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  • Hunni Bee
    False Sense Of Authority
    • Feb 2011
    • 2397

    I Need Some Advice

    I will be getting a new child a couple weeks from now. He's been in the toddler room at my center for the past couple years because he's quite delayed. He's nearly 4.5, but he's never used the potty, he still wears a bib for profuse drooling and he's basically on the level of a young two year old. One of his several diagnoses is MR.

    His mother recently began requesting he be moved up to my room, because the school he goes to is putting pressure on her that he stop wearing bibs, be potty trained, etc. She basically allows him to do whatever because he's special needs, so I guess she's looking to us to accomplish these things.

    My problem is this....my classroom is not set up for him. All my kids are older 4s, we have small pieces...he still puts things in his mouth. He drools constantly as he is unable to control it. His motor skills and speech are all rudimentary, and my curriculum and materials may be too advanced for.him. The biggest thing is that he's not potty trained in the least, and due to some sensory issue, he doesn't completely evacuate....so he's poopy all the time.

    I see a lot of time being spent changing him and cleaning the toys in my future. I still will have 9 or 10 other kids.

    Its done at this point and of course was decided on the day I was absent, so it hasn't even been discussed with me. I heard it through the grapevine.

    What can I do to make it.easier on the child, my other kids and myself?

    Sorry for all the random periods...im on.my phone.
  • MizzCheryl
    Advanced Daycare.com Member
    • Mar 2012
    • 478

    #2
    That stinks Hunni Bee. Don't ya love when decisions are made without you.
    I am not sure I have any good suggestions for you but will keep you in my prayers. Good luck. I hope that they change their minds. I bet you will do great with him. Mom must think alot of you since she asked for him to be in your classroom.
    Not Clueless anymore

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    • newtodaycare22
      Daycare.com Member
      • Apr 2010
      • 673

      #3
      My guess is that he doesn't have an aide with him?

      Do you have a really good leader in your group? I know this is not the same thing, but when I added a young 2 to my group of 3/4s I made my best leader 'her buddy'. She helps her get ready with shoes and coats, helps me keep an eye on her at parks, and she even helped me with potty training. ::

      Maybe pick a kid (or a few) and explain to them the situation. He is different from them. He may try to do things like put things in the mouth. Once you learn the child's temperament, you can either tell them to nicely correct him or (if he doesn't react well to that), have them come tell you. An extra set of eyes is wonderful...4 year olds can seem amazingly helpful when you also have a lower maturity level child around. ::

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