Me: 7am - 6:00pm.
My rule is that the kids can come and go anytime within those hours.
And two of my 4 kids (after today I will be down to 3) is here every minute of that time.
My "rule"...KINDA BACKFIRED! It's a long freaking day! I started doing it just because I keep my cousin's little guy and she is a nurse and works long hours, so it was a favour to her. The other kids came from 9-5. But then another parent started noticing just how long my cousin's son was here, and slowly started asking to bring her child earlier and earlier and then stay later and later. I couldn't really say no...what could I say, "No sorry, I have a special arrangement so she gets preferential treatment"?
I don't want to lose my cousin because she is great, we grew up together, we're close. I know that she NEEDS these hours and she is not going to find another child care arrangement that is going to accommodate this. But I am burning out fast keeping 2 children at 11 hours a day.
Honestly, if I just cared for my cousin's little guy those hours it wouldn't be bad at all. He's very mellow. It's the other DCK. She's good, but very high-strung and needs CONSTANT supervision. She's 2.5 and by constant supervision I mean I have to take her to the bathroom with me when I go or else she could very well stand up on a chair and open my fridge freezer for something, I think part of the problem is that she thinks she's 12, LOL. Anyway, ethically speaking, can I tell one parent that I am reducing my hours of operation and tell another parent who just HAPPENS to be my cousin that she can continue bringing her son for 11 hours? Or am I pretty much doomed to continue suffering until one or the other leaves on their own?
My rule is that the kids can come and go anytime within those hours.
And two of my 4 kids (after today I will be down to 3) is here every minute of that time.
My "rule"...KINDA BACKFIRED! It's a long freaking day! I started doing it just because I keep my cousin's little guy and she is a nurse and works long hours, so it was a favour to her. The other kids came from 9-5. But then another parent started noticing just how long my cousin's son was here, and slowly started asking to bring her child earlier and earlier and then stay later and later. I couldn't really say no...what could I say, "No sorry, I have a special arrangement so she gets preferential treatment"?
I don't want to lose my cousin because she is great, we grew up together, we're close. I know that she NEEDS these hours and she is not going to find another child care arrangement that is going to accommodate this. But I am burning out fast keeping 2 children at 11 hours a day.
Honestly, if I just cared for my cousin's little guy those hours it wouldn't be bad at all. He's very mellow. It's the other DCK. She's good, but very high-strung and needs CONSTANT supervision. She's 2.5 and by constant supervision I mean I have to take her to the bathroom with me when I go or else she could very well stand up on a chair and open my fridge freezer for something, I think part of the problem is that she thinks she's 12, LOL. Anyway, ethically speaking, can I tell one parent that I am reducing my hours of operation and tell another parent who just HAPPENS to be my cousin that she can continue bringing her son for 11 hours? Or am I pretty much doomed to continue suffering until one or the other leaves on their own?
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