Remember My 4 yr Old DCB?

[crazydaycarelady]

Yesterday I caught him trying to look down dcgs pants. Today I heard him asking the girls to shake their bootys for him.

Ok, those [I]might[I] be normal behaviors for a 4yo boy but just now I heard them playing. They are pretending to lay kids down for naps and I heard him say" Okay, go to sleep or I will stab you."

I have him for 6 more weeks and then for the month of August. If I can get through those he'll be gone gone gone! I just hope his little sister is not the same way!

[Starburst]

Wow, this kid's mind set is just all over the place.... I wonder what type of things his parent's say in front of him or let him watch on TV at home. Apparently there is a lot of aggressive (and possibly sexual) content he is exposed to (most likely TV his parents let him watch and don't properly screen).

I used to watch/listen to a lot of mature content shows/music when I was a kid and I think it did desensitize me for a while. Though I never randomly acted out violently or drank/smoke/did drugs and never been promiscuous; I did use a lot of words/phrases I didn't really understand the real meaning of (I used to say "I loath you" because I thought it was another way to say "I like/love you"; total opposite... ). I am probably just now starting to gain back my humanity and compassion for others.

[NeedaVaca]

Wow, that's pretty scary behavior!

[Oneluckymom]

Wow, this kid's mind set is just all over the place.... I wonder what type of things his parent's say in front of him or let him what on TV at home.

I thought this too. Scary!!

[EntropyControlSpecialist]

Holy cow. Tell the parents, please.

[JoseyJo]

Yikes! I don't think I could wait a few more weeks. I couldn't handle the stress of trying to keep all of the rest of the kiddos from being hurt or at least traumatized!

[crazydaycarelady]

The kids are eating snack right now. 4 kids eating apples, when this dcb announces that "someone" dropped their apple on the floor.

3 kids still have their apples in hand, only dcb is missing his apple.

He denies that he dropped his apple.

I am SURE, 100% positive that he thought I would throw it away because it was dirty, but I didn't. I gave it back to him.

This is the 3rd time today he has lied to me. He just doesn't get it. When I try and explain what a lie is, or that lying is undesirable behavior, his eyes glaze over. He has a missing link that's for sure!

[MamaBearCanada]

Yikes! I don't think I could wait a few more weeks. I couldn't handle the stress of trying to keep all of the rest of the kiddos from being hurt or at least traumatized!

I'd be very careful because you wouldn't want to lose other kids over something DCB said/did to them. Can you term? I would hate to live with that stress!

[countrymom]

omg thats bad. parents need to know asap so when you term they are not shocked.

[EntropyControlSpecialist]

I'd be very careful because you wouldn't want to lose other kids over something DCB said/did to them. Can you term? I would hate to live with that stress!

That's true. I'd be REALLY concerned about it if I heard something like that repeated/imitated at home as a parent.

[crazydaycarelady]

I would love to term but I have his little sister who I would like to keep. He is only here half day 3 days per week so I am going to keep him for the next month then he goes to summer camp. God help those poor kids!

Conversation with dcb yesterday afternoon:
Dcb: Someone said a bad word.
Me: Was it you?
Dcb: yes

?????

[kathiemarie]

Conversation with dcb yesterday afternoon:
Dcb: Someone said a bad word.
Me: Was it you?
Dcb: yes

?????

hahaha... kids!

[Blackcat31]

Yesterday I caught him trying to look down dcgs pants. Today I heard him asking the girls to shake their bootys for him.

Ok, those [I]might[I] be normal behaviors for a 4yo boy but just now I heard them playing. They are pretending to lay kids down for naps and I heard him say" Okay, go to sleep or I will stab you."

I have him for 6 more weeks and then for the month of August. If I can get through those he'll be gone gone gone! I just hope his little sister is not the same way!

I edited the title of your thread.

I've received more than 15 PM's stating the title was offensive.

I PM'ed you but you did not reply so I just wanted you to know I edited it.

Apologies.

[crazydaycarelady]

Oh sorry - I did not notice I got a PM. People seem to be easily offended around here! LOL

[countrymom]

omg, like really. Why can't some people just move on, it was a title.