Can I OD This My Mother?

**Michael** · 10-08-2012, 05:11 PM

This is not your regular run-of-the-mill childcare post.

As a father, of a 13 yo daughter, there are so many things I could offer but I think I will leave it up to the mothers here. Let's just say it sounds like normal behavior for a 15 yo /13 yo and a mother's stress level. It does not sound right to be blackmailing your mother and her business. She pays your bills and upkeep so you would also be hurting your family as a whole. Hopefully someday in the future your mother and you will be able to laugh a lot of this off as equals.....hopefully.

**logan** · 10-08-2012, 05:13 PM

Originally posted by Michael

This is not your regular run-of-the-mill childcare post.

As a father, of a 13 yo daughter, there are so many things I could offer but I think I will leave it up to the mothers here. Let's just say it sounds like normal behavior for a 15 yo /13 yo and a mother's stress level. It does not sound right to be blackmailing your mother and her business. She pays your bills and upkeep so you would also be hurting your family as a whole. Hopefully someday in the future your mother and you will be able to laugh a lot of this off as equals.....hopefully.

micheal i just want her to chill out..give me back my stuff

**Michael** · 10-08-2012, 05:16 PM

Since she had to pay the $45, can you pay her back as a gesture of goodwill? Someone's got to fight on her behalf don't you think? Just think of what it takes for her to make that much money.

I would love for her to join in the conversation. Afterall we, have no idea who you are.

**logan** · 10-08-2012, 05:19 PM

Originally posted by Michael

Since she had to pay the $45, can you pay her back as a gesture of goodwill? Someone's got to fight on her behalf don't you think? Just think of what it takes for her to make that much money.

I would love for her to join in the conversation. Afterall we, have no idea who you are.

if my mom new i was on here asking for advcie on here about her. she will send me to bootcamp micheal

i just want her to chill out. wuts wrong with that

**itlw8** · 10-08-2012, 05:21 PM

sorry those people were looking at you for how you acted NOT what she said. . My goodness my 3 yr old grandson would never act like that in public.

I agree with all the punishment How do you get your stuff back ? You EARN it back. Show responsibility do your school work. do your chores with out griping.

As far as the car license. So if a car cut you off would you say he started it ???? THAT is what your Mom sees right now.

And no you can not report her to Childrens Services. Do you really know what happens ? THey send YOU to juvie until they can find a foster home for you.

**Michael** · 10-08-2012, 05:22 PM

Originally posted by logan

if my mom new i was on here asking for advcie on here about her. she will send me to bootcamp micheal

i just want her to chill out. wuts wrong with that

If I were her, I think I would appreciate that you are trying to find a remedy. Although she would not appreciate that you would want to hurt her. Do you have a father that helps in these situations?

**logan** · 10-08-2012, 05:26 PM

MY MOM JUST DIDNT CALL ME A BABY BUT TOLD ME I BELONG IN PAMPERS AGAIN look people heard her call me a baby in mcdonalds and tell me that she was going to get me diapers and a crib for what i did. i have witnessess dont you think that would help with soical servcies. it was only ketchup the people in front of us were old like in 60s they wouldnt even know it was on there clothes if my mom didnt say anything.no one got hurt. i dont want to sound like a whinny baby cause im not, micheal. she had to pay 45 bucks for the clothes i ruined but that was her choice. . IT WAS ONLY MCDONALDS NO PLACE FANCY AND IT WAS KETCHUP. her telling everyone im a baby and stuff was foul and abunch of lies. like i said she took away my x box and games and I pod. she wont let me take drivers ed in school saying im to immature to drive.
on the car ride home she is screaming and me and my brother. telling us we made her look bad as a parent that we behaved like a bunch of toddlers. when i try to tell her that is was my brother fault not mine. she told me i was to blame as well. no one got hurt shes making a big deal out of this.

**logan** · 10-08-2012, 05:31 PM

Originally posted by itlw8

sorry those people were looking at you for how you acted NOT what she said. . My goodness my 3 yr old grandson would never act like that in public.

I agree with all the punishment How do you get your stuff back ? You EARN it back. Show responsibility do your school work. do your chores with out griping.

As far as the car license. So if a car cut you off would you say he started it ???? THAT is what your Mom sees right now.

And no you can not report her to Childrens Services. Do you really know what happens ? THey send YOU to juvie until they can find a foster home for you.

wut about my rights?

**Michael** · 10-08-2012, 05:32 PM

Originally posted by logan

MY MOM JUST DIDNT CALL ME A BABY BUT TOLD ME I BELONG IN PAMPERS AGAIN look people heard her call me a baby in mcdonalds and tell me that she was going to get me diapers and a crib for what i did. i have witnessess dont you think that would help with soical servcies. it was only ketchup the people in front of us were old like in 60s they wouldnt even know it was on there clothes if my mom didnt say anything.no one got hurt. i dont want to sound like a whinny baby cause im not micheal. she had to pay 45 bucks for the clothes i ruined but that was her choice. . IT WAS ONLY MCDONALDS NO PLACE FANCY AND IT WAS KETCHUP. her telling everyone im a baby and stuff was foul and abunch of lies. like i said she took away my x box and games and I pod. she wont let me take drivers ed in school saying im to immature to drive.
on the car ride home she is screaming and me and my brother. telling us we made her look bad as a parent that we behaved like a bunch of toddlers. when i try to tell her that is was my brother fault not mine. she told me i was to blame as well. no one got hurt shes making a big deal out of this.

It's tough that I really don't know your family situation. I can only talk to you as a father. It seems like this tension has been going on for some time. You are going through some tough years and so is your mother. Can you make a different gesture to your mother? Ask her if there is something you can do to help her for the ketchup incident? I wonder if she would react differently. It might be worth a try don't you think?

**Michael** · 10-08-2012, 05:34 PM

Originally posted by logan

wut about my rights?

Well you are considered a child at this age but 18 will come too soon I'm sure. Why not make those last couple of years easier with your mom?

**logan** · 10-08-2012, 05:37 PM

i cant talk to her she is being a real bitch to me now. it seems all the **** i did wrong the past 6 months shes taking it out on me now. its like after the ketchup thing she brings stuff up from the past also

**Michael** · 10-08-2012, 05:45 PM

Originally posted by logan

i cant talk to her she is being a real bitch to me now. it seems all the **** i did wrong the past 6 months shes taking it out on me now. its like after the ketchup thing she brings stuff up from the past also

Well that's typical. The two of you should let this wear off a little. It sounds like a lot of stress in your household. You probably just want your stuff back so you can escape from it. Maybe your mother is trying to "make you" deal with it. This natually is what pushes you from being a dependent child to a responsible young person. I think we are all hoping the transistion goes a little more smoothly in the future.

BTW, when you get your "stuff" back. I produce a webisode with my daughter here in California. It's about bullying. I am just finishing episode 8 with one more to go in which John D Aquino stars as the cop. Did you ever watch Cory In the House when you were younger? Here is one of them: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MACghe_FqXo

**logan** · 10-08-2012, 05:47 PM

no i never watch it..can i ask you this? is it mom thing what shes doing? with her comments

**DaisyMamma** · 10-08-2012, 05:53 PM

When I was in junior high my friend called cps on her mom to get back at her for something.
My friend, her brother and sister were taken away from their mom.

Can I OD This My Mother?

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