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  • countrymom
    Daycare.com Member
    • Aug 2010
    • 4874

    #16
    why is she closing because she seems to have a large clientel

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    • EntropyControlSpecialist
      Embracing the chaos.
      • Mar 2012
      • 7466

      #17
      Originally posted by DaisyMamma
      I would most definitely NOT take her. Nor would I take the children of the owner whose facility is closing, but that might just be me...
      This is how I feel as well.

      Both seem like disasters waiting to happen for various reasons.

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      • mrsnj
        New Daycare.com Member
        • Jan 2013
        • 465

        #18
        She is a pay as you go and isn't making money. She tried to stay open by hiring someone to babysit in her place while she got another job but the girl isn't showing on time and she isn't able to go into work so she is closing. She only had three children besides her own two. But I am not only interviewing with her families. I already have my own interviews.


        I just spoke with her. She is closing today! She has had enough of the worker. The kids are starting on Monday now. She is under the impression all the families have places to go and doesn't' seem to know about yesterdays call.

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        • EntropyControlSpecialist
          Embracing the chaos.
          • Mar 2012
          • 7466

          #19
          Originally posted by mrsnj
          She is a pay as you go and isn't making money. She tried to stay open by hiring someone to babysit in her place while she got another job but the girl isn't showing on time and she isn't able to go into work so she is closing. She only had three children besides her own two. But I am not only interviewing with her families. I already have my own interviews.


          I just spoke with her. She is closing today! She has had enough of the worker. The kids are starting on Monday now. She is under the impression all the families have places to go and doesn't' seem to know about yesterdays call.
          I hope it works out well and she is a respectful, rule following client! happyface

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          • KnoxMom
            Daycare.com Member
            • Jan 2013
            • 311

            #20
            I wouldn't take her; if I desperately needed the income I would definitely require a 2 week deposit upfront.

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            • Blackcat31
              • Oct 2010
              • 36124

              #21
              Originally posted by mrsnj
              Is it me? Would you take her?


              1) I can’t do that.

              2) I have a conflict.

              3) I’ll be out of town (or out of the country, or checked out, or out of range, etc.).

              4) I never even considered that.

              5) I’m not planning on it.

              6) I have no intention of doing that.

              7) It’s not part of my agenda for today (or this week, or this month, or this lifetime, etc.).

              8 ) I’m unavailable.

              9) I’m not interested.

              10) It’s not my thing.

              11) It’s not a priority for me.

              12) Nope, Nada.

              13) I’m just not good at that.

              14) I don’t have room in my life for that right now.

              15) It’s my policy to be more discriminating about what I commit to now that I’m older (or “wiser”, “experienced”, etc.).

              16) Life is too short to commit to things and people we don’t love.

              17) I have commitment issues.

              18) I’m afraid I’m not the right person for it.

              19) I’m slammed right now but let me recommend ____________ who would be excellent at that.

              20) I don’t want to hold you up so feel free to ask someone else.

              21) I bet you’ll find someone who can do a better job than I can.`

              22) I’ll have to check with the powers that be.

              23) My mother taught me not to say yes to everything.

              24) Sounds tempting but I’ll have to pass.

              25) I wish I could but I simply can’t.

              26) Absolutely not.

              27) For the last time, no.

              28) Talk to my lawyer.

              29) I’d rather beat myself with sticks than do that

              30) I no longer do things that depress me

              31) I’ll do it if you do my grocery shopping for a year

              32) Fax me about it when I’m on vacation

              Um, NO!!!!!!!

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              • TheGoodLife
                Home Daycare Provider
                • Feb 2012
                • 1372

                #22
                Originally posted by mrsnj
                She is a pay as you go and isn't making money. She tried to stay open by hiring someone to babysit in her place while she got another job but the girl isn't showing on time and she isn't able to go into work so she is closing. She only had three children besides her own two. But I am not only interviewing with her families. I already have my own interviews.


                I just spoke with her. She is closing today! She has had enough of the worker. The kids are starting on Monday now. She is under the impression all the families have places to go and doesn't' seem to know about yesterdays call.
                Not your problem! Of she's disrespecting you before an interview, I wouldn't even think about it. She waited too long- sorry Charlie!!! That's her problem. I personally would love informing her I was full, the nerve!

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                • DaisyMamma
                  Advanced Daycare.com Member
                  • May 2011
                  • 2241

                  #23
                  Personally I would not only tell her I'm full, but it wouldnt have been a good fit anyway..

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                  • TheGoodLife
                    Home Daycare Provider
                    • Feb 2012
                    • 1372

                    #24
                    Originally posted by mrsnj
                    She is a pay as you go and isn't making money. She tried to stay open by hiring someone to babysit in her place while she got another job but the girl isn't showing on time and she isn't able to go into work so she is closing. She only had three children besides her own two. But I am not only interviewing with her families. I already have my own interviews.


