I have been doing home child care for 2 years now and still have not had very much consistency with children using my name, it's not that big if a deal but am just curious what everyone else goes with.
Also, for children under 2 or 3 how much effort do you put into correcting them.
Most of my children over 2.5 have always called me Miss ______ without much problem
But as of now i have a dcg 4, hispanic and she calls me tia (aunt), she did it on her own, no one told he to, she also calls my husband tio (uncle)
I have a 2.5 dcb, philipino, he has been coming here since he was 13 months, and parents insisted on tita, and tito (aunt and uncle) for my my husband and i, and atte and kuya (big sister, big brother) for our daughter and son, well the little boy has a speech delay and only calls me mama, well last night at pick up dcm was telling child to give hugs/kisses and say goodnight as per routine but when she told him to hug me goodbye she said tita and then said "what does he call you anyways?", errrr, my daughter pipes up, "oh, he just calls her mama", errrr, dcm seems fine with this and then tells dcb "give mama hugs goodbye, blow kisses"
I also have 20month dcb that calls me mama, but i keep correcting him to call me Miss _______ to no avail.
I started a dcg this week, super smart, just turned 2 a month ago, she can basically hold a conversation with you, so in an effort to teach dcg my name, (because i only have one 4yr dcb that uses it) while on the changing table i ask her "whats your name", "okay, whats my name" dcg says "Mommy!" so i correct her and tell her "no, im not mommy, im mrs. _______" and instead of copying me like i expected she basically yells "no, your Mommy!" well now it is the end of the week and she still argues her point with me when i try to play the name game so.......i dunno
Call me crazy but i dont think all my dcf's would react as unfazed by this as my 2.5 dcb's mom did, (they have been with me a long time and she has actually refered to me as mama to him before)
Basically, though just curious......
Also, for children under 2 or 3 how much effort do you put into correcting them.
Most of my children over 2.5 have always called me Miss ______ without much problem
But as of now i have a dcg 4, hispanic and she calls me tia (aunt), she did it on her own, no one told he to, she also calls my husband tio (uncle)
I have a 2.5 dcb, philipino, he has been coming here since he was 13 months, and parents insisted on tita, and tito (aunt and uncle) for my my husband and i, and atte and kuya (big sister, big brother) for our daughter and son, well the little boy has a speech delay and only calls me mama, well last night at pick up dcm was telling child to give hugs/kisses and say goodnight as per routine but when she told him to hug me goodbye she said tita and then said "what does he call you anyways?", errrr, my daughter pipes up, "oh, he just calls her mama", errrr, dcm seems fine with this and then tells dcb "give mama hugs goodbye, blow kisses"
I also have 20month dcb that calls me mama, but i keep correcting him to call me Miss _______ to no avail.
I started a dcg this week, super smart, just turned 2 a month ago, she can basically hold a conversation with you, so in an effort to teach dcg my name, (because i only have one 4yr dcb that uses it) while on the changing table i ask her "whats your name", "okay, whats my name" dcg says "Mommy!" so i correct her and tell her "no, im not mommy, im mrs. _______" and instead of copying me like i expected she basically yells "no, your Mommy!" well now it is the end of the week and she still argues her point with me when i try to play the name game so.......i dunno
Call me crazy but i dont think all my dcf's would react as unfazed by this as my 2.5 dcb's mom did, (they have been with me a long time and she has actually refered to me as mama to him before)
Basically, though just curious......
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