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  • Crystal
    Advanced Daycare.com Member
    • Dec 2009
    • 4002

    Public Displays of Affection

    Okay....with the whole DOMA being reconsidered by the Supreme Court, and the issue of Time magazine I just recieved that has two women on the cover kissing......where do you stand on public displays of affection?

    While I am in support of the GLBTQ community, and have several friends who are gay/bi/lesbian, I don't neccessarily want to see gay/lesbian couples kissing....BUT, I feel the same way about heterosexual couples. I think there is a time and a place for kissing/rubbing against each other etc. and it does not happen to be in public places, no matter your orientation. I also don't want to see it on the cover of a magazine (Time magazine SUX, btw)

    So, how about you?
  • just_peachy
    New Daycare.com Member
    • Feb 2013
    • 186

    #2
    I used to think PDA was gross, but I think I'm getting sentimental in my old age. I love seeing couples nuzzle or smooch innocently. Making out is too much for me. Groping is too much for me.

    The teens that nuzzle and smooch make me nostalgic, and the older couples that do it make me hopeful.

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    • Crystal
      Advanced Daycare.com Member
      • Dec 2009
      • 4002

      #3
      Originally posted by just_peachy
      I used to think PDA was gross, but I think I'm getting sentimental in my old age. I love seeing couples nuzzle or smooch innocently. Making out is too much for me. Groping is too much for me.

      The teens that nuzzle and smooch make me nostalgic, and the older couples that do it make me hopeful.
      That's sweet.

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      • Country Kids
        Nature Lover
        • Mar 2011
        • 5051

        #4
        DOMA-What is that?

        I think hand holding is fine and I love when you see older couples doing this or maybe a small kiss on the cheek.

        Full on kissing, hands in each other back pockets, walking where one person is in front of the other person (usually the girl is in front), being led around like a puppy, over the top hugging-I don't like it.

        To me there is a time and place for everything. I think respect/common courtisy is just gone anymore.
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        • Crystal
          Advanced Daycare.com Member
          • Dec 2009
          • 4002

          #5
          Originally posted by Country Kids
          DOMA-What is that?

          I think hand holding is fine and I love when you see older couples doing this or maybe a small kiss on the cheek.

          Full on kissing, hands in each other back pockets, walking where one person is in front of the other person (usually the girl is in front), being led around like a puppy, over the top hugging-I don't like it.

          To me there is a time and place for everything. I think respect/common courtisy is just gone anymore.
          DOMA = Defense of Marriage Act

          It essentially prohibits Gay Marriage. It is being reconsidered as to whether or not it is Constitutional.

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          • MarinaVanessa
            Family Childcare Home
            • Jan 2010
            • 7211

            #6
            Originally posted by Crystal
            Okay....with the whole DOMA being reconsidered by the Supreme Court, and the issue of Time magazine I just recieved that has two women on the cover kissing......where do you stand on public displays of affection?

            While I am in support of the GLBTQ community, and have several friends who are gay/bi/lesbian, I don't neccessarily want to see gay/lesbian couples kissing....BUT, I feel the same way about heterosexual couples. I think there is a time and a place for kissing/rubbing against each other etc. and it does not happen to be in public places, no matter your orientation. I also don't want to see it on the cover of a magazine (Time magazine SUX, btw)

            So, how about you?
            I feel the same way about it. I don't like seeing anyone kissing in public ... hetero or not. Hand holding I'm ok with and hugging too as long as it's not over the top groping and @$$ grabbing.

            PS I love the Kindle commercial:
            Girl in sun chair an in bikini has Kindle
            Hot dude next to her in a sun chair doesn't
            Hot dude buy Kindle and tells girl in bikini they should celebrate
            Girl tells hot guy that her husband is at the bar getting her a drink
            Hot dude tells girl "So is mine"
            Camera pans to two guys at the bar (one is apparently the girls husband and the other is the hot dude's husband)


            This isn't overly "in your face" but proves it's point

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            • NeedaVaca
              Daycare.com Member
              • Mar 2012
              • 2276

              #7
              Hand holding, peck on the cheek is sweet. Groping/making out? Get a room

              BTW- There are 2 Time covers being distributed-one with 2 women, another with 2 men.

