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I have an almost 4 yr old dcg who started this. I sat down with her and told her that miss Lynn is in charge of watching all the dck however if its something related to safety, then she can come tell me. It worked great and she follows the rules great now after a few reminders
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Our criteria for tattling-
If someone is hurting, in danger of hurting, or threatening to hurt others, themselves or property, TELL.
Otherwise, try to work it out with them and ask for help if you've tried to resolve the conflict and need assistance or a mediator. Not to be confused with asking for someone to solve your conflict for you before you have tried.
We define tattling as telling on someone for the purpose of getting them in trouble, or for the purpose of making yourself look good, seeking attention or praise.
Toddlers and younger we just redirect. They can't be expected to resolve conflicts yet on their own or differentiate between tattling and safety issues.
Role playing is always helpful. We act out scenarios that are common so children can practice these skills safely.Comment
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