Advice Please...Problem With Parents And Child

[sunlight]

Does anyone who has ever had to terminate care for a family ever keep them coming until the final date they leave? I am always weary of disgruntled families making trouble for me and my daycare. I mean, I have heard of families reporting the provider, of course they are lying but who wants to take the time to deal with being accused of something and then having to prove yourself innocent?
Any thoughts on this are much appreciated.

[providerandmomof4]

I had a dcg that used to say, "I hate this dc, I don't want to come here anymore" anytime she would get mad at me, ie. rest time, if she had to share a toy, etc. The other kids would look at her and then me like, are you going to let her say that. At first I just ignored her comments. Finally I'd had enough and told her that she was being very rude and if she really felt that way maybe she should talk to her parents about it and told her to be sure and tell her parents why she felt that way, but I didn't want to hear anymore of it. (Serious face) She stopped saying those things to me. Maybe you could have a little talk like this with dcg.......

[Unregistered]

I have a dcg who every time she is upset, she will say, "I hate it here. Every one is mean to me here." She'll cry and say this when she doesn't get her way or another child has a turn before her, etc. I calmly remind her that, "It isn't nice to say those kinds of things because they hurt my feelings and probably make the other kids feel bad because I know they like to play with you and spend time here with you. You may go find something else to do while you calm down but please don't say mean things like that. Thank you." This approach with her has greatly helped. She was 4 when she started and now at 5 she rarely says she "hates it here."

[daycare]

this post is almost 2 years old..........