                    I just spoke with her. She is closing today! She has had enough of the worker. The kids are starting on Monday now. She is under the impression all the families have places to go and doesn't' seem to know about yesterdays call.
                    Not your problem! Of she's disrespecting you before an interview, I wouldn't even think about it. She waited too long- sorry Charlie!!! That's her problem. I personally would love informing her I was full, the nerve!

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                    • mrsnj
                      New Daycare.com Member
                      • Jan 2013
                      • 465

                      #25
                      Originally posted by Blackcat31


                      1) I can’t do that.

                      2) I have a conflict.

                      3) I’ll be out of town (or out of the country, or checked out, or out of range, etc.).

                      4) I never even considered that.

                      5) I’m not planning on it.

                      6) I have no intention of doing that.

                      7) It’s not part of my agenda for today (or this week, or this month, or this lifetime, etc.).

                      8 ) I’m unavailable.

                      9) I’m not interested.

                      10) It’s not my thing.

                      11) It’s not a priority for me.

                      12) Nope, Nada.

                      13) I’m just not good at that.

                      14) I don’t have room in my life for that right now.

                      15) It’s my policy to be more discriminating about what I commit to now that I’m older (or “wiser”, “experienced”, etc.).

                      16) Life is too short to commit to things and people we don’t love.

                      17) I have commitment issues.

                      18) I’m afraid I’m not the right person for it.

                      19) I’m slammed right now but let me recommend ____________ who would be excellent at that.

                      20) I don’t want to hold you up so feel free to ask someone else.

                      21) I bet you’ll find someone who can do a better job than I can.`

                      22) I’ll have to check with the powers that be.

                      23) My mother taught me not to say yes to everything.

                      24) Sounds tempting but I’ll have to pass.

                      25) I wish I could but I simply can’t.

                      26) Absolutely not.

                      27) For the last time, no.

                      28) Talk to my lawyer.

                      29) I’d rather beat myself with sticks than do that

                      30) I no longer do things that depress me

                      31) I’ll do it if you do my grocery shopping for a year

                      32) Fax me about it when I’m on vacation

                      Um, NO!!!!!!!
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                      • mrsnj
                        New Daycare.com Member
                        • Jan 2013
                        • 465

                        #26
                        I am going to call around 3ish and give her a heads up that I am full.

                        I was looking back at last years emails with this mom....it took her three months to commit to a meet and greet. She was selling her house. She was moving. She had not settled on the house. She was working. Etc etc etc. Then her sitter quit on her on a THur and she wanted to come on a Friday without an interview. I said no. She had to interview. Then she finally made the appointment and rescheduled and then showed late. Then in the end wanted a free trial run and when I said sorry she went someplace else. Clearly she is not a committed parent and I had issues that I completely forgot about.

                        Just spoke with the owner and she isn't sure if her kids will be able to come on Monday now cause this other mom is under the impression I am taking her son and starting Monday too.....SURPRISE!

                        Man. It is like a soap opera.

                        This DC mom/owner needs to make a commitment herself before SHE loses her spot for one child that isn't hers!

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                        • williams2008
                          Daycare.com Member
                          • Oct 2012
                          • 981

                          #27
                          Originally posted by daycare
                          in all my 10 years of doing daycare one thing that I have learned...

                          never take a family because they are income.................... you will regret this later if you do and who knows how much more issues will arise at the time when it does.

                          I have learned to only take clients that I mesh well with, that I know will be a good fit for my program, trust will follow my rules and make every effort to put their best foot forward.

                          as others have said RUN

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                          • Willow
                            Advanced Daycare.com Member
                            • May 2012
                            • 2683

                            #28
                            Originally posted by mrsnj
                            I am going to call around 3ish and give her a heads up that I am full.

                            So glad to hear this!

                            I would never want to be anybody's last choice for care, and I'd have a really hard time not saying that was the reason if I was asked

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                            • mrsnj
                              New Daycare.com Member
                              • Jan 2013
                              • 465

                              #29
                              Just spoke with the interviewing DC mom........

                              OMG seriously! This woman is under the impression her son was coming! That she thought it was just a 'formality' and her son can remeet me. (This woman is too much!)

                              So she asked I put her on the waiting list (um hum) but she canceled the meet and greet.

                              Meanwhile this stalls the new kids from starting Monday!

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                              • countrymom
                                Daycare.com Member
                                • Aug 2010
                                • 4874

                                #30
                                omg, thats awful, you need to call the other mom and let her know that her kids can start and not to worry about the other parent.

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