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              • Starburst
                Provider in Training
                • Jan 2013
                • 1522

                #8
                I think a quick little peck on the check (or even on the lips) is okay as long as it doesn't look like your to swallow each others faces.

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                • Bookworm
                  Daycare.com Member
                  • Aug 2011
                  • 883

                  #9
                  Originally posted by MarinaVanessa
                  I feel the same way about it. I don't like seeing anyone kissing in public ... hetero or not. Hand holding I'm ok with and hugging too as long as it's not over the top groping and @$$ grabbing.

                  PS I love the Kindle commercial:
                  Girl in sun chair an in bikini has Kindle
                  Hot dude next to her in a sun chair doesn't
                  Hot dude buy Kindle and tells girl in bikini they should celebrate
                  Girl tells hot guy that her husband is at the bar getting her a drink
                  Hot dude tells girl "So is mine"
                  Camera pans to two guys at the bar (one is apparently the girls husband and the other is the hot dude's husband)


                  This isn't overly "in your face" but proves it's point
                  I love that one too.

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                  • Lyss
                    Chaos Coordinator :)
                    • Apr 2012
                    • 1429

                    #10
                    As far as PDA I don't really want to watch anyone making out, little amounts of PDA don't bother me but the makeout/groping sessions I sometimes see going on are a bit much for me

                    Originally posted by MarinaVanessa
                    I feel the same way about it. I don't like seeing anyone kissing in public ... hetero or not. Hand holding I'm ok with and hugging too as long as it's not over the top groping and @$$ grabbing.

                    PS I love the Kindle commercial:
                    Girl in sun chair an in bikini has Kindle
                    Hot dude next to her in a sun chair doesn't
                    Hot dude buy Kindle and tells girl in bikini they should celebrate
                    Girl tells hot guy that her husband is at the bar getting her a drink
                    Hot dude tells girl "So is mine"
                    Camera pans to two guys at the bar (one is apparently the girls husband and the other is the hot dude's husband)


                    This isn't overly "in your face" but proves it's point
                    I thought that was a great one too!

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                    • Springdaze
                      Daycare.com Member
                      • Jun 2011
                      • 533

                      #11
                      kindle ad was ok, but what was the point? Time cover I wouldnt want my kids to see

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                      • originalkat
                        Daycare.com Member
                        • Dec 2009
                        • 1392

                        #12
                        I really don't like PDA. It just seems inappropriate to me. I hug or quick kiss is okay, but more than that should be private.

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                        • KnoxMom
                          Daycare.com Member
                          • Jan 2013
                          • 311

                          #13
                          PDA, as with anything else, should be done in good taste. I kiss on the lips is cute, hand holding and the like is adorable. On the other hand, if I have to cover my child's face or stop them from staring... it means you're doing WAY too much.

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                          • mema
                            Daycare.com Member
                            • Jul 2011
                            • 1979

                            #14
                            I think hand holding, a quick hug or kiss good-bye or hello is fine. Tonsil hockey, a$$ grabbing, making out, etc is not. My fil and his wife drive me batty. They constantly walk around with their hand in each others back pocket. Ds won't even walk with them when they do that. Hold hands, not cheeks!

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                            • kathiemarie
                              Daycare.com Member
                              • Sep 2010
                              • 540

                              #15
                              Originally posted by just_peachy
                              I used to think PDA was gross, but I think I'm getting sentimental in my old age. I love seeing couples nuzzle or smooch innocently. Making out is too much for me. Groping is too much for me.

                              The teens that nuzzle and smooch make me nostalgic, and the older couples that do it make me hopeful.
                              This is how I feel also.

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