Daycare To Blame Again...Vent

[daycare]

So I have been helping this family for months now. I have done everything short of offering FREE childcare. I have a big heart and I love that I can do this. BUT this will be my final and last time ever trying to help someone.

DCP are going through a very nasty divorce. Parents are always at it, DCD not complying with the DCM, not picking up kids when supposed to and etc. (you know all the drama) Well DCK age 4 all of a sudden starting wetting pants at DC.. it happened at home a few times, but often than not, the wetting was happening here mostly.

I have a discussion with the DCM about it and DCM tells me that the doc said that it is an attention thing. Which I had already told her that I believed this to be the case from the start. DCM goes on to say, well I think it is because you have too many kids (1 to 6 ratio) and you are not paying attention to him when he wants you.................................................

REALLY
OK i am done venting and trying to help anyone!!!

[mrsp'slilpeeps]

Huh yeah.

Time to say Buh Bye.

[Lucy]

She would have gotten the stink eye from me BIG TIME, and probably followed by something like, "Um..... don't blame this on me!"

[CheekyChick]

I guess it has nothing to do with YOU and his FATHER turning your son's life upside down. Argh!!!

[daycare]

yeah don't throw your guilt on me......You might feel better for putting you blame on me, but don't spit on the only person trying to help you..........

[GretasLittleFriends]

How did you resist from saying anything in response to her?????? How long has he been with you?

I would have said little Johnny has been fine here with Bobby, Jenny, Susie, Timmy and Sammy. His changes here have coincided with his family changes at home. If you really feel this way, maybe you should find someone who can provide 1:1 care for him. And knowing me, I may not have quite so polite or smiley about it.

[cheerfuldom]

I would have said "if that is the way you feel, you are welcome to give me a two weeks notice at any time and find a new, smaller daycare for him. My ratio is not changing due to your personal issues. Keep me updated on your decision. thanks"

[daycare]

I would have said "if that is the way you feel, you are welcome to give me a two weeks notice at any time and find a new, smaller daycare for him. My ratio is not changing due to your personal issues. Keep me updated on your decision. thanks"

today is the DCK last day, so I just bite my tongue a little...

I did say, did you ever stop to think that maybe the kid is letting their emotions out because this is where they feel safe? Left it at that and said see ya later....

[MissK]

I did say, did you ever stop to think that maybe the kid is letting their emotions out because this is where they feel safe? Left it at that and said see ya later....

IMO...Perfect

[Ariana]

today is the DCK last day, so I just bite my tongue a little...

I did say, did you ever stop to think that maybe the kid is letting their emotions out because this is where they feel safe? Left it at that and said see ya later....

Love it!!!

[DaisyMamma]

Good for you.