Lately during the kid pick ups, all of them seem to act out in some way. I have done everything I can opposed to them sitting on the front steps waiting for parents to stop this. I get their shoes on, remind them when mommy/daddy gets here we need to listen and not run around ect. However, as soon as the parents gets here it starts.
All of them do something. They start to try and run around the other part of the house where my family is, go back into the daycare room and run around in there, 2 of them insist on pushing the buttons on our door, we have a keyless entry, one starts to whine/cry and scream like crazy when his mom gets here, she said he's done this since he was very little, he's 3 now, but he'll whine and cry, then when he gets outside he runs around and kicks my rocks all over the place, he does not do this when dad picks up, but that's rare that he ever does, he runs through the garage and this is after they are in parents care. I've told my parents that for safety reasons they need to not play around in the garage, and unfortunelty when we are outside during pickups going through the garage is the only way other than going through my house to get to and from the front and back.
I've told ALL my parents due to the issues I'm having with this pickups need to be quick, I'm not only trying to control their child but keep the rest of the group under control, because as soon as they see and hear what the child is doing and I'm by the door, then they start in the daycare room, it's frustrating because parents do nothing, they see their child causing caos and they just say come one lets go, and I have to be the one to say something to the child.
As I said I talk to the kids before pickups and tell them how they need to act, I have 1 2 yr old that I dont' think he "gets" what I'm saying at all, but the others I know they do. With the 3 yr old, the worse one at pick up but the best child during the day (I know that sounds strange) I have told him that if he doesn't cooperate at pickups and keeps running around my yard kicking rocks ect, he'll lose priveledges the next day.
Do any of you have this issue or have any ideas on how to help this? It goes ok inside if the pick up is quick, if the parent doesn't need to talk to me but parents don't seem to have control once the door is closed. I've even told the child and the parent to please not play in the rocks or touch my lights or play with my decorations, one parent looks at me like well what do you expect they are kids.
I really need some ideas on how to stop this?
All of them do something. They start to try and run around the other part of the house where my family is, go back into the daycare room and run around in there, 2 of them insist on pushing the buttons on our door, we have a keyless entry, one starts to whine/cry and scream like crazy when his mom gets here, she said he's done this since he was very little, he's 3 now, but he'll whine and cry, then when he gets outside he runs around and kicks my rocks all over the place, he does not do this when dad picks up, but that's rare that he ever does, he runs through the garage and this is after they are in parents care. I've told my parents that for safety reasons they need to not play around in the garage, and unfortunelty when we are outside during pickups going through the garage is the only way other than going through my house to get to and from the front and back.
I've told ALL my parents due to the issues I'm having with this pickups need to be quick, I'm not only trying to control their child but keep the rest of the group under control, because as soon as they see and hear what the child is doing and I'm by the door, then they start in the daycare room, it's frustrating because parents do nothing, they see their child causing caos and they just say come one lets go, and I have to be the one to say something to the child.
As I said I talk to the kids before pickups and tell them how they need to act, I have 1 2 yr old that I dont' think he "gets" what I'm saying at all, but the others I know they do. With the 3 yr old, the worse one at pick up but the best child during the day (I know that sounds strange) I have told him that if he doesn't cooperate at pickups and keeps running around my yard kicking rocks ect, he'll lose priveledges the next day.
Do any of you have this issue or have any ideas on how to help this? It goes ok inside if the pick up is quick, if the parent doesn't need to talk to me but parents don't seem to have control once the door is closed. I've even told the child and the parent to please not play in the rocks or touch my lights or play with my decorations, one parent looks at me like well what do you expect they are kids.
I really need some ideas on how to stop this?
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