Oh Boy - Here We Go

Collapse
X
 
  • Time
  • Show
Clear All
new posts
  • sahm2three
    Daycare.com Member
    • Apr 2010
    • 1104

    Oh Boy - Here We Go

    Terminated mom is causing issues. I have covered all of my bases. Let the hailstorm begin!
  • SilverSabre25
    Senior Member
    • Aug 2010
    • 7585

    #2
    (((HUGS))) Good luck! We're hear to provide backbone support if you need it!

    And virtual chocolate, too.

    Hee hee! Look, I have a signature!

    Comment

    • Meyou
      Advanced Daycare.com Member
      • Feb 2011
      • 2734

      #3
      More backbone here. Terminated mom should be worrying about her baby and not you.

      Comment

      • MarinaVanessa
        Family Childcare Home
        • Jan 2010
        • 7211

        #4
        Aww man, now you have me curious as to what "issues" she has started.

        Good luck to you. Hopefully she'll give up soon.

        Comment

        • Blackcat31
          • Oct 2010
          • 36124

          #5
          Hang in there... we are all here for you!

          Don't let her short comings as a parent effect you! You did the right thing.

          Comment

          • Heidi
            Daycare.com Member
            • Sep 2011
            • 7121

            #6
            oooooohhhh boy!

            Hang in there, baby! Just remember, YOU did the right thing!

            Comment

            • Live and Learn
              Daycare.com Member
              • Sep 2010
              • 956

              #7
              Remember to always take the high road in situations like this. Don't dignify her drama with drama of your own. Stay aloof and get on with your life.

              Good luck.

              Comment

              • Kaddidle Care
                Daycare.com Member
                • Dec 2010
                • 2090

                #8
                Originally posted by sahm2three
                Terminated mom is causing issues. I have covered all of my bases. Let the hailstorm begin!
                It's YOUR business and you have the right to deal with whomever you want. And you have the right to not deal with whomever you want as well. It's your home after all.

                Comment

                • sahm2three
                  Daycare.com Member
                  • Apr 2010
                  • 1104

                  #9
                  Well, I will give you a little bit of info on her drama. She is telling me I am childish because I termed her over text. Well, she wouldn't answer the phone! Also told me to "Get a real job!" ROFL! To which I responded, "Take care now!" Then she has been non stop texting me all day. I have ignored many of them, some of them I have wished her well. Sad. But I did what I had to do, and I guess I will let the other happy parents and kids speak for my program.

                  Comment

                  • Mary Poppins
                    Daycare.com Member
                    • Jan 2012
                    • 403

                    #10
                    Originally posted by sahm2three
                    Also told me to "Get a real job!"
                    Well that alone says everything I need to know about her.

                    I had one who tried to start drama over email and text and I simply texted back ONCE with "please do not respond except with payment". She eventually gave up and will probably end up in collections before the month is through. ::

                    People are just... ugh.

                    Comment

                    • saved4always
                      Daycare.com Member
                      • Dec 2011
                      • 1019

                      #11
                      Originally posted by sahm2three
                      Well, I will give you a little bit of info on her drama. She is telling me I am childish because I termed her over text. Well, she wouldn't answer the phone! Also told me to "Get a real job!" ROFL! To which I responded, "Take care now!" Then she has been non stop texting me all day. I have ignored many of them, some of them I have wished her well. Sad. But I did what I had to do, and I guess I will let the other happy parents and kids speak for my program.
                      I had parents who decided to move their children after we had a "disagreement". I am very content not to have them anymore as their part time schedule ruined the flow of my days. Guess I wasn't upset enough with thier leaving so they left me a very rude text message. I didn't even bother to answer it; I was done with them. Especially since they showed thier true colors throughout the situation. If I were you, I would just refuse to respond to her texts anymore. Hopefully she will stop eventually when she sees she cannot get a rise out of you. I haven't heard from my imature dcp's since that first un-answered text.

                      Comment

                      • Kaddidle Care
                        Daycare.com Member
                        • Dec 2010
                        • 2090

                        #12
                        Originally posted by sahm2three
                        Well, I will give you a little bit of info on her drama. She is telling me I am childish because I termed her over text. Well, she wouldn't answer the phone! Also told me to "Get a real job!" ROFL! To which I responded, "Take care now!" Then she has been non stop texting me all day. I have ignored many of them, some of them I have wished her well. Sad. But I did what I had to do, and I guess I will let the other happy parents and kids speak for my program.
                        Block her then. She is being an A$$. She should be spending more time working and looking for her new DCP.

                        So... did you report her to CPS? Sounds like she's almost daring you to.

                        Comment

                        • Daycaremomof2
                          Daycare.com Member
                          • Oct 2011
                          • 101

                          #13
                          She actually said "get a real job" !?! I suppose caring for HER child was not a "real" job. OMG. Wow. Sounds like she needs to rearrange her priorities and take her "real" job and buy some class.

                          Comment

                          • Countrygal
                            Advanced Daycare.com Member
                            • Aug 2011
                            • 976

                            #14
                            Wishing you the best! Hang in there!happyface

                            Comment

                            • Breezy
                              Daycare.com Member
                              • Jun 2011
                              • 1271

                              #15
                              I had a DCP upset with me because I was trying to collect a late payment. She said she shouldnt pay because I just left her kid on the floor all day. Hahaha ok then.

                              Comment

                              Working...