Smearing Poop

[MyAngels]

dad sends it.....sleeps on a mat at MOntessori but they "lay down with him". My ex assistant says she remembers dad saying a year ago that they put him in pnp so he'd be safe.

I thought he was asleep. He was in the next room...not even divided by a door, I was reading my book...smelled poop...

Yeah, my fault? Guess I should have been right there to make sure he fell asleep?

I know you've already sent him home, but I think I would have been tempted to just put the pnp outside and sent it home with dad to clean up, since he brought it...ick...

[daycare]

It's cool. I was a bit frazzled and defensive because I suspected dad would blame me in some way like he did before.

That's one thing I can't stand. When parents blame us.

I won't hear it. Ugh

Hope it all worked out in the end

[hoopinglady]

I took the mat outside to spray down with bleach and ended up cleaning it completely. I left it here to dry and sent the shell part of the pnp home in a trash bag. I could have cleaned it too but wanted dad to take responsibility.

He seemed to take it lightly that I did all that, gave baby a bath had to use loaner clothing all while having a houseful of other kids.

He said he'd bring the pjs for nap tomorrow.

He's also blaming the Montessori school because they have babies in with the toddlers....which granted, is not a good idea, IMO BUT that doesn't excuse your child's aggressive behavior.

[christinaskids]

Sounds like he has a developmental delay and needs some type of special help. I would definetly suggest an eval from birth to three or the school. Early intervention is very important.

[hoopinglady]

Supposedly, he has been evaluated but not diagnosed with anything.

His behaviors very strongly indicate that "something" is going on though.

[countrymom]

I have a 3 yr old in a pnp, I do not trust him at all.

[godiva83]

Ugh I have a 'diaper diver' also he is 2 and it drives me nuts - I did the zippered footsie PJ's works well. Mum also questioned me when I said what he did- didn't believe me it happened or thought I left him for hours in a messy diaper- well turns out he did it to them the other weekend, I just smiled