I am not an atheist. I think the word agnostic best describes me. This is not a personal attack on anyone, as i hope it does not become an attack on me. I will not go into musch detail, but there are many readings and things I mediatae upon to keep myself intact spritually and mentally, and I am a decen kind person.
I know many daycares our proud to announce that they are christian centers. I see absolutely nothing wrong with that. My husband knows my stance, but I am careful not to put my veiws off on my own children. I believe in many christian principles, and see nothing wrong with my children following them.
At an interview i had a grandmother ask me what church I belong to. I answered honestly of the church that we are currently memebers of that we use to visit religously and now drop in if we feel like it. I knew she was more asking if I were a christian, but I didn't know what to do at that moment. I am respectful of other's beliefs and don't feel the need to try to persuade anyone anyway or the other. I had never been asked that before. I was completely caught off gaurd. The little girl enrolled and I can tell that this is a family of sweet, whole hearted christians.
In my spare time, I like to scroll through the buddhist quotes app on my droid. I am in no way buddhist, but find some of the beliefs and quotes help me stay calm and appreciative, and help me want to take care of people and things that are less fortunate or in need. At pick-up one day one mother ran in and said, 'OMG! I just saw a buddhist temple in this area! I had never seen one here before!" I didn't know if I was supposed to be shocked, happy, outraged, or what emotion she wanted from me, so I just said..."hmmm...really?" and tried to look confused. In my head I was thinking I should visit there.
I am afraid that religion will come up since I am planning a Halloween party. Maybe it will come up at the Thanksgiving feast when they notice that no grace was said...Maybe it will come up at Christmas time! Are there any other providers in the same boat?
I am very sweet, and nurturing to each child in my care. They learn a lot and feel at home. I have a gentle understanding spirit, and feed them nothing but fresh fruit and veggies, whole grains, lean meats. I dance with them, and cuddle when they cry, so I don't want to hear,"I wouldn't want my child in your care." I just don't want to offend th efamilies, I don't want their idea of me to change. I am trying to come up with a respectful, honest way to handle this touchy subject should it arise.
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I know many daycares our proud to announce that they are christian centers. I see absolutely nothing wrong with that. My husband knows my stance, but I am careful not to put my veiws off on my own children. I believe in many christian principles, and see nothing wrong with my children following them.
At an interview i had a grandmother ask me what church I belong to. I answered honestly of the church that we are currently memebers of that we use to visit religously and now drop in if we feel like it. I knew she was more asking if I were a christian, but I didn't know what to do at that moment. I am respectful of other's beliefs and don't feel the need to try to persuade anyone anyway or the other. I had never been asked that before. I was completely caught off gaurd. The little girl enrolled and I can tell that this is a family of sweet, whole hearted christians.
In my spare time, I like to scroll through the buddhist quotes app on my droid. I am in no way buddhist, but find some of the beliefs and quotes help me stay calm and appreciative, and help me want to take care of people and things that are less fortunate or in need. At pick-up one day one mother ran in and said, 'OMG! I just saw a buddhist temple in this area! I had never seen one here before!" I didn't know if I was supposed to be shocked, happy, outraged, or what emotion she wanted from me, so I just said..."hmmm...really?" and tried to look confused. In my head I was thinking I should visit there.
I am afraid that religion will come up since I am planning a Halloween party. Maybe it will come up at the Thanksgiving feast when they notice that no grace was said...Maybe it will come up at Christmas time! Are there any other providers in the same boat?
I am very sweet, and nurturing to each child in my care. They learn a lot and feel at home. I have a gentle understanding spirit, and feed them nothing but fresh fruit and veggies, whole grains, lean meats. I dance with them, and cuddle when they cry, so I don't want to hear,"I wouldn't want my child in your care." I just don't want to offend th efamilies, I don't want their idea of me to change. I am trying to come up with a respectful, honest way to handle this touchy subject should it arise.
Thanks
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