Out of Diapers?

[momma2girls]

SHe also can afford to pay you when she is keeping her child home with her, and you aren't getting paid!!

[youretooloud]

Yes that means the kids stay here longer when she does that. And no I don't get paid extra

Is there any way you can make that more difficult for her?

Honestly, I hate people like her. There are so many people who TRULY need the help, and these lazy self entitled slobs just want everything for free but **** the life out of everyone. Nobody wants to help the worthy when the worthless are taking advantage.

[sahm2three]

Can you bill her (Instead of the state) for the day? I have several kids on state assistance and there are often days the kids do not attend that the state does not pay for but my contract says are paid days so I bill the family directly.

I would lose the money before I borrowed her anything. If you borrow her money then you are enabling her as well. I understand that you don't want to lose the money but in the long run, you are better off ****ing it up than feeding into her entitlement.

I would also start advertising to fill her place.....that family is rediculous and I would not want to continue dealing with all the issues she brings upon herself. Especially because they have such an impact on others (you) and she doesn't really even care...

Yep. This. If they don't come, I can bill the state for an unscheduled absence once a week up to 9 hours, but after that, if they don't come, I bill the parents.

[PitterPatter]

Is there any way you can make that more difficult for her?

Honestly, I hate people like her. There are so many people who TRULY need the help, and these lazy self entitled slobs just want everything for free but **** the life out of everyone. Nobody wants to help the worthy when the worthless are taking advantage.

This is my point exactly! I am all for helping others and I totally understand the need for govt assistance. I would give a needy family the clothes off my back and I have done a lot for my clients families even packing groceries out of my own pantry. But when families are just out to get everything they can and not even say thank you, then I stop. I wish the govt would stop giving too. I don't know how it works but I wish they had a way to cross reference all the organizations give then they could see who was needy and who was just abusing the system. Example: If you are selling all of your food stamps month after month then you aren't in need!

Not really much I can do but I have been cracking down everywhere I can. My spots are by the day so as long as she stays within the hours I can't even fine her late fees. Trust me I have been on her like white on rice because she has caused me sooo much drama recently so I haven't been taking anything from her. I have even been rude because I am just fed up with the whining and her daily stories of how everyone owes them. I would love to share more but due to privacy I can't. I will say I have never in my entire life met a person like her, honest to God!

I have a ringtone just for her that has a siren going off and loudly announces "BULLSHI**ER ALERT, BULLSHI**ER ALERT". It gives me a little satisfaction and even a giggle instead of the usual dread and sighs. ::

I know shame on me!

[Crazy8]

honestly, this is why I do not take subsidy clients. My one and only one (who didn't tell me they were subsidy until AFTER I accepted them) was beating the system by claiming she was "separated" from her husband when she wasn't. I reported it numerous times and was told there was nothing they could do because when they'd send her the forms to "update" her info she'd still claim to be separated. I decided from that point on I didn't want to be working with subsidy clients at all.