I am seriously thinking of kicking my dh out. We have major issues, mainly he does not give a crap about me, or my feelings or the health of our family. He always does what he wants, when he wants with no regard for anyones feelings but his own. When ever I try to communicate I am the nag. its with so many things but the main issue right now is his smoking in my house!
He goes down in the basement and spends most of his time down there. He has a room with his TV his computer and a bed. He smokes in there all the time. I never go down there except to get something from the freezer. The smell of smoke down there is horrible and now it smells on the main floor of my home as well.
I am giving him until tomorrow evening to clean up his smoking area down in the basement which is full of empty soda cans and ashes and it is so gross and stinks!
I really can not get the smell out of my nose. I go to bed at night and smell cigarette smoke. I spend all day smelling cigarette smoke. Even when he is not home and not smoking I can smell it. I feel like I am going crazy thinking I am imagining it, but when I go downstairs it is so strong.
My question is how do I get him out? Can I even do that, Or do I have to leave? Because I am ready to do it.
If I can get him out that would be better. He can come back when he quits! He is so disrespectful of me! Like I said he cares about no one but himself. Talking to him even very calmly and nicely always ends up in an argument.
He goes down in the basement and spends most of his time down there. He has a room with his TV his computer and a bed. He smokes in there all the time. I never go down there except to get something from the freezer. The smell of smoke down there is horrible and now it smells on the main floor of my home as well.
I am giving him until tomorrow evening to clean up his smoking area down in the basement which is full of empty soda cans and ashes and it is so gross and stinks!
I really can not get the smell out of my nose. I go to bed at night and smell cigarette smoke. I spend all day smelling cigarette smoke. Even when he is not home and not smoking I can smell it. I feel like I am going crazy thinking I am imagining it, but when I go downstairs it is so strong.
My question is how do I get him out? Can I even do that, Or do I have to leave? Because I am ready to do it.
If I can get him out that would be better. He can come back when he quits! He is so disrespectful of me! Like I said he cares about no one but himself. Talking to him even very calmly and nicely always ends up in an argument.
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