As most of you know, my neighbor was injured on Tuesday & was taken to the hospital by ambulance. As my SA dck arrived (8 yr) she saw the ambulance pulling away and, naturally, wanted to know what happened. We talked about it in very basic terms and today we made a "get well soon" card for my neighbor (who the 8 yr dck has met and talked to before.)
SA dck asked me to write the words inside of the card and after I wrote the words she started drawing pictures on the card. I got up to go to the bathroom and when I came back I saw 2 hearts drawn on the back of the card-the 1st heart had the words "blah, blah, blah" written in it while the 2nd heart had the words "what the h*ll" written in it.
I asked her if those were appropriate things to write on a card. She told me no. She then asked me if I was mad at her. I told her that I was disappointed with her choice to write inappropriate things on a card. Then I made her throw away the 1st card and got a new card for her to do appropriately-which she did.
I'm now sitting here, after the fact, wondering if I did the right thing. What would you have done?
SA dck asked me to write the words inside of the card and after I wrote the words she started drawing pictures on the card. I got up to go to the bathroom and when I came back I saw 2 hearts drawn on the back of the card-the 1st heart had the words "blah, blah, blah" written in it while the 2nd heart had the words "what the h*ll" written in it.
I asked her if those were appropriate things to write on a card. She told me no. She then asked me if I was mad at her. I told her that I was disappointed with her choice to write inappropriate things on a card. Then I made her throw away the 1st card and got a new card for her to do appropriately-which she did.
I'm now sitting here, after the fact, wondering if I did the right thing. What would you have done?
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