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  • Sugar Magnolia
    Blossoms Blooming
    • Apr 2011
    • 2647

    Should I Enroll?

    I normally take only 18 month olds and up. My website and policy manual all say that. I had a nice couple with a 14 month old take a tour. The child is not yet walking. They are very interested in enrolling. Should I give it a go? Mainly just worried the little guy might get stepped on. They seemed like a good fit. Hmmmmm.
  • Blackcat31
    • Oct 2010
    • 36124

    #2
    Are you short on kids? Is it hard to find a good family (assuming this one is one)?

    If that is the case, I might consider it as what real difference does 4 months make? Besides, the walking thing, which he might all of a sudden up and do once he sees how much more quickly the other kids get around.

    I normally don't take kids under 12 months and somehow I ended up with a 6 week old and a 7 month old....go figure.

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    • DaisyMamma
      Advanced Daycare.com Member
      • May 2011
      • 2241

      #3
      I say, what's 4 months? And would you take him at 18 months not walking? It's rare, but can happen.... if so, go for it!

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      • Sugar Magnolia
        Blossoms Blooming
        • Apr 2011
        • 2647

        #4
        I only have the one open spot...was waiting and hoping for an older boy, I am heavy on little 2 year old girls right now. The family seems VERY nice. I guess non walkers are just out of my comfort zone. So undecided!

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        • cheerfuldom
          Advanced Daycare.com Member
          • Dec 2010
          • 7413

          #5
          Do you have a trial period? Why not try it?

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          • daycare
            Advanced Daycare.com *********
            • Feb 2011
            • 16259

            #6
            I offer only 20 months and up and one time I took a 15 month old...WORST mistake of my life. the developmental abilities are soooooooooo extreme that the child could not do anything that we were doing. He would run around the room trashing it and all of the older kids could not stand him. When they tried to play he was often in the way or step on their stuff in an attempt to try to join in.

            Honestly, I would not do it, if it were me...BUT all kids are different and you can't judge them all the same.

            The other thing that I would be looking for is if this child can feed themselves, sit at a table to eat and is able to understand simple commands like sit down, wash hands, and so on......

            If you make an exception this one time, you will be expected to do it again and then next thing you know you will have a room full of 14 month olds

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            • Sugar Magnolia
              Blossoms Blooming
              • Apr 2011
              • 2647

              #7
              I took the little guy on! Parents toured tonight, they were super wonderful! He is cruising holding onto furniture, won't be long until he's walking. I do have a floor "high chair" with a tray...I used to take 12 months and up, but backed away from that young a couple years ago. I remain optimistic. Wish me luck, he seems like a real sweetie pie lil guy. At least he is a guy! :: Like I said, heavy on the Little girls right now.

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              • Crazy8
                Daycare.com Member
                • Jun 2011
                • 2769

                #8
                Glad you took him!! I wouldn't turn someone away for just a few months like that. And I find the older they start walking the more stable they are on their feet so he may just skip the "wobbly" stage.

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                • jojosmommy
                  Advanced Daycare.com Member
                  • Jan 2011
                  • 1103

                  #9
                  Glad to see you took him! I dont think the months matter much. Developmentally if he fits and the parents fit I would take a child out of my typical age range.

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                  • Blackcat31
                    • Oct 2010
                    • 36124

                    #10
                    Glad to see you took the chance....sometimes those are the hidden gems and we will pass them by without giving them a shot.

                    I am assuming you have a trial period so if on the off chance he (and his parents) doesn't continue to be golden, that you have an easy out ?

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                    • daycarediva
                      Daycare.com Member
                      • Jul 2012
                      • 11698

                      #11
                      I would have taken him as well. I took a 16mo and it was the best decision ever. He and his parents were awesome and he is now 4!

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                      • Sugar Magnolia
                        Blossoms Blooming
                        • Apr 2011
                        • 2647

                        #12
                        Originally posted by Blackcat31
                        Glad to see you took the chance....sometimes those are the hidden gems and we will pass them by without giving them a shot.

                        I am assuming you have a trial period so if on the off chance he (and his parents) doesn't continue to be golden, that you have an easy out ?
                        Yep, doing a two week trial period, as with all my newbies. I told all the other dck's we are getting a new friend who is a "baby" and we all need to "help" the baby stay safe by watching out for his hands and toes and not bumping him over it stepping on him. We are a multi age school, and he will be with the Littles for part of the day, and mixed in with the herd for the other part of the say. So now I have baby, seven (!!) 2 year old girls, a 2 year old boy, four 3 yo boy, one 3yo girl and one 4 yo boy! Nice mix. And 3 staff total.
                        Gosh I hope the baby works out!

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                        • Sugar Magnolia
                          Blossoms Blooming
                          • Apr 2011
                          • 2647

                          #13
                          Originally posted by daycare
                          I offer only 20 months and up and one time I took a 15 month old...WORST mistake of my life. the developmental abilities are soooooooooo extreme that the child could not do anything that we were doing. He would run around the room trashing it and all of the older kids could not stand him. When they tried to play he was often in the way or step on their stuff in an attempt to try to join in.

                          Honestly, I would not do it, if it were me...BUT all kids are different and you can't judge them all the same.

                          The other thing that I would be looking for is if this child can feed themselves, sit at a table to eat and is able to understand simple commands like sit down, wash hands, and so on......

                          If you make an exception this one time, you will be expected to do it again and then next thing you know you will have a room full of 14 month olds
                          He IS a full year younger than my current youngest child. He has a floor chair, but oh boy, I hope he can hang sleeping on a mat on the floor. Valid concerns Daycare. Cross your fingers for me!

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                          • Sugar Magnolia
                            Blossoms Blooming
                            • Apr 2011
                            • 2647

                            #14
                            Originally posted by daycare
                            I offer only 20 months and up and one time I took a 15 month old...WORST mistake of my life. the developmental abilities are soooooooooo extreme that the child could not do anything that we were doing. He would run around the room trashing it and all of the older kids could not stand him. When they tried to play he was often in the way or step on their stuff in an attempt to try to join in.

                            Honestly, I would not do it, if it were me...BUT all kids are different and you can't judge them all the same.

                            The other thing that I would be looking for is if this child can feed themselves, sit at a table to eat and is able to understand simple commands like sit down, wash hands, and so on......

                            If you make an exception this one time, you will be expected to do it again and then next thing you know you will have a room full of 14 month olds
                            He IS a full year younger than my current youngest child. He has a floor chair, but oh boy, I hope he can hang sleeping on a mat on the floor. Valid concerns Daycare. Cross your fingers for me!
                            Oh...and theres this: No English! Parents from Brazil, speak portuguese. Shouldn't be a big deal, I already have a spanish/english speaker and a little boy who only speaks Polish.

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                            • Sugar Magnolia
                              Blossoms Blooming
                              • Apr 2011
                              • 2647

                              #15
                              Update!

                              This little dude turned out to be super! Nobody has stepped on him or tripped over him! He is a happy little guy, barely even cries! Thanks for the encouragement everyone!

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