2 DCF's Pregnant!

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  • wdmmom
    Advanced Daycare.com
    • Mar 2011
    • 2713

    2 DCF's Pregnant!

    I started working for a family back in September. They are due with their 2nd child in March. I know DCM is planning on taking 3 months off and will be needing care sometime in June. I told her back in September that I didn't have any infant spots open but you never know what'll happen in by June.

    She came to me last week and said that they need to know by the first of January if I'll have an opening for the baby or not. I really dont' know! A lot can change in 6 months. If a spot becomes available, they know they are the first ones it'll be offered to. My problem is: I don't know if the boy I watch now (age 3) will be going to preschool in August like the mentioned before. They said they are looking at placing him in a Montessori preschool and it's all day.

    I also have a DCB that is a teachers child. He stays home all summer with his mom. They need to tell me by May 1 if he'll return in August.

    I also have another mom that told me she's pregnant and due in July. I've had their 1st child since he was 7 months old (when she decided to return to work). I'm the only daycare he's ever been to. He's a good kid and my family has grown to love him like he's our own. I know he'll go to preschool next year M, W, F but he only attends here M-Th. With mom being due in July, I haven't spoken to her much about her intentions. I think he wants to drop the child down to 2 or 3 days per week rather than 4. I'm perfectly ok with that. But, I know she's not happy with her job. She likes it and she likes the people she works with but she's told me before that it's the lowest paying job she's had since she's been out of college. That makes me wonder if she'll return.

    Right now I have NO openings. Do you ask your DCF's questions or ask of their intentions while pregnant or do you wait it out and see what they tell you?

    I can take on 2 infants and still be within the guidelines, but 2 of the older kids would have to leave.

    What to do???
  • Blackcat31
    • Oct 2010
    • 36124

    #2
    I ask. I know it is hard for them to make plans so far in advance but I guess that is part of the parenting dance we all do right? Anyways I would want to know and I would most certainly tell the parents that it is going to be hectic in the upcoming months with 2 DCM's pregnant that you are just trying to be pre-emptive so you are asking now about their upcoming plans.

    If I had to find new daycare I would want to know now rather than later....kwim?

    Plus, it might force some of them to commit now. Do you have any type of rules about deposits for holding infant spots?

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    • wdmmom
      Advanced Daycare.com
      • Mar 2011
      • 2713

      #3
      Yes. I only old spots for up to 3 months. And I ask for a 1 month deposit.

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      • Blackcat31
        • Oct 2010
        • 36124

        #4
        I would lay it all on the line for them now then and tell them first come first serve. Let them be the ones to decide who wants the space or not. I try to tell all my parents that this is my policy buuuut sometimes things change and spaces that were available are now no longer available and vice versa. Is there one family versus another you would rather have? If that is the case I would tell them there is an upcoming conflict with having enough room for two babies so you are letting them know now so they can reserve their space.

        I personally would take the family who has the best combination of hours, payment history and kid(s) with good behaviors.

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        • CheekyChick
          Daycare.com Member
          • Dec 2009
          • 810

          #5
          I would send out a letter which asks every parent to tell you of their intentions for fall. I would attach a form which they would have to fill out and return by a certain date. I would never wait around to see what happens. Especially if that meant losing a family that I really liked.

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