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  • KEG123
    Where Children Grow
    • Nov 2010
    • 1252

    #31
    How horrible.

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    • PitterPatter
      Advanced Daycare.com Member
      • Mar 2011
      • 1507

      #32
      This is very tragic!! I am so sorry for that family's loss and your own loss as well! HUGS

      It just goes to show we never know from 1 minute to the next what will happen. I hug my kids as much as possible and remind my friends and family just what they mean to me!

      Prayers going out!

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      • Meeko
        Advanced Daycare.com Member
        • Mar 2011
        • 4349

        #33
        Her funeral is next Saturday and she is going to buried with her two baby daughters that passed before her.

        I have been touched to see her Facebook page which has been flooded with pictures that people had of themselves with her. I so wish she could have understood how much she was loved by so many.

        She is in a better place...now for the healing to begin for her family. After the funeral they are having a big "Thanksgiving" style dinner for a big crowd to celebrate her life instead of mourn it.

        They have already made arrangements for therapy for her 4 year old daughter to deal with things. I so hope it helps.

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        • MommyofThree
          Daycare.com Member
          • Mar 2011
          • 219

          #34
          First off im am truly sorry that you and her family has to go through this!!!!!!!!! Now It makes me livid for a mother to be so selfish!!!!!!!! Yes I feel nothing for the women who passed. she didnt think about her children before she did this. Her older child had to defend her self and thank god was smart enough to call her daddy. Im srry if I sound like a cold hearted person but I had a time in life when I was depressed but the only thing that kept me waking up in the am was my children. How does a person leave their child to defend her and the younger one. Now those poor kids are split up

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          • Michelle
            Daycare.com Member
            • Jan 2011
            • 1932

            #35
            Originally posted by melissathayer28
            First off im am truly sorry that you and her family has to go through this!!!!!!!!! Now It makes me livid for a mother to be so selfish!!!!!!!! Yes I feel nothing for the women who passed. she didnt think about her children before she did this. Her older child had to defend her self and thank god was smart enough to call her daddy. Im srry if I sound like a cold hearted person but I had a time in life when I was depressed but the only thing that kept me waking up in the am was my children. How does a person leave their child to defend her and the younger one. Now those poor kids are split up
            I agree with you partly but I also think that her family and friends could have helped more. It's really sad when these things happen and all kinds of family/friends suddenly come around to help when it's too late.
            She had to have sent out some sort of clues that she needed help.
            I do feel bad for the whole family including the mom, but I do agree that suicide is a selfish act.
            I am wondering though if there was some kind of chemical imbalance,post partem, or mental disorders going on.

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            • AfterSchoolMom
              Advanced Daycare.com Member
              • Dec 2009
              • 1973

              #36
              I'm just now reading this. I am SO sorry to hear it. How awful for that family and for you, Meeko.

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              • Sprouts
                Licensed Provider
                • Dec 2010
                • 846

                #37
                I guess this is a wake up call that depression can lead to something like this, the poor 4 year old and little boy have to be the ones to suffer, my heart goes out to them.....sorry Meeko you have to deal with this situation it must so saddening

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                • AllDeezBabies
                  Cuteness overload lover
                  • Nov 2011
                  • 197

                  #38
                  Originally posted by Sprouts
                  I guess this is a wake up call that depression can lead to something like this, the poor 4 year old and little boy have to be the ones to suffer, my heart goes out to them.....sorry Meeko you have to deal with this situation it must so saddening
                  I'm so sorry to hear that. Praying for you and their family.

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                  • themoorethemerrier
                    Daycare.com Member
                    • Sep 2011
                    • 159

                    #39
                    Oh, how devastating. Lots of prayers for this family and for you.

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                    • daycare
                      Advanced Daycare.com *********
                      • Feb 2011
                      • 16259

                      #40
                      this really is a very very sad story....just when you think your life is hard or taht things are tough, there is always someone else who is worse off than yourself. I feel so sad that the mom had no one she could trust to turn to so that she could talk about her problems. I can't agree that it was selfish, we don't know what she was going through.

                      My best friend lost the love of her life when he took his life. His troubles were so deep and i know he felt there was no way out. I don't agree with what he did, but when someone is that rock bottom, i don't think that they truly have a sense of reality.

                      I hope that the situations takes a turn for the better for everyone.

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