Why Are We Always the First to Blame?
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I had daycare mother blame on me that someone scratched her toddler girl. Tell you the truth, I always check on the kids everyday (drop them off and pick them up) to make sure there are no scratch, bites, bruises, etc in my house and write it down on my log in everyday. Her mother asked, "Is that boy who scratched my little girl?" and I said no. I asked her to show me where it scratch and she showed to me and I told her no it is not him. She asked me how do you know and I showed her all of my log in book. She was so shocked and apologizes to me because she was so embarrassed. :::
: I told her that her little girl always scratch herself and she said that is what her husband said, too. After that, she never ask me again. What an idiot.
Last year, I had other daycare dad stopped by my house around 7:30pm while my husband helped me cook the dinner. My husband answered the door and I heard them start arguing FRONT of my kids. I stopped by them but I didnt know it was my daycare dad. I asked them what was going on. My husband said that he blamed on me that he pushed his two boys down so hard. I told his daycare dad, "that isn't true how can he pushed them down since he is not around them." My husband gets off around 6 or 7 and the boys went home 5:30pm, how is that possible?? The next day, I gave him a two weeks notice because that wasn't unacceptable behavior toward to my husband and front of my daughters. Later on, I found out that he was making up the stories to blame on my husband because he wants me so badly. EWWWW....- Flag
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I had the weirdest parent get upset with me, because myslef and my 7yr. old daughter was showing the 4 yr. old daugher how to write a correct e, and not do it backwards!!! She ended up leaving over it, and she gave me a bad reference, because I was helping her daugher!!!!!!! I can't believe some parents!!!!- Flag
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I had the weirdest parent get upset with me, because myslef and my 7yr. old daughter was showing the 4 yr. old daugher how to write a correct e, and not do it backwards!!! She ended up leaving over it, and she gave me a bad reference, because I was helping her daugher!!!!!!! I can't believe some parents!!!!Proverbs 12:1
A reminder to myself when I resist learning something new.- Flag
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g-pa treats his 4 1/2 yr old son like a baby. He does everything for him. During the day, I do not put up with that. He puts his cup/plate in the sink when's done. If he doesn't finish his food, he puts in the trash. And he's even been practicing writing. ( a lightbulb must have just switched on this week). When he's done with his paper, he smiles and says he's a big boy and if I'm proud of him. I always tell him that I am proud of him and that he's doing well. He doesn't get this postitive enforcement at home. At home he just watches tv or goes to the playground. He doesn't have any puzzles at home either and this boy really loves to do the board puzzles for ages 3-7.
Thursday when dcb's aunt pick the kids up, he showed her his paper and said mom helped him. I also tell the kids to say my name and I will correct them even in front of the parents. Well, this aunt made a face. Then yesterday, her 3 yr old daughter wanted a hug before she left and said bye mom. I told her it's "my name here" She said but you're a mom too. So I said, okay, I'm a mom too. But her mom looked furious. Now, I have this kids 11 hours/day. IT means nothing to me. Heck, my kids call g-pa, papa, like the other kids do. And all of the dck call both my mil and mom, grandma. Some people are just too touchy. I understand people need to work. But her schedule varies and sometimes she works day,like 6-4 and some times it's 2-midnight so she doesnt' see her kids very much. .- Flag
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I know, it seems like parents are beginning to split into two categories - 1. parents who think their kids are advanced at everything and are going to be doctor/president/lawyer/entrepreneur all rolled into one and 2. parents who try to keep their kids as babies for the rest of their life. Where did all the normal kids and parents go?
Plus, I went thru my old waiting and contact list, and low and behold I found her name, in there, about 2 yrs. ago, called me set up one appt. and no call no show, then took guts even set up one more, no call no show!!! I couldn't believe I found it in there. SO I wrote to her, and told her this, and told do not contact me again, this was very rude to even waste my time!!!!- Flag
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