How Do You Term Good Families?

[PolkaTots]

I have made the decision for my sanity, and to help our days run smoother, to terminate 2 of the families in my care. It was VERY hard for me to choose and I have been contemplating this for months, but I have to do it. I have a great group of kiddos and parents, and really adore them all. That's why I've putting off doing this for so long. I am registered to care for 6 FT/2PT/4SA, but have 4FT/3PT/2SA and am just overwhelmed. This never used to bother me before, but I've had a crew all above 2 for so long, introducing the 2 infants has been a difficult adjustment. I've been struggling since May hoping it would work out, and it just hasn't. So what do you say to families that are great, but you need to get rid of to downsize?

[Michael]

If I were one of the families it would have been nice to have time to find other care.

No easy way to do it. I would just tell the what you said here. They are great families but you are overwhelmed. Just make sure you choose the two and stick to it. Otherwise they will all be jockying to stay.

[PolkaTots]

I have chosen the two families and have notified one of them so far. And they were so sad Hence, why I haven't told the other one yet. I am giving them 30 days to find alternate care, and have provided them with several references of other providers I know with openings for them in the area. I really like these families and didn't want them to feel like I am just throwing them out, I just need to downsize.

[mom2many]

I feel for you. It is not easy to let great families go. I had to do this years ago, when I decided to watch only S/A. I still remember one of the mom's saying in jest how devastated she was when I "fired them". We were not friends prior to me watching her son, but 12 years later are still the best of friends.

You have to do what is best for you and your business. I gave my families one month to find alternate care and told them it wasn't set in stone, so if it took longer, it was okay.