Luvs Commercial

[Kaddidle Care]

My oldest has SPD and when he was an older baby would not nurse with a blanket over him because it bothered him greatly. I'm a modest person and it was hard for me. As a mom, his needs came before mine. I fed him in public as needed in the manner needed to meet his needs while trying to be as modest as possible for my own needs. I don't really understand the pulling-the-shirt-down method, but maybe the from-under method doesn't work for some people for reasons I don't understand. I have friends that never breastfed at all for reasons that were best for their situation. Bottom line is that most of us are just moms trying to do what is best for our kids and our families.

Popping them under a T-shirt is the easiest way IMHO. Forget the Nursing shirts and outfits. They are a waste of money. Nursing bras are OK but it's just as easy to use a regular one and pop what you need over the top.

My friend nurses her children in the front row at Church. She's had 7 children and I've never seen more than a slight side of her breast when she was first getting the baby latched on. It's called being discreet and yes, we all do what we feel is best but there are many things on TV and Commercials that really don't need to be there. Especially when they are only there for Shock Appeal.

[Lavender]

Popping them under a T-shirt is the easiest way IMHO. Forget the Nursing shirts and outfits. They are a waste of money. Nursing bras are OK but it's just as easy to use a regular one and pop what you need over the top.

My friend nurses her children in the front row at Church. She's had 7 children and I've never seen more than a slight side of her breast when she was first getting the baby latched on. It's called being discreet and yes, we all do what we feel is best but there are many things on TV and Commercials that really don't need to be there. Especially when they are only there for Shock Appeal.

Not when you don't have enough to be able to just pop it over the top of your bra :: I always did a nursing bra and discreetly lifted my shirt up just enough. I can't imagine ever being personally comfortable with pull my shirt down under my boob to nurse in public like the lady in the commercial. As I've gotten older, however, one thing I've learned about parenting is that all circumstances are different and that the best way to do something depends on the individual circumstances.

[daycarediva]

I'm not saying that moms aren't more confident with their second kids, I'm sure they are because they know they can never be fully prepared and that stuff happens. But there are celebs that are FLAT OUT saying you are not a REAL mom until your second child is born. And it seems like everyone is jumping on the bandwagon of "you need at least 2 kids to be a good mom". I read blogs about people who say some people bug them all the time about "when are you going to have a second kid?" when they don't know if they have fertility issues or if they are just happy with 1 kid (or assume that they want to discuse what goes on in their uterus with everyone). Then you also hear about people who are implying that they aren't good parents because they only have one child:

http://thestir.cafemom.com/big_kid/149621/parents_with_only_one_kid

It just seems like no matter what decision someone makes when it comes to reproducing there is always some who says "its not good enough". At this point I am almost afraid to have kids of my own.

I always wore a tank and a shirt over it, tank & nursing bra go down, baby goes under shirt. No belly, no boob.

[countrymom]

first, I just saw this commercial and it has nothing to do with diapers.

second, (I nursed dd till she was 3 yrs old) I covered up, esp. in a restaurant, it has nothing to do with bf, its called respect for others. Just like I expect people to discipline their children out in public, I expect people to cover up. I don't want to see anyones boob, I don't care if your nursing or not (and I've been there)

[nannyde]

first, I just saw this commercial and it has nothing to do with diapers.

second, (I nursed dd till she was 3 yrs old) I covered up, esp. in a restaurant, it has nothing to do with bf, its called respect for others. Just like I expect people to discipline their children out in public, I expect people to cover up. I don't want to see anyones boob, I don't care if your nursing or not (and I've been there)

Respect for others. happyface

[Starburst]

Respect for others. happyface

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=49rK6DQDB38

The most inappropriate questions people ask expecting/new moms: circumsision and breast feeding (she also does home daycare)

[Kaddidle Care]

Nice rant. ::

I kind of feel that's a cultural thing. There is a trend to not do it now. Her reference to the fact that she calls it "mutilation of your child's junk" isn't cool but it seems like she has a lot of friends and relatives that have gone way too far with their questions and opinions and she's sick of it - rightfully.

I have never asked someone if they were doing it but I have been told by mothers that haven't done it and they usually go into great detail as to why they didn't - like they had to prove themselves. The only person that needs to ask this question is the Dr. in the Hospital after you have the child. Even they don't ask why.

I have asked women if they intend to BF because I would love to encourage them but if they say no - in fact I have one friend that was like "No way - that's disgusting!" - I let the subject drop. I think it's a great thing but not necessarily for someone that intends to go back to work right away.

I kind of agree that the first topic (circumcision) should be added to the taboo list of general conversation topics.

Her baby is adorable BTW. What a cutie!

[Kaddidle Care]

BTW - got a reply from Luvs:

"Thanks for contacting Luvs!

I'm very sorry if our ad offended you. It was based on the insight that many parents approach parenting differently with their second child than they did with their first. Breastfeeding is just one of the many things moms often feel more confident about with a second child. Our Luvs commercial is intended to bring that experience and confidence to life.

Still, we rely heavily on consumer comments regarding our ads, and feedback like yours will help us decide how to approach future advertising efforts. Please be assured I'm letting the rest of our Luvs Team know how you feel.

Thanks again for writing!

Kelly
Luvs Team"

[Jewels]

I find this commercial funny, not offensive at all.

[renodeb]

I think these diaper commercials are getting blown way out of proportion. First there was the huggies one that got dads mad because there was a negative connotation that dads were to dumb to feed to diaper there kids properly. Now its the boob mom. IMO if she had just covered up this would not be an issue. I have to say that if Im at a restaurant I would rather not see somone's boob hanging out for all to see. I dont have a problem with bfm but there is an an awesomed modesty most people expect in public.
I agree jewels, and I have to say that men will be men!

[Heidi]

Im not for BF or against it...to each her own. part of the reason my brother and I werent BF is because wayyyyyy back then, you were looked down on if you DID! It is a shame that people have to be judged by this. The commercial didnt really bother me. the Poop there it is kinda did though.

the basis behind the commercial is true, though! First child, kid gloves...second and beyond, not so much! ::

I agree with this. It is true, and I thought the commercial was rather funny. As for the "exposed" breast, I've seen young women with more cleavage walk the red carpet. As someone who's a bit more european in her sensibilties, I think we are way to senstive about nudity in this country. That said, I would prefer not to see someone else nipples in a restaurant...