Going To Find My Backbone Today

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  • juliebug
    Daycare.com Member
    • Jul 2010
    • 354

    #16
    You can do !! You will feel so much better too

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    • Nickel
      Daycare.com Member
      • Jul 2012
      • 615

      #17
      happyface I did it!!! He knocked on the door. I opened it. He paid me. I told him I didn't have change, I will credit their account. Then I handed him the folder. Said these are some forms for you. Take a look at them and return them to me. He said okay. Did dcm talk to you?

      About what? dcg rash? Oh, yea. It was from the virus she had. My daughter had the same thing once. She had strep and then got a rash after it was over. noncontagious. I said yes, I saw it. It wasn't too bad in the morning, it got a little worse. Honestly, I didn't think it looked that bad. He kind of smiled.

      Then we made some small talk and he left. Sigh of relief. i did it and I didn't die. LOL... The fun part is going to be Wednesday when they come for care. But for now. I have an entire day of peace. and honestly I am proud of myself! happyface Thank you for the encouragement. WIll let you know how Wednesday goes

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      • Blackcat31
        • Oct 2010
        • 36124

        #18
        Originally posted by Nickel
        happyface I did it!!! He knocked on the door. I opened it. He paid me. I told him I didn't have change, I will credit their account. Then I handed him the folder. Said these are some forms for you. Take a look at them and return them to me. He said okay. Did dcm talk to you?

        About what? dcg rash? Oh, yea. It was from the virus she had. My daughter had the same thing once. She had strep and then got a rash after it was over. noncontagious. I said yes, I saw it. It wasn't too bad in the morning, it got a little worse. Honestly, I didn't think it looked that bad. He kind of smiled.

        Then we made some small talk and he left. Sigh of relief. i did it and I didn't die. LOL... The fun part is going to be Wednesday when they come for care. But for now. I have an entire day of peace. and honestly I am proud of myself! happyface Thank you for the encouragement. WIll let you know how Wednesday goes
        happyfacehappyfacehappyfacehappyfacehappyfacehappyfacehappyfacehappyfacehappyface

        YIPEEEEEE for YOU!!!!

        If they try to ask any questions on Wednesday, just ask them to either call you later or e-mail them to you as it is too difficult to talk when you have DCK's you need to mind. That way handling anything uncomfortable (if it is) can be easier on the phone or in written correspondence!

        SUPER PROUD OF YOU!!!!

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        • Nickel
          Daycare.com Member
          • Jul 2012
          • 615

          #19
          Thank you thank you. I feel like a huge weight was lifted off my shoulders. I even talked to my dh who normally says it's your business.. But this time he said that they forced my hand and sometimes i have to be the bad guy. And if they terminate that I can either find someone that pays my full rate or at least someone who pays on time!

          I love the idea of asking them to email any questions they have. I will have to remember that! dcm comes at 830 and the other dck arrives at 8, so I will have to think up a fun game to play when they get here so that I am really involved and busy. ::

          Wow. I feel so so so much better. happyfacehappyfacehappyfacehappyface

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          • lovemykidstoo
            Daycare.com Member
            • Aug 2012
            • 4740

            #20
            I'm so glad you feel better. It is such a relief when we have to deal with things like that. It's too bad that their bad behavior made you feel so stressed out. They should be the ones that are stressed out! Glad you can breath a sigh of relief!!

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            • Meeko
              Advanced Daycare.com Member
              • Mar 2011
              • 4351

              #21
              Feel the power of your new awesomeness!!!!! LOL!

              Great job...it will get easier each time you have to make changes.
              happyfacehappyfacehappyface

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              • Nickel
                Daycare.com Member
                • Jul 2012
                • 615

                #22
                Update

                Dcm cam in today and gave me thr signed contract and no comments. Only that school is out wed and fri the week of thanksgiving. Nothing else! Woohoo! I feel so relieved. It worked out just fine and they didnt say anything about the contract. She did say that she put the payment schedule in her phone so she shouldnt he late anymore! Yea! All that stress and it went great! Thank u all for the encouragement!

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                • Blackcat31
                  • Oct 2010
                  • 36124

                  #23
                  Originally posted by Nickel
                  Update

                  Dcm cam in today and gave me thr signed contract and no comments. Only that school is out wed and fri the week of thanksgiving. Nothing else! Woohoo! I feel so relieved. It worked out just fine and they didnt say anything about the contract. She did say that she put the payment schedule in her phone so she shouldnt he late anymore! Yea! All that stress and it went great! Thank u all for the encouragement!
                  That is awesome! Super glad things worked out so well!

                  ...I was just thinking it was Wednesday and they were due to be there today so I was thinking about you and wondering.....thanks for the update.

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                  • SunshineMama
                    Advanced Daycare.com Member
                    • Jan 2012
                    • 1575

                    #24
                    Good for you!!!

                    We all have those first daycare families that force us to have to use our backbones. (I am still having problems, as I started 2 years ago and still have 2 of my first families). I wish i was as brave as you!

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                    • MarinaVanessa
                      Family Childcare Home
                      • Jan 2010
                      • 7211

                      #25
                      Yeah!!! That sounds like it worked out for you happyfacehappyfacehappyface. Even though you were a nervous wreck befor handing them the file I bet you feel great now!! Like a load has been lifted off your shoulders!! Kudos!!

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                      • daycarediva
                        Daycare.com Member
                        • Jul 2012
                        • 11698

                        #26
                        AWESOME!!! happyface

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                        • lovemykidstoo
                          Daycare.com Member
                          • Aug 2012
                          • 4740

                          #27
                          Originally posted by Nickel
                          Update

                          Dcm cam in today and gave me thr signed contract and no comments. Only that school is out wed and fri the week of thanksgiving. Nothing else! Woohoo! I feel so relieved. It worked out just fine and they didnt say anything about the contract. She did say that she put the payment schedule in her phone so she shouldnt he late anymore! Yea! All that stress and it went great! Thank u all for the encouragement!
                          That is great news!!! Good for you. So by her telling you that the school is out wed and fri, she still has to pay for that right?

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                          • Nickel
                            Daycare.com Member
                            • Jul 2012
                            • 615

                            #28
                            Hehe. She has to pay for wed but i took fri off unpaid. She would pay for thurs too but she isbt scheduled that day! So yup. She pays that week

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                            • lovemykidstoo
                              Daycare.com Member
                              • Aug 2012
                              • 4740

                              #29
                              Originally posted by Nickel
                              Hehe. She has to pay for wed but i took fri off unpaid. She would pay for thurs too but she isbt scheduled that day! So yup. She pays that week
                              Woohoo! This is going to be so great for you!!!

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                              • Nickel
                                Daycare.com Member
                                • Jul 2012
                                • 615

                                #30
                                thank you!!! i think so too. now all my families are on the same page if not the same rate!!! i am thrilled!!! and i feel a million pounds lighter!!!

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