I have a little guy that turned 2 in September, at some point around his second birthday his Mom called me on a Sunday night and said that they had been working at potty training over the weekend and that he was doing really well " can I bring him in underwear tomorrow?" I said that I would welcome Pull Ups, and when he stays dry for at least a few days we can switch over to underwear. I expained about it being a hygiene issue etc. I never saw a pull up and never heard another word about potty training. In fact last week when Dad came in to pick him up he was wearing another kids pull up because I had been working with the other kid so I thought we would give it a try with him too. Dad didn't say a word about it!
So I just got a call from my best friend who also does daycare, this Dad just called her looking for daycare. The reason he gave is that I have had my Grand Daughter come into the picture ( her Dad is deployed so my daughter is staying with us for a while) so I don't have time to potty train their son. Apparently they have been working really hard with him EVERY weekend and he does fabulous and then he comes here and gets nothing all week. This is all news to me, they haven't even mentioned it since the day I told them to bring pull up and then didn't. OH, MOM DID BRING PULL UP'S TODAY!!! So the real reason that they are looking is because Mom is pregnant and I can't take the new baby. Mom and I have talked ( I love her, Dad is a creep) about them moving on to one of the centers that will take the baby and do preschool with the boy. Apparently they have started looking into the Centers/preschools and have found out how much more expensive they are. So they are now looking for another home daycare, that is fine with me because I can't take the baby anyway but don't blame it on me and my grand daughter.
I have a new baby starting in March, her older brother has been here since birth. He is being forced into preschool earlier then they wanted because I don't have room for him if I take the new baby. BUT if boy #1 is leaving I would have the room. If I ask them if they are planning on leaving they are going to say NO because they don't have anything else lined up yet. So what do I do? I am so mad and hurt by this father for blaming me for this. Usually this friend and I give out each others names when we aRE FULL but once she figured out who she was talking to she got flustered and didn't think to do that, I wish she would have!!
So, what would you do? Sorry this is so long and probably very confusing!
So I just got a call from my best friend who also does daycare, this Dad just called her looking for daycare. The reason he gave is that I have had my Grand Daughter come into the picture ( her Dad is deployed so my daughter is staying with us for a while) so I don't have time to potty train their son. Apparently they have been working really hard with him EVERY weekend and he does fabulous and then he comes here and gets nothing all week. This is all news to me, they haven't even mentioned it since the day I told them to bring pull up and then didn't. OH, MOM DID BRING PULL UP'S TODAY!!! So the real reason that they are looking is because Mom is pregnant and I can't take the new baby. Mom and I have talked ( I love her, Dad is a creep) about them moving on to one of the centers that will take the baby and do preschool with the boy. Apparently they have started looking into the Centers/preschools and have found out how much more expensive they are. So they are now looking for another home daycare, that is fine with me because I can't take the baby anyway but don't blame it on me and my grand daughter.
I have a new baby starting in March, her older brother has been here since birth. He is being forced into preschool earlier then they wanted because I don't have room for him if I take the new baby. BUT if boy #1 is leaving I would have the room. If I ask them if they are planning on leaving they are going to say NO because they don't have anything else lined up yet. So what do I do? I am so mad and hurt by this father for blaming me for this. Usually this friend and I give out each others names when we aRE FULL but once she figured out who she was talking to she got flustered and didn't think to do that, I wish she would have!!
So, what would you do? Sorry this is so long and probably very confusing!
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