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I am so mad right now I'm shaking, maybe I shouldn't be and shouldn't let it bother me but I have this one dc dad who is just always annoying and rude and I really just can't stand him, but I like his son. I've had them for over a year. I can go on and on about stuff he's done but to today.. 2 weeks ago I changed something and let everyone know in a newsletter, I used to allow kids to bring toys from home and now no longer allow it starting today, (which they knew this 2 weeks ago), instead we are having "show and tell" one day a week, I have been talking with the kids about this the last 2 weeks and although a couple of them may not understand just yet until we actually do it. So this morning he comes up here with 2 toys in his hand, dad is trying to get it from him with no luck, (why did he even let him leave their house with them???) He's the parent tell him no, so he says fine let Michelle tell you, so he comes up to the door and he says she'll tell you you can't bring them, I reminded him that we weren't bringing toys from home and told him about the "show and tell" we've been talking about and said dad will need to take them home, he starts screaming and running back to the car, his dad says, it really ****s that rules are always put on us. I said rules are every where we go, we all have rules, when he goes to school he is not going to be allowed to take toys to school. He says oh I know I'm not mad, and as he's walking to go get his son he says it's your rules and you have a right to enforce them. so he pulls his son back up to the door screaming, pulling the stuff out of his hands saying I'm sorry I know it's not fair, I said thanks make me look bad and not being supportive, if you don't like the rules then he interrupts and says oh no it's cool, whatever, so I take off his shoes he's screaming and crying and kicking, dad turns around and leaves, I looked at the dcb and said you have a choice, you can either stop acting this way and go play with my toys or you can go sit in here, he didn't answer so I picked him up set him down and he continued to throw his tantrum for over 10 min.
Why can't parents tell their kids, no, why can't they be the parent and say this is the rules, why do they have to make ME tell them. I don't get people at all, not to mention this particular dad is always just saying and doing things. I'm sure his dad is laughing going, well at least I didn't have to deal with it, it's HER rule, instead of tell me telling him no and listening to him scream and cry all the way to her house, she can tell him and listen to it. I just don't get it. My husband said I need to let him go but I can't afford it.
Then another parent who can't tell her son no did the same thing!!!! At least she said it isnt' fair so you need to give it to me, but again why can't people tell their kids at home NO!!!! Am I going to have to deal with this every day??? What a way to start out my monday.
Why can't parents tell their kids, no, why can't they be the parent and say this is the rules, why do they have to make ME tell them. I don't get people at all, not to mention this particular dad is always just saying and doing things. I'm sure his dad is laughing going, well at least I didn't have to deal with it, it's HER rule, instead of tell me telling him no and listening to him scream and cry all the way to her house, she can tell him and listen to it. I just don't get it. My husband said I need to let him go but I can't afford it.
Then another parent who can't tell her son no did the same thing!!!! At least she said it isnt' fair so you need to give it to me, but again why can't people tell their kids at home NO!!!! Am I going to have to deal with this every day??? What a way to start out my monday.
. I have kids that come before 7 & get picked up in the 3-3:30 range, and 2 families that are here longer- 1 from 7:30 til anywhere from 5:15 to 5:30 -the county worker who works 10 mn away( It depends on if she stops for cigarettes on her way, I think) and a construction worker& nurse couple who pick up anywhere from 4:30 to 5:30, depending on the season/where he's working. It seems like it might be difficult to implement consistently when you have multiple pick up times.
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