Sad and Out of Sorts

[Blackcat31]

Aw, Silver....Super big ((((HUGS)))) to you!!!

I wish I could help in some way! Life definitely likes to throw those curve balls at us and sometimes even appears to be mocking us, however, don't lose sight of the blessings you do have! You and your family are healthy and love each other. Together you can make it through anything!

My family has faced tough times and a ton of crappy situations but muddled through together....please know that you are NEVER and no matter, what you have support here from your virtual friends!

I may not be able to offer your DH a job or put food on your table or work with your mortgage company but I can surely be a shoulder to cry on, a warm wish, or happy thought for you! I can be supportive and encouraging as well as a great listener too!

Hang in there and good things WILL come your way......I believe in karma and you are one of the most deserving people I 'know' so I also believe that you and your family WILL overcome this hurdle and be stronger despite and becasue of it!!!

lovethislovethisSending tons of love and good wishes and thoughts your way!! lovethislovethis

[MN Day Mom]

So sorry you are dealing with so much right now. Prayers for you, your family and your daycare family/friend who lost her baby. Hugs!!

[temom]

Silver, you are in my prayers. i am so sorry your family has to go through this, i pray things turn around for you quickly and works out for the best.

[SunshineMama]

PM me if you like- I was in charge of loss mitigation for 2 of the largest banks in our city before I did daycare, I may be able to point pu in the right direction to help you avoid foreclosure.

Sorry you are going through all of this stress right now when I am feeling like my world is spinning out of control I try to remember that, no matter what, as long as I have my husband and kids and we are all together we will be okay. Hang in there! God only gives you what you can handle, He must think you are very strong!

[Country Kids]

Silver, we went through a job loss last year after being with the company 16 years. Wasn't the companies fault just the economy. Took hubs only 2 months to find something new.

Have your hubby get a great resume together. See if someone you know can help him put one together or see if there is a class he can take at the unemployment office.

Have him apply everywhere! Have him look on your states website as that is where my hubby found his new job and believe you me that isn't what he had done before. What got him the job was having great customer service skills. There are many job websites from employers looking for people.

IF you ever need to talk please feel free to pm me! I know what your going through (except for the pregnancy) but will offer any support/advice I can!!


Lots of lovethis and coming your way!

[dave4him]

Hang in there. I know the feeling there, your hubby no doubt feeling pretty lost at thie point, just keep him busy while he looks. I dont know about your personal faith, but i couldnt get through my own unemployment without trusting God and letting him work through me. Its a hard place to be

[Meeko]

Aw..Silver......wish I had a way to take away the stress. All I can do is say you are in my thoughts and prayers. Been there/done that........no fun.

HUGS comin' your way .....we're all cheering for you. xx

[Christian Mother]

I am sorry Silver!! I will be praying for your family....I understand completely what your going through we just went through the exact same thing although I'm not pregnant. It so scary, so frustrating..you are probably in shock right now which is what I went through plus many more emotions...trust in the Lord...he got me through every thing...We looked into foreclosure, bankruptcy, and ended up doing a short sale that went through and closed all in 2 months. Hubby found a job in 6 months. He ended up going out side of town to find work as there was nothing in his field where we live. He walked company to company dressed in interview close handing out his resume. He ended up getting hired by doing just that for a AWESOME company with full benefits, 401K, great family friend company that pays very well. God is the one to thank for all this as he had completely answered all our prayers and it all worked out to a "T" which is something God could only do. When I tell people what we've been through...how we where able to get out of it...it all was done perfectly...I couldn't have planned any of the way it worked out...that was God in his own perfect plan. And trust Him...he will get you through this..I am a perfect person of how God has worked in my life.

[Hunni Bee]

That sounds like a ton of stress. Im sorry you're going through that. Hope you receive a blessing soon

[Sugar Magnolia]

I'm so sorry Silver. I wish I could take away your pain. I hope he finds a good job soon. Hugs for you. Been there.

[karen]

I am sorry Silver!!!!! Don't give up hope I am sure your honey will find something. Has he tried
indeed.com
careerboard.com
careerbuilder.com
monster.com
try all the local papers in your area.
As far as work issues on resume take off some of those jobs and he could put down that he has been a stay at home dad for the past 6 monts.
Re vamp his resume send it to all the companies in your area that he is interested in working for. Even if they don't have an ad out because you never know what is going on inside the company maybe someone is leaving and they haven't put an ad out yet.
Seriously nothing wrong with working at MCd's some income is better than no income!!!!!
How about honey work with you and maybe you can get a second or third shift started as I am sure their is a need.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!! It will work out for you and your family!!!!

[WImom]

Sorry your going through this. Hopefully things will turn around soon. I know when I was a stay at home mom I did some typing jobs online but I remember seeing a bunch of customer service/call center stuff. Could he do that from home while he is still looking for a job?

[CKSher]

So sorry to hear that you are going through so many awful things at once. I am praying for you and your hubby! We all have our dark and dreary days, but just know that the sun will rise again soon and things will start looking so much better. Hugs!!!

[mema]

Hugs and prayers coming at ya. Keep your chin up. It will all work out.

[SilverSabre25]

Thank you so much everyone. It's nice to know there's so much support in this community.

We've been looking in lots of differnt places for jobs for DH. I do most of the searching because he's stuck at "call center" and I keep branching out for him.

Today I did manage to convince him to take at least one of the short-term jobs off his resume. He's all "but now I'm LYING" and "They'll find out..." not if you don't tell them...