OMG... This Is Freaky!

[MamaBear]

I also think you did the right thing. Ive run into some weirdos in this business and never open my door for anyone i dont know, especially a situation like this. Its just plain weird to cone to someones house that you dont know because they havent returned a phone call. Yes she could of stopped if you called her right away or she could of gotten confrontational also. I think you did the right thing.

Thank you Christinaskids Happy Thursday! Its almost the weekend! Woohoo!

[MamaBear]

Follow up on Crazy lady...

I went grocery shopping last night and I'm looking at cream cheese and this lady is standing VERY close to me looking at the same item. I move away a couple feet because I need my "personal space". I move away from her and realize its THE CRAZY LADY who was ringing my bell days ago!!!! I don't say anything and just walk over to the produce section. I don't know if she recognized me at that point because she hasn't seen me in like 6 years.

I'm looking at avocados now and all of a sudden she is right next to me AGAIN!!! I move away AGAIN. I grab my avocados and go to the lettuce... and there she is... close again. So lastly I go get apples & grapes on the other end and she follows! I then go from weirded out to just irritated.

I look at her like "WHAT???" as I'm putting grapes in a bag. I notice she has no basket and she's not even picking anything up. She won't look at me at all now. She then turns around and walks away out of the store!!!

What is that about??? Is she stalking me??? This is starting to kinda freak me out more now. Maybe I'm just being paranoid. But I am 100% sure it was her because she is very recognizable and I saw her in my peep hole the other day. You can't mistake this woman's face for anyone else.

I'm officially creeped out!

[Zoe]

Oh my.....that is scary.

[Sugar Magnolia]

Ok, that sure sounds like stalking. Did you notice what she was driving when she pounded in your door? Be on the lookout for that vehicle near your home, and if you see it, call 911. I hope you saved the voicemails and call log because this is evidence. I'm thinking she parked down the street and followed you which is MESSED UP!

[MyAngels]

I went grocery shopping last night and I'm looking at cream cheese and this lady is standing VERY close to me looking at the same item. I move away a couple feet because I need my "personal space". I move away from her and realize its THE CRAZY LADY who was ringing my bell days ago!!!! I don't say anything and just walk over to the produce section. I don't know if she recognized me at that point because she hasn't seen me in like 6 years.

I'm looking at avocados now and all of a sudden she is right next to me AGAIN!!! I move away AGAIN. I grab my avocados and go to the lettuce... and there she is... close again. So lastly I go get apples & grapes on the other end and she follows! I then go from weirded out to just irritated.

I look at her like "WHAT???" as I'm putting grapes in a bag. I notice she has no basket and she's not even picking anything up. She won't look at me at all now. She then turns around and walks away out of the store!!!

What is that about??? Is she stalking me??? This is starting to kinda freak me out more now. Maybe I'm just being paranoid. But I am 100% sure it was her because she is very recognizable and I saw her in my peep hole the other day. You can't mistake this woman's face for anyone else.

I'm officially creeped out!

You know, I'm not normally an alarmist, but this would be worth a phone call to the police to me. I'd just call and talk to someone to see if they think you should file a formal report. That's seriously creepy .

[daycare]

not sure if you recall or not, but I was being followed by a creepy prospective client. I reported it right away.

If I were you, I would report it right now. Let them know everything...
I am so sorry that this is happening to you....

[Childminder]

Yeah, this is creepy! I'd be calling the police at the very least to make them aware of a potential problem. The fact that this is a daycare will put you on their radar. I have had a few unusual situations happen here over the years, ie; someone stumbling around in front of my home, neighbor across the streets grown son having some kind of "episode" in the front yard, dead deer in front of my driveway, gas main break, stuff like that...and all I do is call the police, say I'm a daycare and BAM they show up. They are as concerned with the safety of the children as you are and if you feel threatened they will take a report and maybe show a greater police presence. Once they parked an empty police cruiser in our drive for a few days just to show a threatening former parent that they were aware of his bull.

[MamaBear]

Yes I know what kind of car she has and so I've been totally on the look out for it on my street since yesterday. I think your right Sugar Magnolia... I think she was probably on my street watching me leave yesterday. I got done early @ 330 yesterday and went grocery shopping right after. I didn't notice anyone on my street but I wasn't really thinking about someone stalking me at that time. Now I'm totally on the alert for it.

If I see one more episode of her near my home or anywhere that I am, I will definitely call the police. I don't get why she would even do this? It's so bizarre! I just looked up her name on "white pages" and found her address too --- so in case something else does happen, I can totally I.D. her. I've never had such a strange encounter before. It's like 'daycare fatal attraction'! sheesh!

Thanks daycare, Childminder, Sugar Magnolia and Myangels... I'll definitely be on high alert. Thanks for your advice. It's good to know that the police will react swiftly to me if I need to call them.

[saved4always]

I was a little creeped out just reading your post. I agree with the others posting that you should call the police to report it and let them know about the situation in case you see her lurking around your home or anywhere else you go. I would guess there is probably not anything they can do about it right now, but maybe they can give you advice. And if you do not already, make sure to always lock your doors of you home and car, just in case she actually is crazy! I hope that is the last you see of her!

[daycare]

If I were you, I would not wait until something else happens, just report it. When I did, the police drove around my neighborhood more often and they even called me 3 days later too see if I had any more sighting of the woman.

Its always better to be safe than sorry....I am so sorry you are having to go through this especially without the support of your husband. YOu really don't know what this woman is capable of....

[MarinaVanessa]

Yes report it! It got from wierd to creepy really fast. Just call the non-emergency line and say that you want to file a report. Tell them everything that has happened up to this point, additionally I would start a log too. Document, document, document. Have you called licensing yet? If not I'd call them and put them on alert too, you don't know what she's capable of indeed! You never know, she may be or has been or will do this to someone else.

[countrymom]

wow,thats scary. I would call the non emergency number and just make a report. Mention your a daycare and they will take care of you.

[Sugar Magnolia]

wow,thats scary. I would call the non emergency number and just make a report. Mention your a daycare and they will take care of you.

Agree, BUT if I saw her in my rear view mirror, I dunno, thats 911 material. Its beyond creepy, its scary! Not to be an alarmist, but this woman sounds deranged.

[e.j.]

Oh, wow! I would advise calling the police as well. Her behavior really is not normal. If it were me in this situation, I would call the police, describe what's going on and see what they suggest you do. Hopefully, they can and will help you with this situatioin. At the very least, calling them starts the process of creating a "paper trail" in case things escalate.

[MamaBear]

Thanks guys. I called the local police dept this afternoon and talked to them about the whole situation. Not really much they can do they said, but they told me to just let them know if I see her near my home again or harasses me whatsoever. At least they have on record now that I've called about it. They said I did the right thing by not opening the door for her the other day. Now I'm VERY glad I did not.

So thanks for the advice. I'm glad I called them just to get some peace of mind. Now I just wait and see if she comes around again. I'm hoping not. :confused: