Very Worried About Health of a 18 Month DCG

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    Very Worried About Health of a 18 Month DCG

    DCG is 18 months old. Teeny tiny for her age. In the 10-20 percentile for height and weight. Now my own daughter was like this...but my own daughter ate like a horse.

    This child does not eat anything. She doesn't eat fruit or veggies. She will eat bread and meat if it is really saucy. For example today we had sloppy joes on toasted wheat bread (I minced up some veggies and mixed it into her meat as well as put some on the sides) and cut it into fourths...She breaks her food apart and smashes it up into tiny little bites to eat. It took her 45 mins to eat one fourth of her sandwich and then she was done and full. I know I can't possibly get all the veggies she needs hidden into such a little amount of food.

    Her bowl movements are almost always white and she either has diarrhea or she is severely constipated. When I say severely constipated I mean her bowel movements are sooo big and sooo hard that they get stuck and she screams and cries in pain and usually needs assistance.

    When she had her last physical doc said she needed to be put on pediasure and fruit and veggies needed to be encouraged. She also has to go back to the doctor over Christmas break because her blood work showed an iron deficiency and her white blood cell count was off.

    DCM seems to be wishy-washy most of the time on rather or not she cares or worries about the matter.

    Any of you have children like this? What should I do about it?
  • kidkair
    Celebrating Daily!
    • Aug 2010
    • 673

    #2
    Can you talk to the doctor yourself? Does she drink the pediasure? Does she drink juice? I'd see if I could get her to drink lots of fresh made juice or thick juices like Naked juice and V8 to get her fruit and veggies up. Does she eat more if you feed it to her vs her self feeding? Maybe go back to baby puree and baby cereal to get her to eat and get more iron? I'd be researching like crazy and talking to the parents like mad to get them to get her help as it sounds like she's failing to thrive.
    Celebrate! ::

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    • Unregistered

      #3
      White poop is an emergency situation. My DD had one and I was told if it ever happens again, to bring her to the ER immediately.

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        #4
        I've tried everything and can't get her to eat more. She refuses being spoon fed. DCM said she was like that as an infant also and when she began purees she would never eat a whole lot. She does drink apple juice but DCM doesn't like to give her juice and only does it when she is severely constipated like she is. I never thought about the V8 juice. I may run that by DCM as an idea but give that to her while she is here with her snack or something.

        DCM goes back and forth between thinking she is just going to be "skinny and tall" and actually being worried about her.

        I had another DCG sorta like this as a baby...but I believe it was because she drank loads and loads of milk and was to full of that to eat actual food. Once her milk intake was cut down she began eating foods. Now she is one of my best eaters.

        This DCG however only drinks the recommended amount of milk.

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        • Meyou
          Advanced Daycare.com Member
          • Feb 2011
          • 2734

          #5
          Does she like to drink milk from a bottle or sippie cup?

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            #6
            She was on a bottle but has been off of it for about 2 months. The v8 idea inspired me to figure out something around the house I could concoct up for her right now so I steamed up some broccoli and mixed it in a blender with some apple juice and she is chugging it down.

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            • Breezy
              Daycare.com Member
              • Jun 2011
              • 1271

              #7
              Originally posted by Unregistered
              White poop is an emergency situation. My DD had one and I was told if it ever happens again, to bring her to the ER immediately.
              This is what I have been told as well.

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              • Country Kids
                Nature Lover
                • Mar 2011
                • 5051

                #8
                To the op, google white bowel movements. Might give you some insights to whats up. She might have something blocked and need to be seen right away!
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                • Blackcat31
                  • Oct 2010
                  • 36124

                  #9
                  Here is a good thread about this same topic....

                  so today I went to help DCK wipe after going #2 and the stool was white.. all of it.. she went 4 times before lunch and all were the same way.. I looked online and it stated that it could be liver or blockage and many other very harmful things... I am just wondering if any of you have ever experienced this with one of

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                  • AmyLeigh
                    Daycare.com Member
                    • Oct 2011
                    • 868

                    #10
                    Originally posted by logged out for privacy
                    She was on a bottle but has been off of it for about 2 months. The v8 idea inspired me to figure out something around the house I could concoct up for her right now so I steamed up some broccoli and mixed it in a blender with some apple juice and she is chugging it down.
                    Green Smoothies!!! My 23 mo dcg was in a similar situation, just not as severe. She came to me at 15 months, not walking, not talking, didn't eat, was so dehydrated her lips were chapped constantly and always constipated. Mom gives her pediasure daily. I started giving her green smoothies at least once a week. Just do like you did with the broccoli. Blend up some yummy fruit, yogurt, juice and add spinach or kale. You can't taste the greens, but because they are blended, the nutrients go into the blood stream faster. I use frozen fruit to make it more like a milkshake, but a younger one may need it to be a bit thinner. Try in in a straw cup if she can use one. The fiber in the fruits/veggies and the probiotics in the yogurt will help the digestive system, too. If you want recipes, just google green smoothies. There are a ton of ideas on the web.

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                    • frgsonmysox
                      Daycare.com Member
                      • Dec 2011
                      • 235

                      #11
                      My daughter was never even on the growth charts, at 1 year she only weighed 15 lbs BUT the white poop is a huge warning flag that something is wrong health wise with this girl.

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                      • AmyLeigh
                        Daycare.com Member
                        • Oct 2011
                        • 868

                        #12
                        Okay, so after processing the information a little more....I am wondering....If mom is made aware of a symptom of a very serious illness and doesn't take the child to the doctor for it, shouldn't it be reported to CPS? That would be considered medical neglect.

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                        • frgsonmysox
                          Daycare.com Member
                          • Dec 2011
                          • 235

                          #13
                          I guess it kind of depends. I had people tell me my daughter was FTT because she was only 15 lbs at a year, but it was just genetics. She was supposed to be small. I wouldn't take my child to the doctors every time someone told me they thought he or she needed it. The poop IS a major concern, but she may not be aware how dire that is.

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                          • CheekyChick
                            Daycare.com Member
                            • Dec 2009
                            • 810

                            #14
                            Poor baby...

                            I believe white stool means there is a problem with the liver. This mom NEEDS to get involved in her child's medical care. I would tell her that you would be happy to attend her doctor's appointment with her and you will tell her physician the issues that concern you. That MIGHT make her take this seriously.

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                            • KEG123
                              Where Children Grow
                              • Nov 2010
                              • 1252

                              #15
                              baby girl needs to see the doctor, not even necessarily for the low weight, but for the white poop. I've always been told to take to the doctor for white poop. Not to mention the thread linked to above...

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