I honestly don't know how I could even offer that as an option. He isn't one to just sit either he just wonders around trying to plop on my lap everywhere I am... he got mad at me as I was using the restroom earlier and he threw my iPad on the hardwood floor!

Your parents don't pay when they aren't there due to illness etc??

I'd call the mom for pick up immediately. If you don't, then she will continue to send not up to par sickly kid to you expecting you to allow him extra rest periods and extra care.

**lflick** · 05-30-2013, 08:41 AM

They do pay when they are out due to illness. She paid for yesterday as well and he wasn't here.

**Cradle2crayons** · 05-30-2013, 08:50 AM

Originally posted by lflick

They do pay when they are out due to illness. She paid for yesterday as well and he wasn't here.

Oh ok. Definitely what willow said. At this point he is extremely susceptible to catching additional germs due to his weakened immune system. Explain to mom you are protecting HIM as we'll as everyone else.

**lflick** · 05-30-2013, 08:58 AM

Argh... so now I had everyone napping and he starts screaming again... I pull him out of the nap area he shares with another young child so he didnt wake him up and perpetuate crabbiness... he felt warm so I took his temp and he's at 100.6 again... mom was told to p/u.

**nanglgrl** · 05-30-2013, 09:28 AM

Sounds like mom doped and dropped. I would have had her pick up as soon as I realized he needed special.

**Laurel** · 05-30-2013, 09:34 AM

I think when mom picked up I would tell her I needed a doctor's note that it is okay for him to return to daycare.

Laurel

**Cradle2crayons** · 05-30-2013, 09:36 AM

Nows the perfect time for you to add a dope and drop policy to your handbook...

Great timing actually.

Require 48 hours exclusion if dope and drop is suspected. Should stop it pretty quick.

**Brooksie** · 05-30-2013, 09:39 AM

This is my policy. Note the last part. I would call and send home and make sure this additional part is in your policy as well. You cannot reasonably meet the needs of the other children in your care if he is so unwell that he can't let go of you or stop crying.

**Sick Child. Maryland law prohibits me from caring for sick children. Therefore, you may NOT bring your sick child to my Home for care. If you give your Child medication to reduce a fever or mask symptoms of illness and bring the sick Child to my Home without telling me about the medication, you will be violating this Agreement, and I will have the right to terminate it immediately. If your child becomes sick while in my care, I will call you, and you must pick up your child promptly. I will keep your sick Child separated from the other children in my care until you arrive. After any illness, your Child must be free of all symptoms (not just fever and vomiting) for at least twenty-four (24) hours before returning to my Home. After a serious illness, your Child will be allowed to return to my Home only with written permission from the Childs’ physician. If your child is put on antibiotics they must wait 24 hours before returning to care. It is your responsibility to find alternate care for your sick Child and to notify me when your sick Child will not be present in my Home on a scheduled Child Care Day. Please inform me of any contagious illness so I may alert the parents of other children exposed to you Child. The definition of a sick child for the purpose of this Agreement shall be a child who has a fever (100 degrees F. or above), vomiting, diarrhea, a runny nose with thick, discolored discharge, a rash of unknown cause, severe pain, extreme listlessness or other dramatic personality change indicating the child is not well, or any other symptom of acute illness, serious transmissible infection or communicable disease.
Your Child should be able to participate in the normal activities of the day. When having to care for sick children, it keeps me from providing quality care to the other children in my Child Care Home. Therefore, you will have one (1) hour to pick up your sick child/ren.

**AfterSchoolMom** · 05-30-2013, 09:40 AM

Originally posted by Laurel

I think when mom picked up I would tell her I needed a doctor's note that it is okay for him to return to daycare.

Laurel

Yes, but be careful how you word this. The Dr. doesn't get the final ok, YOU do.

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