Feeling Bad, But Still So Frustrating...

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  • minnie.mouse
    New Daycare.com Member
    • May 2012
    • 1

    Feeling Bad, But Still So Frustrating...

    Hello everyone...
    I've been doing daycare for 2 years, I currently watch 5 kiddos ages 18 months to 4 years...

    I have this one family since mid February...
    Child is always dirty (gets a bath once or twice a week), they are never on time, dropping off, or picking up, often ask to pay me a few days later, and I can keep going... at this point the only reason why I'm keeping them is because I will be going on vacation for 8 weeks at the end of May, and I need to save up money...

    I'm constantly reminding them the rules they are breaking, and I've been very, very patient with them... I shouldn't have opened the door to them in many occasions, but I did...

    Then, this Mom, is always ready to call me and complain about something...
    This accident happened Friday... she has to leave the carseat here because someone else from the family is in charge of picking up... I let her do that, even if I don't have room for those bulky carseats in my house...

    I keep it in the daycare bathroom, and the door is always locked. I have a door knob cover on it to keep the little ones out...

    So it happened that I put my small dog in the bathroom for 10 minutes while we had the landscapers in the back yard replacing a sprinkler...
    Well, I guess my dog peed on one side of the car seat... DCM called me all angry because there was a bad smell coming from the car seat...

    I was caught off guard... I couldn't think about the reason, until 5 minutes after she was cussing at me on the phone...

    I apologized, and told her that I was going to be more careful now that I think I know what happened... I asked her if she was able to wash it, and she said yes, that it was clean again.. (note that the car seat in question is one of those that are always covered in crumbles, sticky stuff, spilled milk and juice, and so on...)

    Of course I feel bad... but I thought that the reaction I got was not necessary, since she is aware ( I hope) of all the "passes" I gave them in the past few months...

    I guess is just frustrating...
  • EntropyControlSpecialist
    Embracing the chaos.
    • Mar 2012
    • 7466

    #2
    I read something from another poster here ...

    "Special" is no longer special after it has been given. It then becomes the norm.

    Many hugs.

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    • MizzCheryl
      Advanced Daycare.com Member
      • Mar 2012
      • 478

      #3
      This family is lacking respect and appreciation for you!

      She should not be cussing out her child care provider.
      Accidents will happen.

      You are worth more than this!
      I have a hard time with things like this and confrontation.
      It may be time to rethink this family if they feel they can cuss you it is likely to happen again.
      I have had some parents like this in the past but I will no longer tolerate them. Even if I cannot afford to lose the child I will quit them if a parent cusses me.
      Not Clueless anymore

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      • DaisyMamma
        Advanced Daycare.com Member
        • May 2011
        • 2241

        #4
        Originally posted by LCLC
        "Special" is no longer special after it has been given. It then becomes the norm.
        It's true. They now expect anything you have given in to. Let them know you will be enforcing all policies immediately. Start charging for every little thing, and tell them they can no longer leave the car seat. ::

        Good luck, I feel for you. You should consider terming before your vacation so that you can truly relax!

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        • countrymom
          Daycare.com Member
          • Aug 2010
          • 4874

          #5
          my car seats sit outside, also if someone else is incharge of picking up then they need to have their own carseat.

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          • cheerfuldom
            Advanced Daycare.com Member
            • Dec 2010
            • 7413

            #6
            You should add verbiage to your contract stating that you are not responsible for lost or damaged personal items left at daycare.

            I would probably keep them until vacation if you really need the money. Knowing that there is only 8 weeks left with them will help you hang in there. There is no sense trying to change too much now because you aren't planning on keeping them. That said, I would go about my day getting them in and out as quickly as possible and having as little interaction to do with mom as possible. Thats just me though.

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            • Christian Mother
              Advanced Daycare.com Member
              • Feb 2011
              • 875

              #7
              I am sure it was a shock to learn that your dog peed on the car seat and with the dcp cussing at you ...you prob. wasn't even able to get in a word edgewise!

              Time to start building your back bone lovey! Small steps...start it now...

              No more SPECIAL!!

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