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  • DCMama
    Daycare.com Member
    • Aug 2012
    • 111

    Red Flags

    Just wondering what are some of the providers here "red flags" when interviewing potential families. What are some of the things that you see that would make you feel like you will not work with this family.

    I recently got an unexpected interview that make me feel really uncomfortable. First of all, I was not at my daycare in the morning because I had to pick up some stuff. I do not have any kids yet in the morning so that was okay for me to leave. My sister which is my assistance was home and got a call from a parent wanting to know our rate. My sister told them that she cannot tell them that but if they leave their name and number the owner will call them back and answer any questions they may have better. They were like, so we have your address can we come over for a visit? My sister say yes but they won't give her their names and number. I was like, "next time do not allow them to come unless we know a little more info about them." The time that they suppose to come rolled around and they did not show up. All of the sudden 2.5 hours later they showed up and my sister let them in.... gasp. Red flag number one. They stay and show interest but they both are stay home worker so they want to be able to come there and stay with their child while we care for them....gasp Red flag number 2. I told them I won't mind the first day but then they need to let go and let me do my job. (of course I say it in a nice way). He literally say he wants to come here with his laptop and work and his wife can stay with their son in my home.....wthello? I let them have a trail for 2 days but I hope they do not stay for the whole time and will definitely remind them that again in the morning.sigh Really need to talk to them clearly about this again...this is like soooo amazingly weird.
  • daycare
    Advanced Daycare.com *********
    • Feb 2011
    • 16259

    #2
    I'm confused. They want to work out of your house on their laptop. ??
    No way sister

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    • DCMama
      Daycare.com Member
      • Aug 2012
      • 111

      #3
      Yes...he actually say..."I work from home so if I can come over here and just sit on your couch in the other room while you go on your day with the rest of your kids..." my mouth just drop....like....what??? I'll let you stay on the first day that's already pushing it...you expect me to let you stay on and off anytime you please throughout the whole day???? I do not get it...I know their child has like a skin problem right now and they are worry. but if they can't trust in me as a provider they can just keep him home wrapped in a bubble. sigh

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      • daycare
        Advanced Daycare.com *********
        • Feb 2011
        • 16259

        #4
        Originally posted by DCMama
        Yes...he actually say..."I work from home so if I can come over here and just sit on your couch in the other room while you go on your day with the rest of your kids..." my mouth just drop....like....what??? I'll let you stay on the first day that's already pushing it...you expect me to let you stay on and off anytime you please throughout the whole day???? I do not get it...I know their child has like a skin problem right now and they are worry. but if they can't trust in me as a provider they can just keep him home wrapped in a bubble. sigh
        Oh noooo. I see so many things that could go wrong.
        Also in CA if he is in the house for that long, he will need to get a background clearance and all required clearances from licensing.

        I would tell him he can stay for 30min and then needs to go

        I would call him and let him know this about licensing rules.
        What if he is a pedi ????

        There are so many other things I could see going wrong, but I would get on the phone right now.
        Just let him know cuz are still new you didn't know that . If he argues you on it give him the number for licensing and let them tell him.

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        • rhymia1
          Daycare.com Member
          • Jul 2011
          • 220

          #5
          Yikes! Those are some HUGE red flags!

          I see so many issues that I would give the family a pass. No one tells me how things are going to go in my business.

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          • Sugar Magnolia
            Blossoms Blooming
            • Apr 2011
            • 2647

            #6
            Um, that's not a red flag, that is more like Run! Run away, Fast!

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            • lovemykidstoo
              Daycare.com Member
              • Aug 2012
              • 4740

              #7
              I cannot believe you would agree to that in any form. There is something seriously wrong with this situation. I would not have taken that family for any reason. Maybe they're homeless and have nowhere to go during the day?

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              • seebachers
                Mostly lurking member
                • Jan 2012
                • 118

                #8
                No way in hello!!!

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                • Cat Herder
                  Advanced Daycare.com Member
                  • Dec 2010
                  • 13744

                  #9
                  Originally posted by Sugar Magnolia
                  Um, that's not a red flag, that is more like Run! Run away, Fast!
                  Yeah, what she said.
                  - Unless otherwise stated, all my posts are personal opinion and worth what you paid for them.

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                  • MyAngels
                    Member
                    • Aug 2010
                    • 4217

                    #10
                    Agree with the others - no way, no how!

                    Welcome back CatHerder - haven't seen you around for awhile .

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                    • Meeko
                      Advanced Daycare.com Member
                      • Mar 2011
                      • 4349

                      #11
                      No no no no no........rinse repeat......

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                      • Willow
                        Advanced Daycare.com Member
                        • May 2012
                        • 2683

                        #12
                        Why on earth did you agree to let him stay in your home like that for even one day??

                        Is that even legal where you're at because it wouldn't be here!


                        Call him and tell him upon review of your licensing policies you cannot allow him to do such a thing. Let him know if he'd still like you to provide care for his child x, y and z paperwork will have to be completed even before admittance during the two day trial period.




                        The word "no" goes a long way if you get flustered in any interview. USE IT!!!

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                        • SunshineMama
                          Advanced Daycare.com Member
                          • Jan 2012
                          • 1575

                          #13
                          Something seems way amiss here, beyond normal dcp red flags to me. They didnt want to leave their name and number, and they both work at home but want to bring their kids to work at your home? I hate to think the worst in people but in my gut, based on what you said I am immediately worrying about kidnapping and pedafiles, for some reason. Not only would I sever ties with this person immediately (in a professional manner, of course), but I would be extra diligent and careful about your security and the kids. It is so sad, but you never can be too careful.

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                          • PolkaTots
                            Extreme Multi-tasker
                            • Sep 2011
                            • 247

                            #14
                            I am shocked you are considering this? Is this a real post?????
                            First of all, no way in heck would I have even interviewed these people in the first place. ALL of my first interviews are conducted AFTER daycare hours for safety reasons. I don't know these people, and want to meet them and their child first before allowing them to meet my crew, plus it is a lot easier to give them undivided attention with all the kiddos trying to show off. I will do a second interview/playdate after to see how they interact with my crew.
                            And for someone to stay in your home...Ummm...NO! In Iowa anyone that stays in the home with the children MUST have a background check, medical clearance, current physical, and immunization records.

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                            • DaisyMamma
                              Advanced Daycare.com Member
                              • May 2011
                              • 2241

                              #15
                              Originally posted by PolkaTots
                              I am shocked you are considering this? Is this a real post?????
                              NO WAY IN HECK WOULD I EVER EVEN CONSIDER THIS!
                              LOL ::::::

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