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  • bunnyslippers
    Daycare.com Member
    • Jan 2012
    • 987

    "Well, After A 4 Day Weekend..." - Vent/Rant!

    So, I had to close on Friday for a funeral, and yesterday was a holiday. I have GREAT families here, so rarely have issues where I ever even need to address policies.

    This morning, one of the DCD shows up with his two little munchkins. I have had this family for 5 years, and they are now friends in addition to clients.

    He walks in with the 3 year old still in pajamas. I am told that he didn't want to get dressed. DCD said "What can you expect after a 4 day weekend?" Fair enough, until I went to help this child go to the bathroom (he is in the process of toilet training) and discovered he had no underpants OR pull-up on. He sleeps in a pull-up. The DCD also asked me to make sure I get him dressed. OK, but explain why I can and you can't? This little guy also refulsed to eat anything before he came, so can I make sure I feed him as soon as possible?

    Now lets talk about the sweet baby sister. She is 8 months old, but super-duper small, and incredibly spoiled. When I say spoiled, I mean this little pumpkin cries all day, unless she is held. We have made a lot of progress in this area, after a great deal of work. Well, DCD proceeds to tell me he held her all weekend in a baby bjorn - even during naps!!!!!!!!! I obviously can't - and won't - do that here. Sooo, sweet baby girl has been in a fit of a tantrum ALL DAY LONG.

    Yes, it was a four day weekend. Why, oh why, does that mean everyone here has to suffer through an awful Tuesday?!?? Is it so hard to try to keep on track over a 4 day break?!? My own children were also home for a 4 day weekend, and I anticipated the morning would be more trying than usual. I planned accordingly and got everyone in my own family up 30 minutes earlier, so our day could run smoothly.

    Again, I know I need to put up or shut up - I just needed to vent. It is so abnormal for any of my families to act like this. I guess I am just shocked at how little responsibility is taken sometimes. Good grief! Just make an effort to keep them on the same schedule on the weekends. Or, in the very least, how about just getting them dressed and fed before arrival!!!!!

    OK, I feel better. Sort of...
  • Blackcat31
    • Oct 2010
    • 36124

    #2
    After any amount of time off, if I complain, my DH always says

    "Well YOU let them go home." ::

    Which IS true!

    Hang in there, they will be back on track before you know it!

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    • EntropyControlSpecialist
      Embracing the chaos.
      • Mar 2012
      • 7466

      #3
      It's really inconvenient for most parents today to actually parent. That is the lesson I have learned.

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      • cheerfuldom
        Advanced Daycare.com Member
        • Dec 2010
        • 7413

        #4
        This is all my kids today. The 7 month old was screaming to be held after three days of spoil time with the parents. They are in the "well we dont want her to cry" stage and who knows how long that will last. Every monday is hard with her at this point. The 2 year old came in sick and I know parents will do nothing unless I send her home and even then, I am not sure what they would do for her.

        Really all of my current parents are nice people but very swayed by their child crying. They are just surviving over the weekend, not actively parenting. They love their kids but cant wait to drop off on Monday morning.

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        • littlemissmuffet
          Advanced Daycare.com Member
          • Jan 2011
          • 2194

          #5
          I don't care how long a family is with me, or how great they usually are... being rude doesn't fly in my house.

          First of all, with the telling you to dress the child - no. I always just reply with "I don't dress kids, that's mom/dad's job, not mine - if you want your child dressed, do it before dropping off".

          With the breakfast - I would have said "Breakfast is at 8am, he'll have to wait like everyone else"... or if it was after 8am "Breakfast is at 8am, he'll have to wait until lunch".

          Upon finding out the child was without a pull-up, I would have sent home a written warning - children should never be dropped off without a pull-up while in the process of toilet training.

          As for holding the infant all day long - when parents admit things like this to me, I try an advise how that is causing the child issues (at home and daycare).

          Weekend or not, kids need a routine, but I'm finding more and more that parents don't have routines/schedules for their children... which, might explain why they're always suprised that their kids are angels for me and complete monsters for them. I believe in routine

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          • Kimberli
            Daycare.com Member
            • Aug 2012
            • 93

            #6
            Originally posted by EntropyControlSpecialist
            It's really inconvenient for most parents today to actually parent. That is the lesson I have learned.
            Sad, but true. An epidemic, actually.

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